Am I easy?
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Not really? What I meant was, is she the first girl to take an interest in you since you've been dumped. If she is then..... yes, you may be easy. I also think you are confusing love with lust.Renamedsin said:
You probably just think that you feel that way because you are attempting to mentally cope with the loss of your previous relatonship. If the feeling is still there in a couple months its real, if not, I would unfortunately be correct.
Personally, I don't trust anyone enough to get into a relationship.
Personally, I don't trust anyone enough to get into a relationship.
oh quit complaining, theres no need for it, theres no problem that is coming out of this for youRenamedsin said:
Sounds like you got lucky and hit the rebound before you could let the breakup consume you. Do take care though. A few years back when my then-girlfriend and I split up I met another girl a few weeks after and we got along really well. We hung out together, got drunk and did loads of dumb shit together at all hours of the morning(not that). I thought I was in love again but was only half right. It's like the age old 'ever wanted something really bad, then when you got it you didn't want it anymore?' except in this case aswell as eventually realising we were friends first and remaining friends after I gave up a part of my conscience to come to that realisation. It's not a nice feeling.
I know that's horribly worded towards the end aswell but that's the best way I could put it while keeping the story to myself.
I know that's horribly worded towards the end aswell but that's the best way I could put it while keeping the story to myself.
Nah not easy, and don't feel douche y. 4 Hours after I broke up with my ex, I found myself at a party, talking to a wonderful girl. At the time I figured I shouldn't take it anywhere, it was only 4 hours. Now, 3 months later, I am regretting that immensely. I haven't so much as seen her ever since.
Is there some written rule for relationships I don't know about? Look, if you break up with a girl, then 5 minutes later another one walks by and gives you the look, there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking her out. Nothing. When women break up with a guy, apparently there is some sort of grieving period where I think she assumes he'll come running back or something. That's not how it works, so do what you want to do.
You're not in love with her you just fancy her. And that's fine, feel free to act on it, just be aware that you might have residual emotions about your ex (who by the sounds of it you were in love with) that could complicate things a little down the line. But yeah, STOP GETTING YOUR MEANING OF THE WORD 'LOVE' FROM STUPID AMERICAN SITCOMS.
Okay, what ever floats your boat.Renamedsin said:
So then yes, if you can go from being madly in love with someone and then a month later with someone else... then I think you are easy. However there's nothing wrong with that, hopefully this one will be better.
No one chooses when they fall in love, or who with. If you do love this girl, then it's not too early. It means you were meant to fall in love with THIS girl at THIS time. Don't beat yourself up over it. Love, quite possibly, is more important than life.Renamedsin said:
No point in going depressed and crying over shit after a break up.
Especially when a new opportunity comes along.
Carpe diem, my friend.
Especially when a new opportunity comes along.
Carpe diem, my friend.
long post dude. But as I said, being "in love" with someone is something else than loving them. It's a crush, yet stronger than average. as allready stated I know for sure that this is more than lust. I am not one who easily confuse his feelings.Sober Thal said: