am i over reacting?

The Anhk24

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So I asked out a girl Friday and we use to talk everyday. ever since then I bearly hear from her. I'm starting to think that asking her was a bad idea, or am I just over reacting
 

AkJay

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Well, if you asked her out, and then she immediatly stopped talking to you, it's a bad sign. My best advice; talk to her about it. If you really still want to be friends, you're going to have to make the first move. Again.
 

Daveman

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women are strange creatures. maybe she just needs time, maybe shes weirded out, we don't know her so we can't tell you. but trust me, asking her out wasn't a bad idea, it shows you've got balls.
 

ribonuge

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Use the cellular phone. It's a magnificent device.

Really though, it could be many things. If you asked her out, and she said yes then you haven't done anything wrong. All is good. Just try get in touch with her.
 

p3t3r

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well what did she say? you should probably talk to her maybe one of your friends can help you better than some random people from the internet
 

Kathinka

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EClaris said:
I feel like we're missing a huge part of the picture here.
something like that...just not enough info to make a decent judgement.

from the little you told i'd say just ask her about it. *shrugs*
 

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I think that a girl starting to avoid you after you ask her out is a pretty clear sign. Sorry, bro, time to move on to the next one.
 

The Anhk24

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well i get like one txt compared to our txt conversations which use to last like hours...her mom says shes been acting differently but with my mid terms i havent got any time to see her
 

Altorin

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carve her name into your chest and rub ink into the wound.

It worked for Marky Mark Wahlberg's character in Fear.

Oh wait, nvm. He died at the end of that one.
 

viperthejedi

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If you need to get advice about girls from an internet forum then you're screwed. Time to bat for the other team.
 

BonsaiK

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The Anhk24 said:
So I asked out a girl Friday and we use to talk everyday. ever since then I bearly hear from her. I'm starting to think that asking her was a bad idea, or am I just over reacting
EClaris said:
I feel like we're missing a huge part of the picture here.
Yes Eclaris, you are correct.

This problem has been answered in the Relationship Problem Thread, which is at the following link: ---> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=21#4612226 - the background to this story including many of the missing relevant puzzle pieces is also in this thread if you page back once or twice.
 

ottenni

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Well that you asked her is great news. So if things don't work you don't have to worry about voices in your head telling you that the next girl you ask will feed you to tigers or something.
 

Acier

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BonsaiK said:
The Anhk24 said:
So I asked out a girl Friday and we use to talk everyday. ever since then I bearly hear from her. I'm starting to think that asking her was a bad idea, or am I just over reacting
EClaris said:
I feel like we're missing a huge part of the picture here.
Yes Eclaris, you are correct.

This problem has been answered in the Relationship Problem Thread, which is at the following link: ---> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=21#4612226 - the background to this story including many of the missing relevant puzzle pieces is also in this thread if you page back once or twice.
In light of this info, I second BonsaiK and anyone who said "Talk to her"

Just don't seem to upset or clingy and don't act like she did something wrong by distancing herself, she'll only get defensive.
 

Kathinka

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EClaris said:
BonsaiK said:
The Anhk24 said:
So I asked out a girl Friday and we use to talk everyday. ever since then I bearly hear from her. I'm starting to think that asking her was a bad idea, or am I just over reacting
EClaris said:
I feel like we're missing a huge part of the picture here.
Yes Eclaris, you are correct.

This problem has been answered in the Relationship Problem Thread, which is at the following link: ---> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=21#4612226 - the background to this story including many of the missing relevant puzzle pieces is also in this thread if you page back once or twice.
In light of this info, I second BonsaiK and anyone who said "Talk to her"

Just don't seem to upset or clingy and don't act like she did something wrong by distancing herself, she'll only get defensive.
hell maybe it has another reason alltogether that has nothing to do with you. and here you are going out of your mind thinking about why she's acting weird :D

well anyways, we're not getting anywhere unless you talk to her about it.
 

aPod

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Daveman said:
women are strange creatures. maybe she just needs time, maybe shes weirded out, we don't know her so we can't tell you. but trust me, asking her out wasn't a bad idea, it shows you've got balls.
Bingo... i like how you put it sir.