Lieju said:
Yes, this kind of talk makes me kinda uneasy because in my experience whether behaviour is read as sexual or not depends on lot of things, including the genders of the people.
For example, man and a woman kissing = innocent nonsexual.
Two men kissing = SEXXX hide the children.
I got like six replies on this and haven't looked at them yet, but I think I'm going to be revisiting this point. Actually, not so much....
Beyond just that, I mean, it's considered normal for heterosexuals to not just kiss, but kiss pretty heavily, paw at each other, and almost anything short of literal sex. And the only way I could see gays and lesbians outdoing this is by literally going down on each other in the streets en masse, and I add en masse, because it's also common for people to think public sexual exploits are cool as long as it's not some "icky" gay couple doing it.
And yeah, more than likely they have to be considered hot.
Now, I swing more ways than a starfish with nunchucks and I don't mind heterosexuality the way a lot of people who have voiced their opinions do. I still don't like how prevalent it is, and how "normal" it is, while anything else is considered "sick" or inappropriate. Hell, on a personal level, the reactions I get for doing the same things revolve largely around the perceived gender of myself and whoever I happen to be doing it with.
And yeah, if the media used same sex couples/groups to sell products the way heterosexuals are used, I'm pretty sure the pearl clutchers all fainting would cause an earthquake (at least across North America). I remember controversies about commercials where two dudes did things as risqué as...gasp...holding hands.
And this shouldn't really be surprising, given I live in a country that still loses its shit over interracial couples.
Even if we don't go into sexual orientation, how often, unless you specifically seek it out, you see fat people for example engaging in sex or sexualised in media?
Or anyone not considered conventionally hot.
KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
When it gets to me is when people start making comments about people around them they want to sleep with, especially when they go into explicit detail.
You mean like heterosexuals do routinely with very little blowback?
Actually let me go one further. I notice guys do this a lot. Maybe women do and I have a certain level of pattern bias, but this is more illustrative and not meant to be an absolute model of reality. This sort of thing tends to make me...uncomfortable. In my experience, if someone speaks up, the guys get hostile. Picture something along the line of saying that girls in games should be less sexualised.
Personally, depending on how I'm perceived, I am either called a fag and told I'll get my ass kicked, or accused of things like jealousy and subjected to my own barrage of lewd comments. And yes, they can get VERY explicit in terms of what they're going to do to me. I am usually accused of being a puritan or prude or similar (again, the parallels to any gender media debate are pretty good) and told to do anatomically impossible things to myself as though I challenged their God-given right.
I can't preclude the notion that women also do this a lot. The way men treat women tends to resonate more personally, so I admit that I might have a pattern bias. And I can't preclude that women might be equally as hostile (discliamers before someone decides to #notallmen me). But this is not the behaviour I would expect if homosexuals were the more aggressive and explicit ones. In fact, it just looks like gays and lesbians are adopting the type of stupid, puerile sexual behaviour that straight people take for granted.
It's be nice if nobody did it, but in this culture, that is the "norm" right now. It being the "norm" means there are a lot of people doing it. And likely not thinking about it. And probably getting defensive when other people do think about it.
Eric the Orange said:
This wasn't supposed to be a "woe is me, feel sorry for me" kind of thing.
For the record, I didn't think it was and I wasn't trying to bust your hump. There likely was a breakdown in communication, because I simply was confused by your statements and was trying to get to the bottom of them as best as I could.
LetalisK said:
How dare you call "normal" a worthless word. It's a perfectly valid fetish sexual lifestyle.
Look, I have no problem with you normal people. In fact, some of my best friends are normal. I just don't want to have to explain your normalcy to my children. Insert joke about secretly being Breakfastman's mom here.
...sorry, couldn't resist.
SweetShark said:
I don't know. I never watched this episode. I just saw one small clip with the leader of the team [I don't know his name] explaining why Furries exist while seeing them walking like cotrolling drones....
Older CSI episodes (not sure about more recently) that dealt with anything concerning a sexual minority (for which I'll include furries, because these specific instances were sex related) normally feature Gil Grissom with a scientific explanation and a level of understanding, and one or more dead (group of people involved) and a lot of scorn and such.
Grissom is thankfully both knowledgeable of everything and accepting of all.
Praise be to Grissom. Grissom is life. Grissom is love.
No, but seriously, it's been ages since I saw the episode, but I don't remember things going particularly well for furries. Maybe I'm remembering wrong.