I guess technically it isn't the games fault but the angriest I think I've gotten is probably when I played World of Warcraft, and we had some phone issues, so every time the phone would ring, we would lose connection. Doesn't sound like much, but it pissed me off completely every time it happened.
Another time was while playing Soul Calibur 4, and attempting to get far in the tower. Nothing quite like attempting to kill Siegfried 10 times, and getting your ass handed to you, when suddenly, fate smiled, and things was going great, the guys fell like flies, and I got pumped as I reached the last guy, who I now had reasonable health to defeat. And I would have done it, if the cheap little prick hadn't thrown me out of the arena...
But the weird thing is, which has now started to somewhat worry me, nothing ever happened. I was angry, incredibly so, but it never reached further than punching my leg, or the wall, or making an angry face, and then looking down in disappointment. I barely ever get angry doing things, even when it should make want to smash things.