Phoenixmgs said:
I don't know who or what are anime "pop-critics" but I saw the show based on the fact that it's rated as like that best thing ever.
Anime youtubers, bloggers, reviewers, that kind of thing. I don't like them, other than anime review websites just to make sure a show isn't complete trash. If a show gets 1 or 2 stars and it isn't a kneejerk reaction to something, the show probably doesn't have much to offer for the average person.
Here's IMDB's 1st page of reviews for Elfen Lied [https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480489/reviews?ref_=tt_urv], it's like nothing but 10/10s. And, the overall rating is HIGHER than some of the Top 250 best rated movies of all-time. I saw it, and it's literally one of the worst things I've ever seen in my life, and it had nothing to do with subject matter (it was just horribly written with such contrivances that I was rolling my eyes).
I already knew the twist to Elfen Lied beforehand, watched it too and laughed. Once I watched it in context however, I was really saddened by it. I can't explain why Elfen Lied is so highly rated, other than it may have been great at its time, or perhaps it takes a special kind of person to overlook the flaws.
It's probably teenagers and young adults rating it so highly. It's not that popular anyways, and a person watching it has to want something gruesome and sad. It's not a horror movie though, it's more of a tragedy. I think you really need to identify with and really pity Lucy in order for it to click, and that may require some certain life circumstances.
For example, I watched Life, a JDrama, because of a funny meme. What I got was the most awful, tear inducing, heart-wrenching experience. This was painful to watch. Like 8 of the 11 episodes was the main protagonist being bullied relentlessly. I don't really know how most people would react when they watch the show, probably a lot, but it really hits me hard at turbo speed. There are times where it gets drama-y and unrealistic. The show is frustrating where some times you think, "I don't get it. All you have to do is say something."
It's obvious why. It has nothing to do with Japan's culture. When you are subject to this, you think you can take it, it's the only life you know so you identify with the misery. You don't want life to get better, because there is no better. You want the world to pay for your suffering. When you're going to neck yourself, it's not to only escape, but to be a martyr. You want the bullies to feel like murderers, and you want your parents to cry for being oblivious. Only then, will you and your experience be truly understood. It's a postmortem cry for help, if that makes sense. Of course bullies won't give a shit if you kill yourself, and they'll blame you for it and carry on with their lives.
Despite it being so torturous, I think it's a beautiful show. I would assume, I'm not sure though, that it takes a kind of experience to be moved by not just disgust and pity. I personally never experienced the torment to the extent the main protagonist did, but I understand, or I think I do anyways.
When you've experience something like it or you are an angsty teenager, shows like Elfen Lied are really appealing. There are some aspects you come to appreciate more. That's my guess anyways.
Also don't trust user review averages. Oni Chichi, a hentai anime, for some time had a higher score than the End of Evangelion on MyAnimeList.