Anyone else finally getting sick of the unrelenting grimdarkness of GoT?

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So this was originally supposed to be a post in another thread, but after writing it out and thinking about it more I decided it would make a decent discussion topic. Sorry to pollute the site with yet another Game of Thrones thread, but those of you don't care about the show should probably have known this time of year would be insufferable.

I don't know if I'm just in a bad mood here, but is anyone else getting sick of the tone of Game of Thrones? I understand that it's supposed to be grim, and I'm normally a fan of the darker, more cynical, morally ambiguous stories, but for some reason Season 6, Episode 3 just left me wanting to grab a length of rope and practice my noose tying techniques. This isn't really the only problem, just the spark for me to look at the show overall more critically and find various problems have been in the back of my mind for a while now.
Grim is fine by me, but when you have six whole seasons of grim, grim, and more grim it just begins to feel monotonous. The red wedding was shocking because there was still some hope left in the story at that point, but upon thinking about it I've just realized that I genuinely don't know who I'm rooting for (if anyone) and what exactly it is I want to come from this.

As much as people (myself included) have complained in the past about them softening Tyrion's flaws and turning him into a quip machine, he's quickly becoming my favorite part of the show just because there's still some fun left in his scenes. Unfortunately, it's going to take more than well placed quips to make things feel less pointlessly miserable; there needs to be something that goes right for some of the characters and injects some kind of happiness in them. Speaking of which ...
If Ramsey ends up either killing or torturing Rickon Stark (or Osha, I guess) then it's going to be rather hard for me to feel anything about the show anymore. Seriously, I've never liked either character, and I haven't cared about them up until this point, nor have I ever been one to get upset over a child dying, but I'm just so starved for some kind of levity in the show that I'll take what I can get.

With winter basically here, as has been threatened throughout the show, I've always felt it would get more grim before it gets better, if at all, but at this point if things get worse I'm not sure I can maintain my interest in the show.

Another thing I've been thinking for a while, and I feel is becoming increasingly true, is that the show seems to have lost any sense of purpose. This was the major criticism of A Fest For Crows and A Dance With Dragons to a lesser extent, that they both felt rather meandering without any direction. Every season is feeling less and less like a story in its own right, and more and more like an indistinct slice of a whole; lacking in any form or identity of its own.
In fact, it's gotten so pointless that I'm legitimately unsure of what most of the characters even want now, and how their current actions and situation even relate to that. Does Daenerys even care about taking the iron throne any more? I legitimately can't remember. What exactly is Jon doing at this point? He's alive again, and before he died he was ... being part of the Night's Watch, I guess. I suppose he's still defending against the white walkers ... somehow. What do the Lannisters want? Power? Money? Okay, anything more specific? Isn't that what they've always wanted? I guess they want revenge now, just like everyone else. Even in the book I've forgotten what Arya wants. She seemed to want revenge, but now she's learning to give up her past so she can ... become one of the faceless men, I guess? And once that happens she'll do what exactly? Why?
I'm not saying the show/books don't have answers for these questions, but despite reading every single book, and watching every single episode multiple times, and reading through large parts of the wiki, in the time since the last season I've managed to forget most of this trivia and am now finding the show so lacking in structure that upon taking a step back and looking at it as a whole it just seems to be a blur of events and characters. Not to quote Yahtzee or anything, but "it's just a whole load of people doing stuff."

I've enjoyed the rich political structure of the universe, but I don't think you can just have a story comprised of an endless stream of betrayals and political upheavals. I've always felt this type of thing is better as the glue that holds together a bigger plot, and I used to think that was the case, with the bigger plot being about the dragons and white walkers, but both of those elements seem to be taking a fucking long break in the green room at this point.
People have been complaining about the lack of dragons and white walkers pretty much from the beginning, and I used to dismiss their complaints as childish demands to put more focus on the more fantastical elements. I used to pass them off as a bunch of dumb-dumbs who don't care about story or characters, and just want to see people fight monsters in bombastic action scenes. Well, allow me to put on my dunce cap, because most of the characters are dead or miserable, and the story has been spinning its wheels for the past few seasons, so I'll take the shlock if the alternative is a meandering stream of human misery.
I thought I would have the patience for this, but the painfully slow drip feeding of any elements that have even the faintest veneer of relevance to the overarching story is really getting on my nerves. I feel like we're supposed to just assume all of this will come together in the end and contribute to some overall purpose, even though so much of it just looks like filler and time wasting due to the directionlessness of it all in the moment.
At least we're getting more of Bran at this point, because his plot and Daenerys's feel like the only stories that have any significance.

That's not to say I've given up on the show; I'll still be following it, but the unending grimness of it and lack of any strong overarching plot to distract me from it is beginning to wear down my interest.

Does anyone else think the story lacks direction and structure, and is anyone else getting sick of the constant misery? This post turned out a lot longer and more negative than I thought it would be when I started, but hey, I can think of something else that could apply to ...
 

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I completely gave up on the show during the episode where Sansa got raped. Not cuz 'eww rape', but because it was symbolic for the show just seemingly not making any headway with its characters. My patience was already wearing thin by that point, but that moment just clinched it.

I never read the books, but my understanding from the first season was that it was all about the conflict between the Starks, the Lannisters, and Daenerys. But all three parties are basically whittled down to nothing now, and so too has the purpose of the story. It's just a bunch of assholes now walking around being dicks, while "the heroes" are persistently biding their time in squalor.
 

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Casual Shinji said:
I completely gave up on the show during the episode where Sansa got raped. Not cuz 'eww rape', but because it was symbolic for the show just seemingly not making any headway with its characters. My patience was already wearing thin by that point, but that moment just clinched it.

I never read the books, but my understanding from the first season was that it was all about the conflict between the Starks, the Lannisters, and Daenerys. But all three parties are basically whittled down to nothing now, and so too has the purpose of the story. It's just a bunch of assholes now walking around being dicks, while "the heroes" are persistently biding their time in squalor.
During the first 4 seasons I used to like the story for where I thought it was going to go. In broad terms, you have an army of white walkers coming down to fuck everyone up as soon as winter arrives, you have some woman who's going to return from afar to fuck everyone up as soon as her dragons are fully grown, and you have a bunch of people bickering over some iron chair. Great, cool, you have a bunch of people who should be uniting against their common foe, but are too preoccupied with their own agendas to do so. It seemed like a story of the uncooperative nature of humans being their downfall, and it might well still be, but they keep stretching it out and postponing the ending in favor of ... nothing, really.

I used to think they were just waiting for the dragons to grow full sized and maybe for winter to arrive as well, and so they were kind of just forced to fill the time, but winter is basically here and the dragons are doing fuck all, so I have no idea what they're waiting for now.
 

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Its called Dark Fantasy. Of course its going to be grim. And I love every minute of it.

If you want a more lighter mood in your fantasy taste that the Warcraft mabye for you. But then again Warcraft 3 had plenty of Dark Moments I mean fuckin Arthas and the Lich King.
 

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FirstNameLastName said:
During the first 4 seasons I used to like the story for where I thought it was going to go. In broad terms, you have an army of white walkers coming down to fuck everyone up as soon as winter arrives, you have some woman who's going to return from afar to fuck everyone up as soon as her dragons are fully grown, and you have a bunch of people bickering over some iron chair. Great, cool, you have a bunch of people who should be uniting against their common foe, but are too preoccupied with their own agendas to do so. It seemed like a story of the uncooperative nature of humans being their downfall, and it might well still be, but they keep stretching it out and postponing the ending in favor of ... nothing, really.

I used to think they were just waiting for the dragons to grow full sized and maybe for winter to arrive as well, and so they were kind of just forced to fill the time, but winter is basically here and the dragons are doing fuck all, so I have no idea what they're waiting for now.
I honestly can't even remember much of what happened in Season 4 (or 5). It's like after the Red Wedding the show started to meander like a bunch of blind cats. Characters and story arcs get introduced and immediately dropped. I mean, whatever happened to Dennis Pennis and his ressurection powers? Or remember when Theon's sister was all set on rescuing her brother from torture -- she took a boat with a host of men and everything -- and after one attempt, and seeing that he's been sort of brainwashed, she instantly gives up? And then that's the last we see of her. Great, that was worthy of a stinger at the end of Seaon 3, alright.

I don't exactly know what the end game was going to be, but this is getting more frivolous than Berserk.
 

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Casual Shinji said:
FirstNameLastName said:
During the first 4 seasons I used to like the story for where I thought it was going to go. In broad terms, you have an army of white walkers coming down to fuck everyone up as soon as winter arrives, you have some woman who's going to return from afar to fuck everyone up as soon as her dragons are fully grown, and you have a bunch of people bickering over some iron chair. Great, cool, you have a bunch of people who should be uniting against their common foe, but are too preoccupied with their own agendas to do so. It seemed like a story of the uncooperative nature of humans being their downfall, and it might well still be, but they keep stretching it out and postponing the ending in favor of ... nothing, really.

I used to think they were just waiting for the dragons to grow full sized and maybe for winter to arrive as well, and so they were kind of just forced to fill the time, but winter is basically here and the dragons are doing fuck all, so I have no idea what they're waiting for now.
I honestly can't even remember much of what happened in Season 4 (or 5). It's like after the Red Wedding the show started to meander like a bunch of blind cats. Characters and story arcs get introduced and immediately dropped. I mean, whatever happened to Dennis Pennis and his ressurection powers? Or remember when Theon's sister was all set on rescuing her brother from torture -- she took a boat with a host of men and everything -- and after one attempt, and seeing that he's been sort of brainwashed, she instantly gives up? And then that's the last we see of her. Great, that was worthy of a stinger at the end of Seaon 3, alright.

I don't exactly know what the end game was going to be, but this is getting more frivolous than Berserk.
Here is a video as to how this whole story could potentially end if you want to know now according to this youtuber and trust me this video is pretty good and it concerns the Others (White Walkers):

 

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It's not the grimdarkness that puts me off, its the fact that almost every friend of mine pretty much faps to the bloody show and can't stop talking about it. Truly, you hear enough about something you start to hate it!
 

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Samtemdo8 said:
Here is a video as to how this whole story could potentially end if you want to know now according to this youtuber and trust me this video is pretty good and it concerns the Others (White Walkers):
Thanks, but I really don't care anymore. I reckon the show's ending will depend on how much, if at all, its popularity will have dropped by then.
 

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Casual Shinji said:
Samtemdo8 said:
Here is a video as to how this whole story could potentially end if you want to know now according to this youtuber and trust me this video is pretty good and it concerns the Others (White Walkers):
Thanks, but I really don't care anymore. I reckon the show's ending will depend on how much, if at all, its popularity will have dropped by then.
Well to shorten the video explains that the climax may not be some grand epic final battle of rightousness against the "evil" White Walkers ala Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter.
 

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While I'm certainly enjoying this season more than the last I do agree on this really poor handling of tone and the meandering of the plot. I know Bran is only going to spend the entire season learning more about Eddard's past culminating in the reveal of Jon Snow's father, but at least seeing him in his dream-sequences is actually an indicator that stuff is gonna happen.

And just watch them pull another Season 4 and make it so Sansa shows up at Castle Black immediately after Jon Snow has left because God forbid we have levity other than Tyrion and Varys' scenes.

Additionally I guarantee Tommen will be turned to the dark side by the bloody High Sparrow and will forbid his mother from just exterminating them. Because the plot is not allowed to advance, we need to keep the Lannisters in King's Landing not dealing with Dorne or the North.
 

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If you wanted frolicking unicorns then you got the wrong show, this show is about some dark messed up shit, if dark messed up shit isn't for you then try something else.
I'm really not sure how people keep missing that feature of freely choosing ones entertainment, or maybe you are held captive and forced to watch GoT? Well then you need to find some way to escape first, that is a most pressing matter.
 

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Hoo, boy, I was saying this way back during A Feast for Crows. Heck, probably earlier. Of course, the series was only reaching the height of its popularity, so everyone told me I was nuts.

The answer is... sort of. There are two major problems. The first is that, when you kill major characters so routinely, you stop caring. Most of the original cast is dead, and they were the reason you were invested. When new characters arrive, the question isn't if they'll die, it's when they'll die. Eventually you're left with little reason to care about the outcome of the story. It's the same reason Walking Dead has become a slog.

The second, possibly bigger issue, is the pacing. Would Macbeth have been as effective if it had been a five thousand page novel series? The actual stories, and characters, aren't going anywhere. This turns the series into a quagmire of awfulness. Everyone is dying, or being raped, or being tortured, and the story isn't progressing at all. You're just going in circles, with no end in sight. The reason the first book/season was good was because it was dynamic. It was pretty fast paced, and felt like it was going somewhere interesting. Now... not so much.

G.R.R.M. and his audience
 

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Nope, especially because Game of Thrones is pretty much my only exposure to serious grimdark at the moment. I don't really watch, play or read anything that dark and dreadful.

Also, somehow the show feels a little less grimdark this season, actually. It feels to me like the shards of the previous seasons are slowly getting picked up and stuff is slowly getting worked out. I actually feel like shit's progressing this time around, the various plots are actually going somewhere. It also helps that they're entwining some plotlines more closely, bringing the total number of separate plotlines down a bit.

Well except for Danny. That's still taking way too long even though I'm pretty sure of where it's going to go.
Casual Shinji said:
I completely gave up on the show during the episode where Sansa got raped. Not cuz 'eww rape', but because it was symbolic for the show just seemingly not making any headway with its characters. My patience was already wearing thin by that point, but that moment just clinched it.
If it's any consolation, after the absolutely terrible last season, with the Sansa rape as one of its two deepest lows, the new season is actually turning out to be really good. Like, first-season-good, if you ask me. Sansa's actually getting agency again! Shit's actually happening! Plots are *gasp* progressing! Characters are developing and aren't simply dicks any more! It's a smorgasbord.

Except for Dorne. Fuck Dorne.
 

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Casual Shinji said:
I completely gave up on the show during the episode where Sansa got raped. Not cuz 'eww rape', but because it was symbolic for the show just seemingly not making any headway with its characters. My patience was already wearing thin by that point, but that moment just clinched it.
Casual Shinji said:
I honestly can't even remember much of what happened in Season 4 (or 5). It's like after the Red Wedding the show started to meander like a bunch of blind cats. Characters and story arcs get introduced and immediately dropped. I mean, whatever happened to Dennis Pennis and his ressurection powers? Or remember when Theon's sister was all set on rescuing her brother from torture -- she took a boat with a host of men and everything -- and after one attempt, and seeing that he's been sort of brainwashed, she instantly gives up? And then that's the last we see of her. Great, that was worthy of a stinger at the end of Seaon 3, alright.
I know this probably won't mean much to you, but I feel compelled to bring it up anyway (obsessive that I am); each of these major issues you brought up (and I agree wholeheartedly, they're tremendous weak points) are unique to the show, and are absent in the books.

In ASOIAF, there is no rape of Sansa by Ramsay; Beric Dondarrion's plot (and the relevance of resurrection) is followed further, giving it a wider significance, but I won't say how; and Asha Greyjoy never goes on her rescue mission to The Dreadfort (she's not even aware of where Theon is).

As I said, probably means quite little to you, but I just wouldn't want the books judged by decisions unique to the show-writers.
 

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Its called Dark Fantasy. Of course its going to be grim. And I love every minute of it.

If you want a more lighter mood in your fantasy taste that the Warcraft mabye for you. But then again Warcraft 3 had plenty of Dark Moments I mean fuckin Arthas and the Lich King.
You know what else is Dark Fantasy? Dark Souls. Funnily enough, it managed to go without including constant never ending bleakness, throwing in rape because "Mature" and killing off random characters with no rhyme or reason in a desperate attempt to "raise the stakes."

The problem isn't that Game of Thrones is dark fantasy. It's BAD dark fantasy.
 

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To be honest, I grew a little tired of the grim darkness of ASOIAF from the books. It is not that I expect all fantasy to be nice and cute, far from it... but so far, I have grown to believe that:
(a) George Martin has the basic guidelines of a story, but no idea how to get there and how long it will take (how long has winter being coming? I know it is a long winter there, but autumn is not a pushover either);
(b) he is a firm believer in the school of writing of "define your characters and let them loose so the story follow their logical progression" (the first book can be defined as "what happens if you put classical fantasy characters in a cynical version of the setting"), and
(c) he loves writing new characters all the time, even when they eventually lead nowhere (he often creates important characters and kills them off in the same book).

Given that, I think the only logical conclusion based on 5 books is: the White Walkers cross the wall, which was severely undermanned, and they conquered Westeros with little opposition, since all the feudal lords were too busy, too grouchy and too gullibly at each others throat that didn't notice the zombie apocalypse coming.

So far, I applaud the show writers decision to unceremoniously kill off the Martells, Boltons and many others in the first chapters. It is their way of saying those threads are not important enough to pursue, and they are not entirely onboard with the author's way of spamming secondary characters with little agency to milk for content. If it were for GRRM they would have been killed in the last chapters and would make 1/3 of the book feel inconsequential.
 

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erttheking said:
Samtemdo8 said:
Its called Dark Fantasy. Of course its going to be grim. And I love every minute of it.

If you want a more lighter mood in your fantasy taste that the Warcraft mabye for you. But then again Warcraft 3 had plenty of Dark Moments I mean fuckin Arthas and the Lich King.
You know what else is Dark Fantasy? Dark Souls. Funnily enough, it managed to go without including constant never ending bleakness, throwing in rape because "Mature" and killing off random characters with no rhyme or reason in a desperate attempt to "raise the stakes."

The problem isn't that Game of Thrones is dark fantasy. It's BAD dark fantasy.
I found the first game Demon's Souls increadibly bleak and depressing.

Also you expect people like Ramsey to be above rape?

And dude most of the deaths in the show had reasons to why they had to die.

Game of Thrones tone is fine the way it is. Besides asking for levity and hope in this show is like asking for levity and hope in 1984.
 

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Yeah, I lost interest in the show by the end of season, uh, four? I think? Grimdark is fine and all but when it just goes on, and on, and on, it starts to become rather wearing.
 

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No I'm not tired of it, since it's meant to be grimdark. I don't see how it's odd for a show that is based on a series of ridiculously dark and brutal books...to be dark and brutal.

And there are comic relief characters, Sam for one. But he's a fairly small part of the plot.

Just like I wouldn't get mad at Friends for having "wacky hijinx" and "relationship drama/comedy", since that's what the show is about. Now you can not like it, that's fine, that's a different issue, but I don't think it's out of place for the show.