Ibanez887 said:
Fenring said:
No, you probably messed up the delivery of the joke. If it isn't 100% clear what you're saying is a joke, someone is going to take you seriously.
I didn't mess up the delivery, I referenced that a lot of Mexicans start to drink while underage, which is a stereotype among us (more so in the South)and no one seemed to realize that I just stereotyped myself and that I made fun of my own race
So you singled out a stereotype about Mexicans, which is well known to Mexicans, and then when your friends didn't laugh and instead talked to you about why underage drinking is bad you thought they just didn't get it?
If they think that that is something wrong with the culture, or that you'd been drinking and they had a problem with it then they would be inclined to convince you of the problems with underage drinking. Were they meant to stand around and laugh about drunk little mexican kids, if it went against their understanding of alcohol and the laws around it? are they the kind of people who would?
I think that if it were an untrue stereotype (which you've said it isn't) it would've been a joke, but it sounds like you presented it as a fact and your friends reacted to it as such.
Also, it would've been politically correct to say "oh, well, they're allowed to give their kids alcohol because that's a part of their culture" irrespective of whether it is or not. His friends did the politically incorrect thing by saying that there was a problem with what those parents were doing. Serious and politically correct are different things. If you're going to hate something, figure out what it is first.