Are we truly good?

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geldonyetich

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Unless there's something weird going on with them (e.g. they've got a mental illness, poor self-control, or twisted agenda that drives them to misbehave deliberately) just about everybody on the planet is doing what's right.

Conflict between people arises because what's good or bad is a matter of opinion. There is no universal, we build our concepts of right and wrong from what learn from our environment, and everyone's is a little different. When these opinions start trampling on each other, that's the stuff wars are made of.

As for the Escapist forums... well, I've found myself on the receiving end of moderator wrath more than once for being a bit too abrasive for young sensibilities to handle. I'm pretty sure whoever I was talking down to deserved it, but that's not the mod's problem. It's a public forum on the Internet, they don't have the manpower to discern who was in the right, they're forum moderators, not court judges. Justice here is of the frontier variety, inaccurate and quickly delivered, because when you're less than a dozen lawmen handling a community of several hundred thousand, that's about the best you can do.

Does that mean the Escapist forums are bad? Well, I'd say the worst bit is that the ignorant teen prattle has taken over. Enforcing tone is easy enough, if prone to mistakes, but enforcing intellectual quality of posts takes a level of manpower they did not have. However, while ignorance may be the true root of most evil, youth isn't quite the same thing. I say the truly good are those of us who strive to learn as the best they can and never settle for easy convictions. Those of us who embrace ignorance, who wield stale ideals as bludgeons to stave off the struggle of perpetually grokking reality, there are your wanton perpetrators of wrong. Which path you prefer has little to do with age.

So perhaps the forums are a good place. Sure, they're predominantly terrible wastes of time, but they wouldn't be this much fun if you weren't learning something here, and if you're learning, some good is coming of it.
 

Bad Marmoset

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I am good because I am good although this hasn't always been the case. I have no fear of banning or suspension and view badges as a nice-to-have but not particularly important, like achievements in games. I try to treat everyone fairly and as I would want to be treated myself, this is an important thing to me. If I am in a thread and someone is being a pointlessly annoying arse then I will either ignore them or, alternatively, try to explain to them why I think they are being an arse in as clear a way as I can but any rage (need to punch/throttle etc.) that I feel will be handled elsewhere (or, possibly, not handled at all). I see this a matter of taste and manners. There is far too much bad, anti-social and idiotic behaviour on the internet without me adding to it. Although, I have to say that this site is not a major source of internet idiocy because it is generally intelligently regulated from what I can see and maybe because of that it seems to attract people who genuinely want to converse with each other. Although, I have only been a member for a few days I have been a lurker for a a lot longer and have watched this site with interest. In the threads that I have watched I have, of course, seen some ridiculous and insulting behaviour but I have also seen compassion, intelligence and humour in far greater quantity. That is why I am here.

On a slightly different note, I am always surprised that a lot of the hate and stupidity that you see on the internet makes it past the keyboard stage. It is easy to react adversely to things in day to day life and say something you regret, I mean your mouth is right there, on your face and attached to your brain in various ways. In forming actual words that express your feelings and typing them out on a keyboard surely there is time in there somewhere to self-regulate?