Happiness is provided to me by the one perfect thing on this world. I am disconected to her for the next 2 months.
I'm not that happy right now.
I'm not that happy right now.
I agree completely.GartarkMusik said:I think I know what it is that makes you so happy, if you'd care to hear it. Freedom. Knowing that whatever choices you make, they're yours and yours alone, and no one can take it from you. Just my thoughts. It's nice to see someone that can appreciate the little things in life.-Samurai- said:Big ole snip.![]()
Your life is exactly what I'm aiming for right meow. Exactly.-Samurai- said:Actually....Yes.
While at the grocery store a few nights ago, I realized a few things:
1) That I love going to the store at 11:30 at night.
2) I'm oddly happy with my current situation.
I'm a 24 year old, single male working two retail jobs 7 days a week. After my rent and other bills, I never have enough money left over to buy things I want instead of need.
The feeling of coming home alone every night, eating dinner, and going to bed to be up for work the next morning had me starting to feel a tad depressed. Then, one night, as I was walking through the grocery store, singing loudly to my iPod and watching all the people stare at me as I gleefully chucked food into my basket, I had the sudden realization that I was happy.
I don't need a ton of money. I pay my bills and I eat. I'm fine.
I don't need a relationship. I've been single for 5 years, and it's about time I embrace it. Apartment unbearably hot? Underwear+AC=comfortable. I'm not tied to anyone, I depend on no one, and no one depends on me. Do I miss the closeness of another person? Sure. But I don't need it.
I can't really explain what made me realize that I'm happy. It's like something just switched on.
I'm happy. I love life. I love living, and I'm alive.
I've got great friends, great parents, and I'm making new friends at work.
I have a clean home, good, plentiful food, and plenty of things to keep me entertained.
What more could I ask for?
Not really happy, although i try my hardest to convince myself i am , Lack of self confidence + extremely anti-social ( having a stranger talk to me while im waiting for the bus is the worst thing that could happen to me and would completly ruin my day ). So the i got like 1 friend. I also have a decent job , but i work with people i hate ( anti-social remember ?) but i get the bills paid and have enough money for my gaming hobby. I think i would be happier if i could convince myself to be social.Jedoro said:I have a plan, job, truck, shotgun, ammo, and place I can call my home. Not happy, but definitely content.
How about you, OP? No mention of if you're happy or not.
Well, you're on the right track. Don't worry about convincing yourself you're happy, think of changes that you think would make you happy and make them. The confidence, that you have to convince yourself of. You tell yourself enough times that you're awesome, and soon enough you'll start to believe it, then you'll become awesome. Learning to play mind games with yourself actually goes a long way.krazykidd said:Not really happy, although i try my hardest to convince myself i am , Lack of self confidence + extremely anti-social ( having a stranger talk to me while im waiting for the bus is the worst thing that could happen to me and would completly ruin my day ). So the i got like 1 friend. I also have a decent job , but i work with people i hate ( anti-social remember ?) but i get the bills paid and have enough money for my gaming hobby. I think i would be happier if i could convince myself to be social.Jedoro said:I have a plan, job, truck, shotgun, ammo, and place I can call my home. Not happy, but definitely content.
How about you, OP? No mention of if you're happy or not.
dont worry, the thing your craving is right around the corner. but remember, you have to go get it. it wont come to you. have faith and just relax every now and again.Dango said:No.
I'm extremely lonely, with very few people left that I can still call friends.