Yes haha I've been reading what people have to say and I feel both sides have their points, but hearing a girl say that kinda makes me think this guys a little shifty...Scarecrow 8 said:
Also welcome.
Attraction explained: how to talk to women
- Thread starter hortez the champion of the frozen wastes
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Also welcome.
I'm a girl. You know the best way to talk to me? Talk to me. Seriously. If you see me somewhere, come over, say hi. It's not that hard. Why not assume women are people, instead of some kind of exotic animal that you need a specific strategy to hunt. It's just objectification of a different kind, and ultimately it might not actually work out that well for you, when you meet the girl of your dreams and she finds out that you were manipulating her from the start.
I also resent the implication that I'm not going to judge you based on appearance. If you come over and talk to me clean shaven, looking like you've showered recently, wearing clothes that look like they've been washed, and like you actually care about your physical appearance to some degree, you're going to elicit a much better response than the creepy, sweaty, smelly, bearded creature from the black lagoon trying to get in my pants. You can bet I'm judging him on more than his confidence.
I also resent the implication that I'm not going to judge you based on appearance. If you come over and talk to me clean shaven, looking like you've showered recently, wearing clothes that look like they've been washed, and like you actually care about your physical appearance to some degree, you're going to elicit a much better response than the creepy, sweaty, smelly, bearded creature from the black lagoon trying to get in my pants. You can bet I'm judging him on more than his confidence.
ROFLROFLROFLROFLROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHA -deep breath- BAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahaha wow dude thats awesome!!tiredinnuendo said:I'll just leave this here for you:
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So... you're giving tips on how to trick girls into thinking you don't just want in their pants so that you can get in their pants?
Being attractive helps. I lost out to the hawaiian dude with the mild 6 pack. If your not attractive, you're out of the game.
WTF is this!? This is possibly the stupidest thing I have ever read in a "how to get the girl" thread. No really, I've seen a lot of stupid threads like this but this one takes the cake.hortez the champion of the frozen wastes said:
In reference to the rest of the post: You really expect me to want to act like someone that I'm not to "get the girl?" I can't imagine a more disrespectful and self destructive approach. No, I'm going to continue being nothing like you just posted and when I find that special someone, she's going to love me for ME, not some act I put on like a monkey with a music box.
Relationships based on this kind of thought will only end in disaster when the little mask you built yourself crumbles and she sees your real face.
Damnit, I normally manage to avoid these threads but this one really bugs me. >.<
Good advice. Social status is universally attractive, especially to women.
Only problem with this kind of advice or any advice is that it gets over analyzed. Too much thinking tends to be a bad thing.
It really helps if you have a real reason to talk to a woman that doesn't involve picking her up. My advice is to not think (and to not think about not thinking). Focus on the girl and not yourself and have fun.
Only problem with this kind of advice or any advice is that it gets over analyzed. Too much thinking tends to be a bad thing.
It really helps if you have a real reason to talk to a woman that doesn't involve picking her up. My advice is to not think (and to not think about not thinking). Focus on the girl and not yourself and have fun.
I think you're trying too hard OP. I can't possibly begin to tread social waters with so many needless rules,generalizations and a wall of text listing common courtesies, it makes things more difficult than they should be.
