befriending people on the escapist

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Satin6T

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I only have 3 friends on my profile on the escapist, and for the longest time I didn't have any. One of them is a guy I hang out with on a regular basis but the other two are users on the escapist that I've never met before.

one of them friended me because we have the same last name and I don't quite know why the other one did

so heres my question
if you do, when do you friend people on the escapist?
 

MrGFunk

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Oct 29, 2008
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Usually when I like things people have said, like they make me laugh or I think they've made a good point.

I did befriend three people because they enjoyed the book House of Leaves by Mark Z. Danielewski. Any reason is good, I'm yet to block someone.

Has anyone ever done this?
 

Galletea

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Sep 27, 2008
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Personally I tend to befriend people if they interest me, either by engaging my interest in a post or just on a whim. There's no science to it. Sometimes it's just people who agree with me. I haven't added anyone in a while though.
 

Ciarang

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So far I know two people from the escapist [small]( well three but I only talk to two )[/small]
But I hope for that number to grow bigger as I make try to go on this site more often
 

JanatUrlich

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Usually people friend me, but I've added a couple of people because of their avatars or because they're attractive or because they've said something interesting
 

afaceforradio

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I've got quite a few 'friends' on here that have added me, but I think I've only spoke to one or two of them on Twitter here and there. I don't anyone on here personally.
 

Hawk of Battle

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I don't often befrein people on any forum I frequent. I only have 1 person friended on escapist, because she was cool and likes Kamelot.
 

Soxafloppin

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Jun 22, 2009
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Hmmm when they befriend me, or if i have a question to ask them, say..about there avatar or username.
 

McHanhan

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Sep 13, 2009
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I think the most friends comes from the RP section. If you play forums games together the chances are good that you will be added as a friend or become friends.
 

Apache2142

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Generally people which entertain me and others/have something in common/ seem awesome thats me i guess...im intrested to see why others do! But it does not matter on this site really-not like you can interact much on it...but its a nice gesture to befriend :)
 

JRCB

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I'll add someone if I really like their point of view on something, seem like a nice person, or helped with troll slaying (yes, I do have two people from that).
 

Kiefer13

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I only have three friends on The Escapist at the moment, two of whom are people I knew online before I registered, and the other being someone that PM'd me complimenting my avatar, which led to a short exchange about Diskworld. I haven't talked to them since, but I still continue to talk to the other two over MSN as I did before I joined.

Basically, I tend to stick to a "wait until they add me first" policy when it comes to friends on forums. That said, if people do add me, I'll gladly add them back (as long as I have a vague idea of who they are, and I don't despise them or anything).
 

Trivun

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Dec 13, 2008
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I add people when I agree with their views or opinions and feel that the person is a genuinely likeable person. Otherwise I'll add those who add me. For the most part it's the former category, rather than the latter.
 

Anachronism

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I'll befriend someone after one of two things happens.

1. They make a point that I strongly agree with, in which case I'll send a PM explaining why I befriended them.
2. I have a good discussion with them which both of us enjoy and doesn't turn into a flamewar.

If they happen to befriend me first, I'll return the favour. However, if someone befriends me whom I've never talked to before, then it's unlikely I'll befriend them.
 

LockHeart

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Most of my friends come from the RP section. I don't know anyone here in real life though.