Bi The Way

[Sandjube]

I'm not actually sure what you want me to say. Yes, you could, conceivably, maybe, possibly, be bi? Does it matter? I can't wait 'till this become a thing that people don't care about, at all. It's already kind of that way on the internet but real life experience says otherwise, for me. MEH. Enjoy having sex/not having sex/masturbating to gay porn, at some point if you want to, maybe. Or not. Doesn't matter.

 

[DarklordKyo]

I've felt that I might be bi for a while now (or at least bicurious). The thing is, I've found some dudes appealing, but plenty of straight dudes have mancrushes due to GAR factor (on top of the fact that I've never been in a relationship with another dude). I know I'm not gay because I've been genuinely attracted to women (and am in a happy relationship with my girlfriend Ashley). Point is, how do I know if I'm straight, bi, or somewhere inbetween?

Take a protractor and measure the angle of your penis while watching regular porn, then divide that by the angle of your penis while watching gay porn. Then multiply that by the square root of the circumference of your biceps while fully flexed (in cm) Square that, then subtract the number of men you've had sex with. If you get a number less than 3, congratulations, YOUR GAY!

Is that what you wanted? Sorry it doesn't really work that way.

The best advice I can give is to not jump to conclusions, I'm pretty sure there's a large difference between having a "mancrush" and being sexually attracted to men.

LMAO, at this point I don't care if I get nothing but trolls, this post made the whole thread worth it.

 

[maxben]

I've felt that I might be bi for a while now (or at least bicurious). The thing is, I've found some dudes appealing, but plenty of straight dudes have mancrushes due to GAR factor (on top of the fact that I've never been in a relationship with another dude). I know I'm not gay because I've been genuinely attracted to women (and am in a happy relationship with my girlfriend Ashley). Point is, how do I know if I'm straight, bi, or somewhere inbetween?

TL;DR If I think I might be bi, am I bi?

Honestly, just be truthful with yourself. Do you like penis? I mean, it's one thing to find a man attractive, its quite another interacting with a penis. My girlfriend for example can find girls attractive but finds the idea of playing with a vagina that is not her own to be terrifying and not sexy at all. She really is the most hetero person I know. For guys its a little different because it is less appropriate today to appreciate the male form, so you immediately jump to the "am I gay?" thing.

One way to check is to watch gay porn, sure, but for those on the more hetero side of the spectrum with some bi tendencies a good test is just watching straight porn and focusing on the penis. Are you fascinated by it? Do you want to do the things you see the girls do with it? Great, you are bi. Of course you ought to try that a couple of times because maybe that guy or that penis was just particularly not arousing to you, but still. Unlike the other people in this thread, I am getting faaaar away from the question of whether you like girls or guys as a package or as specific individuals, and focusing purely on the sexual organ and actual sex.

The question of "if you were bi, what can of bi would you be?" is the one I think is unnecessary to answer though you can dissect it, but you can certainly tell if you are or are not.