Biggest Turn-Off

[Hwoof]

Fat....
yes I am shallow but it really turns me off more than anything other than that I don't care about much.

Nothing shallow about it, friend.

ho ho ho! i see what you did there

 

[DefunctTheory]

Flirting.
I'm dead serious, there's nothing more annoying to me than having a girl act as phony as humanly possible with the intent of catching my interest.

It's just so transparently phony and it drives me crazy. just be yourself, if that goes somewhere then great, if not well then at least I didn't waste my time getting to know someone who turns out to be terrible.

I'm sad that you've obviously never ACTUALLY flirted.

Real flirting is not fake, its not coy... its organic and fun. Hell, I flirt all the time without the intention of asking for dates, and the female and I usually have a great time with it.

I'm really sorry for you, bro.

 

[nelsonr100]

Bossy and know it all women, plus of course smokers. A big one for me is actually fat women. It sounds bad saying it but fatness is a real big turn off for me and I can;t really help it.

 

[Ziggy109]

Ignorance. The last young lass I was with was a fairly nerdy girl, so I was comfortable talking to her about games and the like, but when I told her I played D&D she freaked out. She's one of those people who believe that D&D = devil worship. :|

 

[Red Bomb]

Lack of humour, arrogance and racism. Also any man thats outwardly agressive.

So long as you like animals, games, George Carlin & Dylan Moran I'll be happy.

 

[deadxero]

Egotism/uselessness.

Basically the type of woman that thinks shes so amazing, whether she actually is or not, that she is above everything. Lazy, lacking in all social grace, overly dramatic... you know the type.

 

[Thirsk]

I'm sick of women too stuck-up to enjoy a cold beer or two (or ten) on a street-corner - who have to go somewhere fancy to have a good time - actually, artsy-fartsy types with a pretention of being "upper-class" in general, I suppose.

Also, staunch anti-smokers. Yeah, I said it. I smoke regularly, but I have no problem being with someone who don't smoke. Actually, I don't mind not smoking while she's around either - I just can't stand someone trying to talk me out of smoking or trying to make me feel bad about it. It doesn't work and it just annoys me a bunch.

 

[Outright Villainy]

And this is my biggest turn off, people being (too)negative about everything!

Got it in one. Relentless cynicism is the biggest turn off for me by far. Most people like that have insanely cushy lives and are being insanely melodramatic. Makes me want to punch them.

Contrast that with, well, it's not exactly a turn on, it's much more important than that, but rather I find it inspiring when people have real issues (like depression, abuse etc) and they overcome it and stay fairly positive. They're the ones who I wouldn't ever blame for being negative, after all they've every reason to be, but when I see people who don't let it get the better of them ultimately, well it's like "Go humanity. Fuck yeah."

 

[junkmanuk]

I'd have to agree with the sentiment of the OP. Victims... I hate people who cast themselves as the victim of everything and never take responsibility for their own issues.

 

[VulakAerr]

Smoking is for sure my number one turn-off. I don't drink but don't really have a problem with anyone drinking except when they use being drunk to excuse shitty/slutty behaviour. That's a bullshit excuse in my eyes.

Personality-wise, girls who are indecisive about what they want, girls who play games, and yeah, girls who expect a guy to run around after them. I'm happy to do that but if nothing's coming back then it's time to call it a day.

Reassured to see girls in here being more attracted to guys in touch with their gentler side. I worry that most girls seem attracted to neanderthal knucker-draggers. Maybe there's hope after all!

...what's wrong with girls who play games? I'd hate to think people would dislike me just because I play games.

Sorry, I mean emotional mind-games. Not video games. That'd be great!

 

[DeepComet5581]

In before smoking.

Edit: Damn it!

OT:

Personality that turns me off: Arrogant, self-centered. Bitchyness, simply.
Aesthetic which turns me off: Skinny women. Small boobs. Small asses.

I like big butts and I cannot lie.
You other bruthas can't deny...

OK i'll stop now.

OT: Pretty much this really.

 

[The Journey]

Definitely negativity and bitchy behaviour.

I hate bitchy people and anyone who works to manipulate or stab you in the back in a malicious way. Not that there are any compassionate ways to stab someone in the back, but hey you get my drift.

I don't mind a girl who smokes, but I quit myself years ago and now only do so when extremely drunk and even then, it still has a bit of a 'repulse' vibe to it.

While bitchyness is an 'on the whole' trait that I don't like, a 'momentary' turn off is when I get told about a girls ex's or their previous one night stands or something. Maybe I'm just incredibly self centered but I really don't like to hear about it.

Or maybe I'm a bit insecure and don't want her to mention a previous lover with a 12 inch love pole or something. Yeah, actually, that too.

 

[Da Chi]

So many smoking haters!

Am I the only one that thinks that in the right circumstances and mood, a girl smoking can appear seductive?

...just me?

Seconded

 

[hyperhammy]

I'm sick of women too stuck-up to enjoy a cold beer or two (or ten) on a street-corner - who have to go somewhere fancy to have a good time - actually, artsy-fartsy types with a pretention of being "upper-class" in general, I suppose.

Also, staunch anti-smokers. Yeah, I said it. I smoke regularly, but I have no problem being with someone who don't smoke. Actually, I don't mind not smoking while she's around either - I just can't stand someone trying to talk me out of smoking or trying to make me feel bad about it. It doesn't work and it just annoys me a bunch.

Anti-Smokers, Anti-Drinkers, Anti-Everything.
I'm pissed off by all of them.
But mostly when my friends try to "convert" me.
Or people saying I should change!

 

[Girl With One Eye]

For me I really can't stand guys who are constantly trying to be funny. I don't mean guys who are naturally funny and make me laugh, but when they try too hard and then resort to teasing/sarcasm it really gets on my nerves.

 

[Arkhangelsk]

Stereotype hotness, i.e girls that look like they were cloned. This means long blonde hair, giany boobs, inappropriately much make-up, the intelligence of a door, and being a general *****.

 

[The_ModeRazor]

Not properly appreciating the Russian contribution to World War II. Which is to say, winning it for the Allies.
Err... and skimpy clothes.

 

[hyperhammy]

Not properly appreciating the Russian contribution to World War II. Which is to say, winning it for the Allies.
Err... and skimpy clothes.

You mean dem' communists?!
They be fags alright
/redneck
JK

 

[MirrorSweep]

Swearing. =/

 

[Srkkl]

Smoking. I hate seeing a good looking girl and then they light up. It's disgusting.