Xan Krieger said:
So next will they allow women to join? And maybe the girl scouts will accept male members. It's a private club, can't they decide who can and can't join?
You know what I think it would be great that they do? How about just "Scouts" and kids who want to be all outdoorsy and team style social get more of the Boy Scouts elements and kids who want to be really domestic and community/networking social get more of the Girl Scouts elements and gender need not be a consideration?
I really wanted to join the Boy Scouts because my friend Mike was one and not only did I idolize him but he told me about all the cool stuff they did camping and exploring and it sounded so fun. Of course, the Girl Scout troop I was geographically closest to had no such activities and were instead organizing a bake-off and 'exploring' the Mall of America for their big trip. I was so disappointed I didn't stay. I really think I would be more of an outdoors person than I am now if I had had the opportunity to join the side of Scouting that fit my interests at the time. I wanted to be more outdoorsy and in nature and comfortable there. I didn't want to learn to be a more savvy shopper or cook tasty treats - though I developed a love of baking later in life, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with offering such things! They just don't need to be so gender tagged specific in an increasingly less gender specific world.
I wasn't bitter about it and I'm not now, those were their rules, they got to make them, I accepted it, I was a kid there wasn't much else to do. Now that I'm an adult I can look back and see that I missed out for really arbitrary reasons that may be outdated enough to be a little ridiculous.