Boyfriend is Mad! Need Some Advice.

[dfcrackhead]

Who owns the appartment? and who owns the xbox, ps3 and pc?

My advice would be he's being an arsehole saying he wants you to stop gaming completely whereas he can carry on regardless tell him up straight that he sort's himself out or you leave him, that's all I can offer from my point of view

We split the apartment. He owns the PS3. I own the pc and the 360.

Lol he has the PS3? No wonder he's angry jkjk. After reading what "Tom Roberts" said above, I think that talking may not work nor my other idea, so I'd suggest calling his bluff and seeing if he will leave, if he does, then he obviously didn't care very much to begin with, if not, show him the error of his ways, that he isn't the boss and that if he wants a problem fixed, fixing it, or talking, works a helluva lot better than yelling and empty threats

 

[Theninja'skatana]

He complaing because you don't do anything together?
Well you might wnat to get another console or go for walk every now and again
Really thought it sounds like it's him not you.

 

[Theninja'skatana]

He has a gamer girlfriend and this upsets him?

My recommendation: A swift kick in the nuts.

This or less drastic measures It's all the same *sarcasm*

 

[CarpathianMuffin]

He needs to man up. Or at least stop bugging you about it.

 

[DC_Josh]

I do understand his position, having been in it myself. It can make you think alot of negative thoughts about yourself.

But in reality, you don't love him any less or dislike spending time with him and he just needs to be reassured that. But at the same time let him know in a stern way that playing WoW makes you happy as well and its an important release for you. If he's any kind of decent he'll understand.

Let us know how it goes

 

[Nouw]

Sounds a bit like an attention whore. Also, try BonsaiK's relationship problems thread.

Well it's Do really.

 

[Hollock]

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This isn't the first time and we tried talking. But every time we do it's other things that come up. It's like he wants me to stop playing WoW and all games together, he always wants to stop playing games too. It doesn't happen. When I ask him why he gets so mad he says I'm being childish and that I wouldn't understand. It's never one straight answer. He mostly answers a question with a question. Or he doesn't wanna talk about his feelings at all.
He strongly hates PC games. He wants nothing to do with them. I talked to him about getting the a 2nd console ( he gave his away to his brother before he moved in) but he just sighs at the idea of buying 2 games every time. When we play games that are co-op he complain about the split screen. Or he just doesn't want to play that game. We loved playing little big planet together but now he just wants to play CoD or Star wars the Force Unleashed. I really do miss playing CoD, Gears, and Halo with him but he also wants to play with online friends. With Black Ops coming out we are buying 2 games. I'm getting the 360 one and he's getting the PS3. All because he has more friends on the PS3 to play with.

From this I think he isn't going to be reasonable with video games, probably ever. Almost like he doesn't want you to be playing games period, just watch him play or something. My advice is to try and go out and do other non-videogame related stuff with him. Go see movies, or to dinner or something couples do when out on dates ( I wouldn't know [sub](I'm so lonely)[/sub])

 

[Glassesguy904]

Yikes. I'm sorry to say, but if the problem has gone on for a few months it's time to resort to final options. You have to come clean and discuss this with him, and he probably won't like it. If you really like the guy you have to talk to him about it and ask hm what's wrong even if it means... you probably know what. In fact you shouldn't be posting this online. If he was to read this it would further the problem because you didn't discus the problem with him.