Break the chain...

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Alright...

So there is this girl I like (I don't feel like going into detail...)
And I really like her, more so than any other girl, she wasn't hot, and wasn't anything like most girls I have liked in the past...

Welp, fast forward to now, A few weeks ago, my friend asked me what I thought of her, and I told my friend that I thought that she was the most beautiful girl in the world, and imediatly after I told her not to tell the girl I liked... She did...
The girl I like's reaction? "That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard."
:/
And then a couple days later...
(Here is the important part)
That same friend told me that she doesn't like me, and gave me the following reasons- (I had a couple of my friends confirm this)
1. That it was akward talking to me- I sort of agree on this, but It's because I thought she was the greatest thing in the world! It was harder talking to her than any other girl I have ever liked...
2. That I never knew what I was talking about- Okay, This pisses me off. A LOT 90% of my conversations with her were just "Hi!" HOW THE FUCK ARE YOU WRONG WITH THIS??? IS SHE A NAZI TO GREETINGS? I WOULDN'T BE SUPPRISED, I MEAN SHE HATES COMPLEMENTS! WHAT GIRL IS LIKE THAT? Never was I wrong in a conversation with her, Hell, she was incorrect sometimes! Was I ever a prick about it? NO.
3.She stated that I was "Wishy Washy" that I changed my oppenion on things to meet hers. HA! Sorry we have things in common, *****! maybe I slightly did this, but not to a noticable amount.

Another thing about her, SHE IS A FUCKING HYPOCRITE! She says she likes guys to be gentlemen, but she hates it when they ARE! She says to like someone you have to be friends with them first, but the guy that she likes, was a complete stranger to her when she started liking him! She makes me so fucking angry! But for some reason I still like her!!! WHY DO I STILL LIKE HER?

What am I supposed to do! I hate her, but at the same time I still really like her! This makes me so confused! what am I supposed to do???

Edit:
Alright, I know I need to move on, But how is the question.

 

[zehydra]

Let her go. Go back to living life and ignore her.

 

[SwimmingRock]

What to do:
1. Chill out.
2. Give up.
3. Move on.

I hope you weren't expecting upbeat advice. It's not gonna happen. Forget about it and get on with your life. It's just gonna take time to get over her and there's no point worrying about it.

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Let her go. Go back to living life and ignore her.

I've tried this already! It didn't work! She just drills herself back into my head! this has been going on for a week now!

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

What to do:
1. Chill out.
2. Give up.
3. Move on.

I hope you weren't expecting upbeat advice. It's not gonna happen. Forget about it and get on with your life. It's just gonna take time to get over her and there's no point worrying about it.

Again, I've already tried this. I could give up on every other girl, but not her. She just gets back in my head, and I still get this feeling like I've been stabbed when I see her...

 

[SwimmingRock]

What to do:
1. Chill out.
2. Give up.
3. Move on.

I hope you weren't expecting upbeat advice. It's not gonna happen. Forget about it and get on with your life. It's just gonna take time to get over her and there's no point worrying about it.

Again, I've already tried this. I could give up on every other girl, but not her. She just gets back in my head, and I still get this feeling like I've been stabbed when I see her...

*sigh* You didn't read carefully enough.

It's just gonna take time to get over her and there's no point worrying about it.

Listen, I have plenty of experience in the matter. This is really all there is to it. Time. Hope and wait. It'll get better.

 

[Loop Stricken]

That's girls for you in a nutshell really.

Spoiler: And in a slightly bigger nutshell...

Skip to about 3:30 for the actual on-topic info.

 

[Pinky]

What to do:
1. Chill out.
2. Give up.
3. Move on.

I hope you weren't expecting upbeat advice. It's not gonna happen. Forget about it and get on with your life. It's just gonna take time to get over her and there's no point worrying about it.

Again, I've already tried this. I could give up on every other girl, but not her. She just gets back in my head, and I still get this feeling like I've been stabbed when I see her...

Yeah, negative third party information typically doesn't feel to awesome?
Still.. figure out some way to chill out... either talk to her directly about it, or move on. Preferably move on. She's not being direct about why she doesn't like you, and she's probably avoiding telling you why for a reason.
Do something else with your time... don't let her consume your mind.. especially to that.. degree.

 

[Rayne870]

Women are like sunrises, each one is beautiful in its own right and you will see a different one each day. This one is an overcast day at best, move on.

 

[Sacman]

Well it's better then being told you're weird and to stop talking to her then getting your shit kicked in at the parking lot by her older brother...

So just get on with your life and be happy no one stole your guitar...<.<

 

[Hader]

Edit:
Alright, I know I need to move on, But how is the question.

Yeah, you need to move on.

How? Time. Time is the best remedy for these things. No rant I can give you now will make things easier in the short run for you. It's gonna suck. But you gotta deal with it. Give it time, and do trust me when I say this.

 

[Heronblade]

You're having girl trouble and you ask a forum full of gaming nerds about what to do?

It sounds to me like a couple of things may be going wrong:
-The possibility always exists that you are overreacting. Whether you think you are doing so or not, step back, calm down, and calmly review the situation.
-"Never was I wrong in a conversation with her, Hell, she was incorrect sometimes!" This sentence suggests to me some of the topics you discussed may have strayed into the involved discussion/debate category. This is a bit of a tricky thing to manage. It sounds to me like either you did not listen to her side of the argument, and/or she disagreed with your conclusions on the topic. Neither is a good development.
-Your perception of how often you changed your opinion is for the most part irrelevant. If she called you "wishy washy" she likely had at least a perceived reason for it.
-People's definition of a gentleman vary. Find out what hers is before calling her a hypocrite.
-This whole situation strikes me as off. It almost seems as if you expect her to like you just because you like her. If you cannot find a way to take her feelings and point of view into account, and/or she is simply not interested, the relationship will never work, regardless of how angry and frustrated you get over the matter.

EDIT: damn, start really thinking about what I'm typing here and miss a full ten posts in the meantime.

 

[triggrhappy94]

1. That it was akward talking to me

Been there.

Spoiler

Some people (especialy the non-bitchy type) find that cute

Another thing about her, SHE IS A FUCKING HYPOCRITE! She says she likes guys to be gentlemen, but she hates it when they ARE!

Don't hate me for saying it, but bitches are like that.

She makes me so fucking angry! But for some reason I still like her!!! WHY DO I STILL LIKE HER?

Been there too

She says to like someone you have to be friends with them first.

Complete BULLSHIT! It can actually make things more difficult.

Alright, I know I need to move on, But how is the question.

Take some time for yourself, to just get away. Don't just sit at home and brood. Do things you like, like play some video games or go for a walk, to get her out of your head. And start talking to other girls, you don't have to like them (at first or ever, it doesn't have to go anywhere), they don't have to be hot, just talk to them. Getting comfortable with someone before you think they're the most beautiful girl in the world can help a lot with the awkward in conversations thing

 

[Levethian]

I've tried this already! It didn't work! She just drills herself back into my head! this has been going on for a week now!

A week?? One WEEK?

Ugh, I went through crappy unrequited love for 3 years, then again for another 2 before growing up. Thank heavens I'm not a teenager anymore.

Hope it doesn't last much longer. Often these feelings sabotage the desired result - if you come across as too intense, clingy or desperate it'll drive her away. Good luck.

 

[Aureli]

That's girls for you in a nutshell really.

I would like to point out that we are not all like that. The girl in question just sounds like a *****.

I would suggest that you go out and have a good time with other friends. Do as much as you possibly can to fill up your days with things that will keep you interested, until you meet a nicer girl who will wipe this ***** off the map.

 

[Loop Stricken]

That's girls for you in a nutshell really.

I would like to point out that we are not all like that.

No; I generalise because I hurt. So much.