Umm, I'm pretty sure you have seen many of blonde women who were just dyed blonde and you didn't think twice about it and considered them blonde.Speksi said:Well you see the way your hair example differs from the one I posted is your hair now grows black naturally. So congratulations, you're now black haired. The reason why my example was more relevant to "transgender" is you have to keep dyeing your hair black if you want it to stay black. Thus, it's nothing but some black paint in your brown hair. There's a difference to being blond and being blond haired, and it's the same thing with all artificial changes you can do to yourself. See how this is closer to "transgender" men acting like women?mike1921 said:No one cares what genes nature assigned you. Genotype does nothing but define phenotype, which is flexible and is what matters. I'm more attracted to black hair than blonde, so if a blonde haired girl dyed her hair black I would see her as a black-haired girl and be more attracted to her as such. Nature is irrelevant, black hair turns me on, if a girl's hair is seen by my eyes as black than as long as she keeps dying it, it is black. No one's arguing that hormone therapy and sexual reassignment surgery make you genetically a different sex, but who really cares? If it looks like a girl, acts like a girl, thinks like a girl, and identifies as a girl, than to me they're a girl
Oddly enough....I was born with brown hair, got cancer , and when my hair came back after chemo it was black...So what hair color do I have? Brown or Black? I was born brown but I don't need anything artificial from here on to grow black hair.
Not even sure black marker would make white skin look remotely like a black person's....regardless, I'd probably refer to them as black if they did something to make them look black. I probably wouldn't consider them all that sane if they were doing it for the same reason a transexual would admittedly, but that's because of the different effects race and gender have on identity .Race's main effects on one's identity are historical and cultural, while there are genuine mental differences inherent in men and women , so I don't see the comparison as truly valid.Why did you ignore my black marker on a caucasian -> black person example? Is that valid?
Get some consensus that Caucasian is an offensive word and a reason for it and try again. Tranny is a considered an offensive word because of its origins in porn and you'd be pretty dead set to find a transexual who doesn't mind being called a tranny.As for words being offensive, if I choose that terms like male, caucasian, blond or human are now offensive, and invent a new word that you can only use from now on (let's say the word is CAPTAIN GORGEOUS, KING OF THE UNIVERSE), will you cease to use any of the words I mentioned and instead always use the new one? If not, then double standard! If yes, then boy have I got a way to make your life more difficult than it needs to be.
For the record, African American being so much harder than "black", while black lacks any sort of real reason to be offensive is the reason I refuse to use that long ass phrase. So yea, you'd have to shorten your word too.