Hi I am 20 and in college. I came from a home with domestic violence and divorce until 12 which has made some of this social and dating business more confusing and hard than it should be. I was raised by my mom and had no brothers.
Anyway, I can only get stuff started with girls through online dating. People always organically hangout then start dating but that's never happened to me. With an exception of dating a girl i just met, all of my few flings and stuff come from dating sites where its obvious the 2 of you are interested. Id say i haven't experienced a healthy long public relationship.
Yesterday i threw a party for a girl im into and i felt like everyone there had a girl with me. She danced and grinded with so many guys except me. Same with the other girls. This is just sort of an example. Am i really supposed to be as rodiculous as all the guys jumping on and grinding? Don't get me wrong i like that stuff. But being raised by women may make it harder to take risky or aggressive moves.
Anyway im depressed currently but this isn't why. I have similar issues when not depressed I just felt lovely in the middle of 30 people yesterday?
How the hell do i get a girl that I know in real life to go on a date, kiss me, dance with me. Something here is not connecting.
Anyway, I can only get stuff started with girls through online dating. People always organically hangout then start dating but that's never happened to me. With an exception of dating a girl i just met, all of my few flings and stuff come from dating sites where its obvious the 2 of you are interested. Id say i haven't experienced a healthy long public relationship.
Yesterday i threw a party for a girl im into and i felt like everyone there had a girl with me. She danced and grinded with so many guys except me. Same with the other girls. This is just sort of an example. Am i really supposed to be as rodiculous as all the guys jumping on and grinding? Don't get me wrong i like that stuff. But being raised by women may make it harder to take risky or aggressive moves.
Anyway im depressed currently but this isn't why. I have similar issues when not depressed I just felt lovely in the middle of 30 people yesterday?
How the hell do i get a girl that I know in real life to go on a date, kiss me, dance with me. Something here is not connecting.