I don't care.
It's a game, games are designed to entertain - I doubt any rational human being actually plays COD and believes they are experiencing realistic warfare as experienced by Infanteers in Afghanistan or Iraq in the last 10 years.
Those that do are ignorant, but ignorance is not a crime.
In short - I'm in the military, I play COD, I don't see the two as being related.
For what it's worth, however, I find it irritating that they never made 6 Days in Fallujah, as I understand it, the controversy surrounding it was heavily contrived by the media, who effectively used the grief of families who had lost loved ones, to their own ends. I'm not saying I had any special desire the play the game, I just don't like people bending other peoples grief to their own ends (I'm also a bit cagey on allowing Grieving people to influence things because of their personal experiences.)