I think the example of the "fat" woman is a symptom of the same disease: Her waist gets divorced from any context, whether the context of her specific body or the context of what's even humanly possible, so sexiness and the lack thereof are being determined by individual body parts.Something Amyss said:I would also think that would set the male standard of interest very, very low, meaning that this shouldn't be an issue in the first place. And given the outright tantrums that come from things like more realistic proportions (complaints that a woman with a three-inch waist is fat, etc), I would think the opposite.
I'll also say that it's my general experience the men who complain about real women not looking like comic book women are not men who have ever had sex with a real person. I think a lack of experience combines with a frustration against the women who aren't fucking them combines to play a big part of such a hypercritical and defensive attitude: Complaining that Wonder Woman's proportions and poses are physically impossible is an attack on the woman they've decided they deserve, and is therefore an attack on them.
(I just know that paragraph is going to piss off people who think I'm talking about them and I should probably delete it to save myself some trouble, but you know what? Fuck it. Members of the Escapist forums, I didn't name any of you on my list of frustrated, misogynistic virgins because I don't know you. If you think what I'm saying applies to you, then that's between you and your conscience, and I'll thank you to leave me out of it.)
I'm the wrong guy to talk to about that. My sexual attraction doesn't lean toward effort-filled posing; I like casual sexy. Tee-shirts and jeans, and the way the woman wearing them crinkles her nose when she smiles. Like that. I get the reaction to Squirrel Girl, but as someone whose understanding of human beings involves putting himself in their shoes, these are shoes that don't fit me well enough to feel like I can walk in them, y'know?Something Amyss said:It's more surprise that this would be a mass appeal sort of thing.
I'm willing to say it's true, just because I've seen how the people at my local nerd shops treat women. Don't even get me started on the girl who was cosplaying Frank Miller Robin for a promotion at the new comic shop in town who wouldn't stray from the six-foot-six Wookiee next to her for fear of what the fanboys would do to her without her permission.Something Amyss said:It seems like a lot of this art is aimed at people who really hate women. Not saying it's actually true, just seems that way.