Confused about feeling

[Siyano_v1legacy]

First a little explanation of myself, I am what you can call the "ordinary good guy" I don't stand out much. Throughout the years of my younger ages I took a path of living that made me oblivious about what other people think and thus now I just don't really take time to be better on all the physical trait you can have. Better hygiene, better odor, better body shape, I just wash once a day, don't care about what I smell much and not interested in any kind of exercise (although I'm not fat at all). My regular hobbies are playing video game and boardgames

After all those years I think I became desperate, non selective and very easy to please. No matter what as long as the girl please me to my eye, which is easy, I would like to go out with her or just think she's cute and she seem to have good values.

The real question is now this, I recently moved with a girl roommate but the thing is I find her REALLY attractive and I really think she as what I would like into a girl, good value, nice hearth and such, although from what I have seen we completely don't have much in common at all...
She like to go out into club a lot, she exercise a lot and I just prefer stay at home look a movie or relax with friend play board game.

At some point I think I would have to work on easy to please because I feel like it could threaten my emotion life through a bad relationship.

Should I try to date or to some extent try to please my roommate so that she may become a little more?

 

[Hitokiri_Gensai]

Hm, well, you might have to go out on a limb a bit, see how you enjoy the things she does. You may find you enjoy them, you may find you dont. See how things work as you move forward, but i would say, you need to be careful about the dating a roommate thing, it could freak her out, or worry her, or make things awkward and you might find yourself looking for a new roommate.

Id say move slowly, see if you enjoy the things she enjoys first, and then work at seeing if you feel things would work with her.

 

[Svenparty]

You have to compromise: Her hobbies are just as important as your hobbies:

You find clubbing stupid she might find videogames stupid. Try and show her what you love while appreciating what she loves.

 

[Siyano_v1legacy]

Well I guess I can't really try to hard, from what I can see she don't seem to be "interested" in me, but at least she seem to be very friendly with me, which is not that bad!

 

[Lilani]

First a little explanation of myself, I am what you can call the "ordinary good guy" I don't stand out much. Throughout the years of my younger ages I took a path of living that made me oblivious about what other people think and thus now I just don't really take time to be better on all the physical trait you can have. Better hygiene, better odor, better body shape, I just wash once a day, don't care about what I smell much and not interested in any kind of exercise (although I'm not fat at all). My regular hobbies are playing video game and boardgames

After all those years I think I became desperate, non selective and very easy to please. No matter what as long as the girl please me to my eye, which is easy, I would like to go out with her or just think she's cute and she seem to have good values.

The real question is now this, I recently moved with a girl roommate but the thing is I find her REALLY attractive and I really think she as what I would like into a girl, good value, nice hearth and such, although from what I have seen we completely don't have much in common at all...
She like to go out into club a lot, she exercise a lot and I just prefer stay at home look a movie or relax with friend play board game.

At some point I think I would have to work on easy to please because I feel like it could threaten my emotion life through a bad relationship.

Should I try to date or to some extent try to please my roommate so that she may become a little more?

I think you should try to be friends and make sure that works for a while before you ask her out. Find ways to spend time together and get to know her better. If you ask her straight away without even really being friends, not only will you be going into COMPLETELY untested waters but you could possibly make your roommate relationship very, very awkward.

 

[LT Cannibal 68]

if you say that she is really friendly to you it could be really good or really bad. she might like you but is very good at hiding it or you're in the dreaded friend zone in which most of us have a hard time getting out of without losing the friendship. my advice would be to try the things that she likes, try to go with her clubbing and dancing, take an interest in her life and show her a part of you she hasn't seen. Also talk with your diaphragm confidence my friend is the key also bathe more often.


and if you think you're winning her over play her this song or play it for her if you play guitar and sing even if you suck it will melt her heart i promise.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1O9DyFLIKo&feature=feedwll&list=WL

 

[J_Monsterface]

Well I guess I can't really try to hard, from what I can see she don't seem to be "interested" in me, but at least she seem to be very friendly with me, which is not that bad!

thats the right attitude!

sadly this girl, this time around, is probably not the one

but it sounds like she woke up a part of you that has been sleeping

if you really want a girl like that then its gonna take a lot of work to change

and yes you would need to change your hygiene

but if you become friends with her you can learn sooooo much, especially listen to what she says about guys she likes

and maybe youll be ready for the next one

if you dont want to change because your happiest the way you are, then you need to find a girl who is more like you

sometimes its better to change, sometimes its not, thats ur call

but staying just like you are, youd probably never be with that particular kind of girl

but hell idk maybe thats the better way for you, no one can say

just pursue what makes you happiest