The issue that people take with that figure of speech here is how often it's used. It's become sort of a semi-meme on the Escapist by now, simply due to the fact that most people would word their thread titles in that way for a while - I've seen a whole load of threads which have started with "am I the only one who...". It's like whenever something becomes vastly popular and everyone starts saying it everywhere, regardless of how often other people have used it. It's just sort of frustrating to see the same phrase being used over and over and over again.Jim Grim said:...It's a figure of speech. For fucks sake.
And there are also much bigger and more worthy things to get your panties in a knot about than how someone chooses to phrase a question. And quite frankly sometimes it can certainly feel like you're the only one has a certain opinion despite how much logic and common sense tell you otherwise!Kapol said:First off, I'm sure there are some people actually asking if they're the only one because they think their opinion is that out of the norm. This is the internet after all. Secondly, there are much better ways to ask the same sort of thing that won't lead to a thread being derailed or people pointing out they aren't the only one.canadamus_prime said:You know that's just a figure of speech, right? People who use it aren't really asking if they are the only one, but are just seeking validation for their opinion.
Yes, my response to this was that exactly. Saving this one.Irridium said:I'm going to paste this comic in every "am I the only one" threads from now on.
But that's the whole point, they're not raising a question, because the question is asking if they're the only one who's noticed something or if they're the only one who has a certain opinion.Ilikemilkshake said:I laughed at the comic.. but the phrase "am i the only one..." shouldnt necesarily invalidate the rest of the question... i'd wager less than half the people who say that dont really believe they are the only one, and instead they're actually saying in a round about way: I am the only person i know who ---, do you also ---?