Meanwhile, in Sweden:
There's a time and a place for bringing home moral messages and opening kids eyes to the reality of the world. But for chrissakes, these are
kids who wanted to play a game. They weren't asking for real guns so they could shoot real people. If he thought that the content of the game was too explicit for them - and fair enough, a responsible parent should vet the media their kids consume - then just gently explain to them that "Sorry, this is too bloody and violent for you, you can play it when you're older" and suggest a game that's more suitable. Flying them out to a warzone and shoving images of amputees and orphans (or whatever) in their face is just a grandiose way of scaring them into obedience.
"I have received messages calling me the worst parent in the world, saying that I am traumatizing my children, that I am a pompous bastard, and that I should be doused in napalm," Helgeren told The Local. "I didn't really expect such a reaction."
I don't necessarily agree with the "worst parent" or "doused in napalm" bits, but pompous bastard? That seems oddly fitting.
Did he, for the sake of even-handedness, also teach his boys about military peacekeeping, humanitarian aid, and the horrible dictators who were only eventually ousted from power at the end of a rifle? Why did he feel this "education" was so important anyway, were his privileged little kids at all likely to get involved in gun crime, or to go off to war uninformed of the dangers?
And how far does his finger-wagging "life isn't all fun and games" moralising go?
Kids want a racing game: dad forces them to watch grisly PSA on the deaths caused by street racing, and fatal Formula 1 crashes "...and if it still seems like fun, then you can play the game"
Kids want a wrestling game: dad lectures them on the dangers of steroid abuse and makes them watch documentary on all the WWE wrestlers who were killed, paralysed or otherwise injured in the ring "...and if it still seems like fun, then you can play the game"
Kids want to play Far Cry 3: Ok, but first we're going to watch "Earthlings" and you can decide whether hunting animals seems like a fun thing to do...
Geeze Louise. Look, it's heartening to see a parent - especially a father - who gives a damn about what media his kids are being exposed to and how it's affecting their upbringing. That's pretty rare. But somebody give this guy a chill pill! Let kids be kids and let childhood have some romanticism and innocence - kids grow up quickly these days and will be exposed to plenty of stuff that will erode their faith in humanity in due course. The fact that they're unaware of what the horrors of war are is a testament to how far we've come as a peaceful and civilised society; it's not a "weakness" to be despised. Let them play with make-believe swords and bows and arrows and guns, it's what kids have done for centuries. There's no need to view play and make-believe through the cynical and alarmist eyes of a too-serious adult.
Dad: you mean well, but sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up,
please.