depression...

[meece]

Go play an *exceptionally* bloody game.

Just don't go out and apply that to real life ¬_¬

 

[ratbob985]

drinking and smoking won't make you happy.. seriously from someone with depression who drinks 5-6 times a week, it doesn't help anything

you just really need to work things out in your own head.. and as simple as it sounds, talk to someone, a councilor or a friend (female friends are infinately better at this, cos to guys emotions are gay... sigh). Ive read your story so yeah I get it seems impossible but you'lle find someone and until then theres always us sympathetic types over the internet. But it's amazing how much it helps to confide in someone and work out all your doubts and fears. Sometimes you don't need advice or medication, just someone to listen so that you can work things out for yourself.

 

[kommando367]

I'll tell you what my mental reflexes tell me, deal with it.
The world doesn't give a fuck about your or anyone else's self-esteem, the sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll learn to disregard the existance of depression.

This is perhaps the least useful thing to tell someone who is depressed I can think of (seriously, that's kinda like skipping to a crippled person in a wheelchair and dancing while saying, 'What's the matter Ironside? I'll race ya').

What I said is atleast capable of helping people because of its capability to harden their mental constitution, what you said as a comparison is just rude.

I'll tell you what my mental reflexes tell me, deal with it.
The world doesn't give a fuck about your or anyone else's self-esteem, the sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll learn to disregard the existance of depression.

...are you me?

Its possible that our mentalities share traits, if that is what your asking.

 

[Anachronism]

*nods wisely*
And how does that make you feel?

You see, I could be a shrink!

Good thing you're too young to drink; alcohol is a depressant anyway. Being drunk isn't a solution. Nicotine, while a stimulant, is also a bad solution. Try spending time outside with friends.

Unless his friends are the problem.

And frankly, who would be surprised if they were?

Wow, that must have sounded really bitter. Oh well.

I feel depressed sometimes as well; my suggestion would be to take some time to yourself. Drinking is definitely not the way to go, as it'll only make you feel worse.

Go for a walk, ESPECIALLY if it is dark outside.

This is probably one of the best things to do. It'll give you some time alone, and you'll be able to think about whatever it is that's bothering you, and hopefully start to get it sorted out.

 

[Ventuquies]

Hello escapists. i've been very depressed as of late and have had no one to talk to. so i figured i'd ask you guys for some suggestions. but im to young to drink legally or smoke for that matter, and i have no money.

Be nice, talk to people and learn a new language

 

[Daye.04]

I'll tell you what you should do. Post in the damn Avatar thread. Me ram and Ragnorak have been trying to keep this story alive for about a week now.

Well excuse me, but screw you! =P
When I tried, you killed my character off in a single post! =P

Spoiler

you see friends, a few months ago my dad became obsessed with a substance that goes by the name of alcohol. he drank it every night before he went to bed and woke up irritable and just a general asshole. so after about a month of this, my father flipped out and threw my mother out of the house. she was out for about 5 days, until she came back and kicked him out. he lived with my uncle for about 4 months while he worked it out and got over his addiction. he finally came home 2 months ago and things have been alittle better but not so much. well i've gotten over that but heres where my problem lies. my ex girlfriend WAS like my best friend ever. until one day she told my she's trying to get her parents divorced. now, she was my support all throughout the time of my parents, so i don't even know why she would tell me something like that. well i made one comment and she flipped out and told me i ruined her life. wellllll, my best friend ever, who's name is ashley because her name will probably come up a few times, said she would talk to my ex girlfriend, bridget, because exgirlfriend is to wordy for my liking. so ashley called bridget, and then called me back saying i was the one being an asshole. then i had my friend rudy text her mean things, but he ended up becoming best friends with her other friend. so now the only real friends i have either are now bridgets friends, or hate me, and every other "friend" i have is an inconciderate bunghole who just makes fun of my and calls me a pussy for needed someone to talk to. me and ashley are a little better but bridget still hates me and my friend rudy is torn, because all of bridgets friends hate me. there is also this other girl, meghan, who i've been talking to. now in my school i'm chacterized as an emotionless gorilla. but that isnt the case. so meghan started talking to me in school and people started assuming i like her, which i kind of did. but she cares about her image alot so now she refuses to talk to me.

Ah, so that's what happened before and after the part I heard (the part with you telling your ex that she was an ass for trying to get her parents divorced.
I remember when you first told us about that .. Must be a week or so at least

And. Well ... I have to agree. You kinda screwed yourself over with this one. But just do something relaxing, fun or go around boxing something you're allowed to box. Getting frustration out is something that helps me a lot when I'm depressed. Or .. You know .. You could try and cry it out. Put on some sad music, sit alone in the dark, and let it flow. It may sound emo-ish, but it's very effective

 

[The_Chief]

Girls are ... 0.o
You might take up a hobby; I did hear the "no monies" lament, but it being summatime, why not try to get a job? You didn't specify your age so I'm dropping it as an option. Even if you're a tad young, there's lawns to mow, dogs to walk, kids to babysit, etc. Got any famly close by that'd drop you a ten-spot for some yardwork? Yeah, work sucks but it's something to do, and it earns you cash.

Get some water balloons and chuck them at squirrels.

14 goin on 15 this summa. and im a cat neighbor hood and i don't think the neighbors would trust me with their 4 year olds being im slightly pyro. and im mexican so if i mow lawns im gunna get shat upon by everyone i know.

I have depression too, it is very unpleasant, but the best thing to do is get it out in the open. pm me if you want to talk.

gracious, im out of danishes atm but ill go to the store soon.

Other than that, man up and apologize to your friends, or make new ones. That is all you have for options...

I'll tell you what you should do. Post in the damn Avatar thread. Me ram and Ragnorak have been trying to keep this story alive for about a week now.

Well excuse me, but screw you! =P
When I tried, you killed my character off in a single post! =P

Spoiler

you see friends, a few months ago my dad became obsessed with a substance that goes by the name of alcohol. he drank it every night before he went to bed and woke up irritable and just a general asshole. so after about a month of this, my father flipped out and threw my mother out of the house. she was out for about 5 days, until she came back and kicked him out. he lived with my uncle for about 4 months while he worked it out and got over his addiction. he finally came home 2 months ago and things have been alittle better but not so much. well i've gotten over that but heres where my problem lies. my ex girlfriend WAS like my best friend ever. until one day she told my she's trying to get her parents divorced. now, she was my support all throughout the time of my parents, so i don't even know why she would tell me something like that. well i made one comment and she flipped out and told me i ruined her life. wellllll, my best friend ever, who's name is ashley because her name will probably come up a few times, said she would talk to my ex girlfriend, bridget, because exgirlfriend is to wordy for my liking. so ashley called bridget, and then called me back saying i was the one being an asshole. then i had my friend rudy text her mean things, but he ended up becoming best friends with her other friend. so now the only real friends i have either are now bridgets friends, or hate me, and every other "friend" i have is an inconciderate bunghole who just makes fun of my and calls me a pussy for needed someone to talk to. me and ashley are a little better but bridget still hates me and my friend rudy is torn, because all of bridgets friends hate me. there is also this other girl, meghan, who i've been talking to. now in my school i'm chacterized as an emotionless gorilla. but that isnt the case. so meghan started talking to me in school and people started assuming i like her, which i kind of did. but she cares about her image alot so now she refuses to talk to me.

Ah, so that's what happened before and after the part I heard (the part with you telling your ex that she was an ass for trying to get her parents divorced.
I remember when you first told us about that .. Must be a week or so at least

And. Well ... I have to agree. You kinda screwed yourself over with this one. But just do something relaxing, fun or go around boxing something you're allowed to box. Getting frustration out is something that helps me a lot when I'm depressed. Or .. You know .. You could try and cry it out. Put on some sad music, sit alone in the dark, and let it flow. It may sound emo-ish, but it's very effective

the end one i tried once and it helped a little but i still felt sad. and if i could box i would, but my physical endurance isn't all that

@mobius i tried, only one to kinda forgive me was ashley but she still sides with bridget, also ashleys boyfriend doesn't like me all that much.

thank you for the suggestion, but also small community, idk if there is some sort of ymca or anything, and even so my dad sleeps when my mom works and mom sleeps when dad works so their schedules are pretty tight, so no way to get their.

 

[Daye.04]

the end one i tried once and it helped a little but i still felt sad. and if i could box i would, but my physical endurance isn't all that

Ah, well. I would say the same as almost everyone else. Talk about it. It helps a ton. Especially if there's someone who's been depressed in their past themselves.
For what it's worth, I'll do as many others and offer my service. If you by any chance feel like talking, and .. I don't know .. Think I might be a good person to talk to, you can feel free to send me a PM, or add me on MSN or steam. It's all on my profile =P

I'm afraid that's all the advices I can give. It's really more like personal thing. You'll eventually figure the best way to cure your own depressien with time.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

Well excuse me, but screw you! =P
When I tried, you killed my character off in a single post! =P

When did I kill off your character? I remeber throwing Ram with a gravity gun,A talking chicken in Isarel,and killing about a 10 cog soliders while blinking.

OHHH wait now I remeber. You were the Electrican that Imacharginmylazor killed. Well just to let you know Ram revived him.

 

[AndyFromMonday]

Friends maybe? Family? Don't keep it to yourself. Try and talk to people. That not working? A specialist is the key. Or better, music. Has in Bob Marley Music. Has in http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jyYZUhSeRYc

 

[Daye.04]

When did I kill off your character? I remeber throwing Ram with a gravity gun,A talking chicken in Isarel,and killing about a 10 cog soliders while blinking.

OHHH wait now I remeber. You were the Electrican that Imacharginmylazor killed. Well just to let you know Ram revived him.

Yeah.
He did? Oh .. I thought I was out of the story for good =P