dieing 15 year old boy want's weird last request

knight steel

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I was on the internet bored as always when i found a interesting artical.It was originaly on chicago sun times,here is the link for the web address were i found it-http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/fr/595894/posts.

With out further talk here it is:A terminally ill boy had his dying wish granted in Australia this month, but ethicists are still at odds over whether it was the right thing to do.
The wish was not for a trip to Disneyland or to meet a famous sports star. Instead, the 15-year-old wanted to lose his virginity before he died of cancer. The boy, who remains anonymous but was called Jack by the Australian media, did not want his parents to know about his request. Because of his many years spent in the hospital, he had no girlfriend or female friends.
Jack died last week, but not before having his last wish granted. Without the knowledge of his parents or hospital staff, friends arranged an encounter with a prostitute outside of hospital premises. All precautions were taken, and the organizers made sure the act was fully consensual. The issue has sparked fierce debate over the legal and ethical implications of granting the boy's request. By law, Jack was still a child, and the woman involved could in theory face charges for having sex with a minor. The debate was sparked by the hospital's child psychologist, who wrote a letter to "Life Matters," a radio show in which academics debate ethical and moral dilemmas. The scenario was presented in the abstract, with no details about the boy's identity.

"He had been sick for quite a long period, and his schooling was very disrupted, so he hadn't had many opportunities to acquire and retain friends, and his access to young women was pretty poor," the psychologist said recently in an interview with Australia's Daily Telegraph newspaper. "But he was very interested in young women and was experiencing that surge of testosterone that teenage boys have." Hospital staff initially wanted to pool donations to pay for a prostitute, but the ethical and legal implications prevented them from doing so. The psychologist presented members of the clergy with the dilemma and found no clear answer. "It really polarized them," he said. "About half said, 'What's your problem?' And the other half said [it] demeans women and reduces the sexual act to being just a physical one."

Dr. Stephen Leeder, dean of medicine at the University of Sydney and a "Life Matters" panelist, said the issue was a difficult one. "I pointed out that public hospitals operated under the expectation that they would abide by state law," he said. "While various things doubtless are done that are at the edge of that, it's important the public has confidence that the law will be followed." Jack's psychologist, who works with children in palliative care, said the desire was driven in part by a need for basic human contact. "In a child dying over a long period of time, there is often a condition we call 'skin hunger,'" he said. The terminally ill child yearns for non-clinical contact because "mostly when people touch them, it's to do something unpleasant, something that might hurt." Leeder called the diagnosis "improbable." Judy Lumby, the show's other panelist and the executive director of the New South Wales College of Nursing, argued that the details as presented made it abundantly clear the boy's wish ought to be granted. "I said that I would try my darndest as a nurse to do whatever I could to make sure his wish came true," she said. "I just think we are so archaic in the way we treat people in institutions. Certainly, if any of my three daughters were dying, I'd do whatever I could, and I'm sure that you would, too." National Post.

So my question to you is would you have granted his wish and what your generaly thought on this artical.

From Knight steel.
 

GodsOneMistake

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I'm surprised more kids aren't doing this, I think it's an entirely reasonable last request, I mean he can't really enjoy a car
 

bodyklok

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Wasn't there a similar story like this in the UK a while ago?

That aside, good for him, dude got his dying wish. I personally wouldn't of granted it myself, but I wouldn't of stopped him and I would of tried to help him.
 

Legion

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Would I grant the wish?

Sure, if he's going to die and wants it that badly, although I think it's a little sad.

As for my thoughts on the article, I don't see much to discuss, the kids friends helped him out, the parents were not involved nor were the staff so nobody can be held "accountable" as the people responsible had nothing to do with it.

GodsOneMistake said:
I'm surprised more kids aren't doing this, I think it's an entirely reasonable last request, I mean he can't really enjoy a car
Little do we know, horny teenagers around the world are now faking terminal illness for free sex.
 

Abedeus

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Oh come on.

I would totally like more to... meet Gabe Newell or Morgan Freeman or Johnny Depp. And he chose a prostitute? He might've as well asked for $1000 and use $200 to pay for some good time...
 

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They could have got him something better than a prostitute. Why couldn't a friend just suck it up an do the job.

Anyway, bazoozoo
 

Alexnader

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From a moral standpoint I would have no issue with granting that wish, though it's easy for me to empathise with the boy (same age etc) Both parties consent to it and really... he's going to die.
However from a legal standpoint, if I was say, an employee of the hospital. I'd be wary of hiring a prostitute for a minor.

It's a grey area for me with no clear yes or no decision so i'll put it down to this. If he's a nice kid then sure.
 

fix-the-spade

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Doesn't seem unreasonable to me. He was teenage boy, teenage boys are horny. He wasn't going to get the chance to develop normal relations and no-one got hurt.

Ninja_X said:
Thats a dumb last request.

There is soo much more to life than sex.
Maybe, but he didn't get enough life to take advantage of that.
 

sabaducia

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I am proud to call Australia home when dying kids get laid. I am so happy that he got to experience some final ecstasy before he tragically passed. Kudos to staff who made it possible.
 

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Abedeus said:
I would totally like more to... meet Gabe Newell or Morgan Freeman or Johnny Depp. And he chose a prostitute?
He could've at least chosen a celebrity to do it with.
 

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You've GOT to be kidding me. My last wish, even if I were that age, would be to do something amazingly epic, not counting sex. There's more to life than that, and I am saddened by the fact that he didn't make the last move count.
Ethically, it was the right thing, I grudgingly must admit.
But when you count all the amazing things he could have done, it wasn't.
Goodbye Jack.
You have been failed. By whom, I don't know, but you have been failed.
 

Latinidiot

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i'd be fine with it. The prostitute gets some cash, the kid dies with one thing less on is checklist, and it's morally questionable. PERFECT!
 

the_duke_CC

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good on him, he got what he wanted in the circumstances.

Am I the only one who finds it odd that the psychologist told the clergy about this? Or have I missed some grand point here?
 

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Cpt_Oblivious said:
Ninja_X said:
There is soo much more to life than sex.
He's 15. No there isn't.

Then there's the fact he's terminally ill.
Exactly! Well said captain.

I think its perfectly resonable, glad that he was able to get laid.

Shame though... 15 years old is no life...
 

sabaducia

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Machines Are Us said:
Little do we know, horny teenagers around the world are now faking terminal illness for free sex.
Highly doubt anyone could fake terminal illness. And there are much easier ways of getting it for free.