Disturbing Trends

[SovietSecrets]

So lately I have been noticing some pretty radical changes in the way I carry myself toward some my friends. I have started acting more aggressive and mean to them for no reason whatsoever. I pick fights as I please and end up making fun of them a bunch of things usually getting them really upset and I really don't feel that bad about it either. Now these are great friends that I have had since middle school, others for a little over a year, but still all great people. Its just randomly as well. No reason why I do it, just do it to some and others get away. I don't like what I have been doing and in the end I am probably going to end up losing a bunch of friends that I don't want to. Ideas? Suggestions? Anything? Don't understand whats going on here.

 

[Erana]

Well, you're pretty much my age, meaning that you aren't yet out of the clutches of sudden hormonal fluctuations. That's always a possibility, and if its the case, you have to stop yourself and actively choose the type of person you want to be in the face of inflammatory situations.

That being said, has anything changed lately? Something new in your diet? Spring agitating you? Getting enough sleep?
What I'd do in this situation is explain that you're feeling off somehow, and its making you more argumentative. Apologize to the people you've snapped at and try to turn this issue into a problem you and your friends will work together to deal with, rather than you and your aggression against them.