Let me preface my response with a little background about how Internet forums, and indeed, any text based form of communication, work.blaize2010 said:*ahem* i do believe, my good man, that the former post was meant as a lighthearted remark, which you took all to seriously. in doing so, you, essentially, acted like a quick tempered, and to be frank, somewhat dim chap. this is why most foreign societies thing us yanks are a bit slow, as we are far too easy to anger more often than not and prefer to sling insults at one another, rather than, you know, speaking peacefully. as adults. wot wot, pip pip and all that blather. and i notice you spent a meticulous amount of time typing properly, and then insinuated he was not an original english speaker, then insulting a culture you don't know anything about, purely because he was not obvious in his SARCASM, not irony, you cantankerous twat. now, look back and read your writing again, and tell me if you don't sound somewhat like a bloody imbecile, and a bit of a horse's ass.
A lot of implicit communication is lost when talking in a pure text environment. I cannot see your face, hear the tiny fluctuations in your voice, or read your body language in this medium. Thus, all meaning, all intentions, and, most importantly, all assumptions I make about you initially are gathered from the words that you write, and in what manor you string them together. The effort that you apply to writing directly correlates to how much I think of you. If you do not put in this effort, I simply won't think much of you - as you clearly don't think enough of me to take the time to write a proper reply. If you blatantly disrespect me by not putting effort forth into communication, then I take that as an indication that your thoughts are similarly poorly and lazily formed. I will not stereotype you based off of religion, gender, sexuality, ethnicity, age or nationality. Your words, and your words alone, affect how I think of you.
This is how communication in this medium works. Once you learn this, your future efforts of talking to people over the Internet will be wildly more successful.
That all being said, I do make a single exception. I do not hold people who are not native English speakers to the same English grammatical standard as I would otherwise. This is due to the simple fact that if English is not your first language, yet you can coherently convey thoughts to me using it (grammar aside), then you are miles above my ability to communicate in any other language than English. I would be a hypocrite to call these people out.
With that out of the way, please re-read my initial reply to this guy. My comment was not meant in any disrespect if he isn't a native English speaker. If, however, he is, then yes, disrespect was intended. Not against his country or culture, but against the way he presents himself online.
In fact, due to the poor way in which you constructed your reply (your run on sentences and lack of capitalization caused me to have to double back more than once while reading it), I will go as far as to say the same thing I said to the other guy. Either you don't care enough about what you are writing (or me), or you are incapable of writing correctly.
I am angry, yes. I am glad that sentiment was communicated property, as it certainly was the intent. I am angry that certain members of a forum that I, for the most part, respect, don't feel in any way ashamed at publicly projecting an ignorant stereotype that has affected me greatly over the years. I am angry that even many Americans proliferate this crap. I am angry that very, very, few people have attempted to bring even an ounce of honesty and maturity to this thread.this is why most foreign societies thing us yanks are a bit slow, as we are far too easy to anger more often than not and prefer to sling insults at one another, rather than, you know, speaking peacefully.
Finally, I am angry that nobody else is angry enough to care that a thread on these forums has been overrun by ignorance and hatred. Most of the non-US stereotypes stated here of countries are clearly meant light heatedly - and this is perfectly OK. However, being called stupid, culturally unaware, or a "12 year old kid" is stepping over the line. All of these things, and more, have been said about the country that I live in. Quite directly, members on this forum have said that they indiscriminately hold the intelligence of me, my family, my friends, my coworkers and all of my American contacts in very low regard. For no reason other then where we were born. Is this insulting? Yes. Is this grounds for being angry? Yes.
I will end this reply with this, though. It would have been better of me to have not regressed to name calling in my past replies, and for that I do apologize.