bluegate said:
Xprimentyl said:
bluegate said:
I'll give them an A for attempting to instill some sense of positivity and comradery, good on them.
There are too many negative nancies in the world.
I can?t tell if you?re being ironic or if you?re honestly just na?ve (not meant as an insult, but the very literal definition of the word,) but what you?re witnessing is NOT an earnest effort to instill positivity. This is yet another example of a corporate machine engorging itself on the dignity of its myriad cogs and wheels under the guise of ?fun.? You might as well be witnessing a slave owner making his slaves sing and dance for his own personal whimsy. That?s not being negative; it?s being pragmatic. I?ve seen it too many times: some out-of-touch executive dreams up and mandates what his subordinates ?WILL enjoy,? and it becomes law, or at the very least, the barometer by which individuals? adherence to company tenets is measured; take it from someone whose lack of ?team player-ness? has basically become his defining characteristic.
You sound like a very happy person.
Having participated in similar things and having attended several "mandatory" company social events, I find these kinds of things to be rather fun, or should I say funny, something to play along with in a silly mood and then laugh about later. I tried the whole "You can't force me to do anything!"-'contrarian' ( recalcitrant may be a better word? ) shtick in middle school and found that sometimes life's just more fun if you go along with things a bit🤷
Actually, I
am a very happy person. Moreover, I?m a very happy ADULT. Clapping and shouting for no reason stopped being fun when I was? 6? 7, maybe? I can?t imagine being mandated to do so by my employer would change my mind, much less would I find it ?silly? or a laughing matter. It has nothing to do with being a contrarian or recalcitrant; it has to do with my being of a different mindset, a different person, ?person? being the operative word.
Anyone find it ironic that every corporation will claim to value diversity throughout their enterprise, then turn around and tacitly demand lockstep conformity? What you find ?silly? and ?fun(ny)? actually makes a lot of people uncomfortable, and by mandating that everyone participate, they?re basically disregarding/disrespecting those people. Point in case, I used to be a supervisor in a warehouse for a fashion retailer. One year, for Associate Appreciate Day, they let the associates vote on an activity, and they decided they wanted to do a spin on ?Dancing with the Stars? called ?Dancing with the Sups;? basically the supervisors would pair up and do a dance competition, and the twist? The supervisors had to cross dress. I don?t dance, I don?t like performing in front of crowds and I certainly had no interest in dressing as a woman, but it was made very clear that I had no choice. So they?re ?fun, silliness? became my extremely uncomfortable and hostile work environment. What?s worse is for every associate that was laughing, there were three who genuinely felt bad for us, afterwards stating privately to us that the whole thing was just stupid and a bad idea that they didn?t think the managers would actually make us do it.
Does that make me a ?Negative Nancy?? No, it makes me someone who?s comfort zone, sense of humor and idea of silliness differs from [yours], differences which shit like this Walmart chant fly in the face of with near contemptuous disrespect.
A great example of GOOD morale boosting is my girlfriend?s company; as cynical as I may be when it comes to corporate America, I can honestly say the genuine happiness and camaraderie at her office (an oil and gas company) is palpable. And how did they pull this off? They offer a variety of activities, all entirely optional, that cater to a wide variety of interests: they take them to Major League baseball games, host company golf tournaments, their Christmas parties are phenomenal (I drank shots and took silly photos with her company?s OWNER,) they frequently have cookouts on their roof and/or parking lot, during the Summer, they allowed everyone to take half-days every Friday, etc., and their associates LOVE it; they love the way their employer treats them like the people they are when they could easily treat them like, well, WALMART does and write off their morale with a ?silly chant.?