Do you hold grudges?

[InnerRebellion]

If so, for how long? How often? Why? If not, why?

I do. I'm friends with my ex, but I hate her enough that I burned everything I owned that was connected to her.

 

[Marter]

Only if the person has proven that they are unwilling to change, and continue doing the thing that angers/upsets me or people I care about. If they have legitimately changed, then I let it go. Otherwise, the grudge will remain until they deal with it.

 

[Dango]

Only if the person did something morally wrong, otherwise, no.

 

[Julianking93]

I only do if the person in question truly hurt or wronged me.

For instance, the bullies who used to beat the living crap out of me daily are people I still hate to this day despite returning the favor to them 10 fold...

So yes, I do hold grudges. But only until I feel justice has been served in some sense.

 

[Blandman]

I still hate God for not giving me superpowers, and always will. That prick.

 

[General Recluse]

depending on what they did. im not very vengful but if someone really tries me for a period of time I blacklist them

 

[LongAndShort]

I'm still pissed off at one of the guys who shaved my head about ten months ago. One of the others I went after with a pool cue, though we sorted our shit out after that and I let the grudge go. Another one apologized when I was in a good mood. But that first guy, when I see him I still have to control myself from knocking him over with a car.

Holding grudges. Everyone needs a hobby.

 

[JacobyPAX]

I've been holding a grudge against my former best friend for over 2 years.

 

[Elephant Walker19]

No I took the end of FEARLESS to heart

Spoiler: spoiler if you want to know it click here

Huo Yuanjia is poisoned and his students know how did and want to kill them but he tells them that blood only leads to more blood.

 

[Housebroken Lunatic]

Yes I hold grudges, and I don't see any reason to ever let them go.

There's more than 6 billion people on this planet. There's no reason to try and like EVERYONE of them. Especially not the ones who find it fit to wrong me in such a profound manner that makes me hold a grudge.

 

[Kryzantine]

Yes, and they usually last.

They're usually against everyone, though. I've lost a fair number of friends because of grudges created in the heat of the moment. I hold a huge grudge against my own mother. I remember everyone that has wronged me in some way, and either they will reconcile with me, or I will crush them.

Aggresives get me in particular. They represent less than 1% of the population and they contribute 50% of the bullshit. I hate them with a burning passion.

 

[Formica Archonis]

I took an online psych test and almost pegged the "anger" metric. I hold grudges for a long time.

"... I'm spite and hate, to the core I'm mean..." - Voltaire, Almost Human

 

[The Procrastinated End]

If it was serious yeah, but it is kinda hard to when 10 minutes after the event they come in asking if you want some ice cream.

 

[unoleian]

Who doesn't?

I'll never forgive this prick at work simply for being...a childish prick.

Seriously, who acts like they're 10 when they're clearly 50? And thinks it's a good thing?

Screw that guy. Seriously. Forever.

 

[child of lileth]

I try not to, but I do every now an then. The longest one is since pre-school.

 

[Worgen]

I can hold a grudge with the best of them but Im also more then willing to let one go if I get an apology or something, I actually dont like to hold onto hatred, its just one of those things that I have an iron grip too

 

[Kimarous]

I used to hold intense grudges when I was younger. I was bullied pretty bad as a kid and I was on the verge of a rampage before my thankfully attentive parents pulled me out to get me homeschooled instead. For the next several years, even the slightest mentioning of bullying would throw me into a rage. In time, however, my aunt convinced me to let things go. I begrudgingly agreed to do so without meaning, but as time passed, I managed to genuinely believe my own words, eventually choosing to forgive those transgressions. Ever since, I have found it extremely difficult to hold any kind of grudge.

 

[Smallfry]

I don't have any grudges. I learn to forget. I may not forgive, so to speak, but I forget sooner or later.

 

[Mimssy]

Very very rarely. There's maybe 2 people who have come into my life that I could not forgive. I don't actively hate, but I will never forgive what they have done to me.

 

[Frozen Donkey Wheel2]

Used to. I'm working on it, though.

Life is a little easier if you just let things go.