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jh322 said:
simple solution: wait until she's dating your friend again, seduce her, nail the ass off her, then tell your buddy. Photo proof will get you man points. That can't possibly go wrong.
Last time i said that... OH SHIT! THE FBI! I GOTTA RUN!
 

R0DZ

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Man just tell it like it is. Tell that ***** to fuck off. Pro equal rights. She sounds like a ***** and it's what I would do but then again I am an asshole. Haha.
 

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Abedeus said:
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Symp4thy said:
Why is your best friend dating her? That kinda goes against "guy code" to date a best friend's ex.
You mean people actually believe in that crap?

OT: As nasty as she sounds getting everyone to gang up on her is sinking to her level. Say what you feel, but leave other people to say what they do. If they only say it behind her back I'd talk to them about their maturity.
You know... It is pretty rude to date someone's ex. It's almost like stealing a girlfriend.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.

Grimm91 said:
And to the OP, I've never been a fan of direct confrontation so I'd avoid it with her if at all possible, as she's likely to get defensive and/or bitchy. If the friend is a good friend who just keeps falling to her whim then tell him what the fuck is going on so he'll stop being an idiot. If he's stuck-up, annoying and/or stupid, then just forget about him he's not worth being friends with.

Try going somewhere else with your friends, that'll expose her as needy if she follows you wherever you go. As for classes where you can't go anywhere, have something like a good game that you can all connect on and NOT her. Hang out outside class sometime and get a good inside joke going, then use it in class. If she's really a friend, she'll get along just fine. If she's not, she'll try to change the subject or get defensive or be annoying about it.

In short: telling her to fuck off probably will only start fights so ALIENATE her from you and your friends and hopefully she'll get the idea.
 

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Danzaivar said:
Just put up with it if you have 3 months left. Really. If she doesn't want to talk to you then don't talk to her, accept you share some friends and leave it at that.

I can't help but get the feeling you actually still like her, which is why you want to make a big deal out of this...
I don't like her anymore I am just getting really sick of the shit and I sorta have snapped. Thats all.
 

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Wouldukindly said:
Symp4thy said:
Machines Are Us said:
Symp4thy said:
Why is your best friend dating her? That kinda goes against "guy code" to date a best friend's ex.
You mean people actually believe in that crap?
Obviously there isn't literally a "guy code." But I think most people will agree it's common sense that you shouldn't date a friend's ex. That's just asking for trouble. Case in point, the OP.
You think that's bad, don't date friends' sisters.
Yes, that is also a bad idea. A couple of my friend's have some hot sister's. Alas...
 

CertifiedWaffle

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Hamsterlad said:
Grimm91 said:
Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend that you had that knows all of you friends. Well recently my ex has gone psycho-*****. She keeps hanging out with my friends and even dated my best friend a week after she and I broke up. I have hated her so much and I just can't get away from her. She's in my classes, she sit with me and my friends in the mornings and today she crosses the line. I have tried to be nice and say "hello how are you" and today she gos off on me. Saying how she wants me to leave her alone and the only reason why she is by me in the mornings is to talk to my friends(when almost all of them call her a slut and whore) and how I should just stop trying to be nice; and that she never cared and shit like that. I just need some advice. Oh, and to put the cherry on the cake she dumped my best friend like seven times and he kept going back! She is like a plague! I graduate in 96 days but if this keeps up I am going to go crazy. What should I do?
why would you come to the escapist to talk about this stuff? as we have all said before Wes. We may not like it but just let it go. how about you stop talking to her and then possibly she will leave you alone as well. And another thing, you are dating someone elce now..it's time to move on mate. also with Bryan going back to her, just let him do it. we cant stop him anyway might as well keep to ourselves about it.
That's not what you said in Cyberarts today Steve. You basically agreed. I'm not going to get too much into this because I got in trouble with things like this before.
 

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Symp4thy said:
Why is your best friend dating her? That kinda goes against "guy code" to date a best friend's ex.
Not at all, so long as the intention of the second guy is to make her rue meeting any of you in the first place. Nothing drives a person away from a circle of friends quicker than finding out that they're all a bunch of self-protecting jackasses.
 

CertifiedWaffle

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Wouldukindly said:
Symp4thy said:
Machines Are Us said:
Symp4thy said:
Why is your best friend dating her? That kinda goes against "guy code" to date a best friend's ex.
You mean people actually believe in that crap?
Obviously there isn't literally a "guy code." But I think most people will agree it's common sense that you shouldn't date a friend's ex. That's just asking for trouble. Case in point, the OP.
You think that's bad, don't date friends' sisters.
Ouch..., It is out of common courtesy that you don't date a friend's ex. Especially not after a week.

Although I do think it will be okay after a certain time period because by then everything would have blown over. That's my own opinion though. (by the way Wes what I just said there is about something else)
 

bmf185

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Get all of your friends to conspire against her and have a big dramatic confrontation in the lunch room at the end of the disney movie--I mean stand up to her. Stand up to her HARD.

Damnit, everything I say sounds like an innuendo.
 

Lord_Ascendant

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Strychnine, i mean what? how horrible!

Just ignore her and she will go away. Some people are domineering like that.
 

Fronken

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Just be happy you have an x, that means you've had a girlfriend, be happy with that and stop whining.

Now that i've gotten my rage out, the best tip i can give you is to confront her and really explain how things are, dont tap around the issue, lay it all out there and make her understand it, you may feel like a douchebag afterwards, but atleast she knows how it is, and then its her problem how she wants to deal with it.
 

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My best advice? Suck it up for another 96 days, and never see her again. Hold your own in mixed groups and just don't say anything to her. Don't ditch your friends, otherwise your last 96 are going to be shitty time. Just don't say shit to her and see how it pans.

At least you're near your friends to defend yourself. When my psychotic ex turned, I was across the country and she tried to basically corrupt my entire circle of mutual friends. *****.
 

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Ravenholm27 said:
seriously leave her alone and she'll leave you alone or at least grow a back bone talk to your friends about it instead of using a forum site to solve your problems.
Rude.

Anyway, just be very polite but cold. She'll get the picture.
 

Diceman

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Have your friend go out with her yet again, then not ONLY nail her in the pooper, but take naked photos and then simply have them spread everywhere be nice and tell her if she doesnt back off, you WILL spread them everywhere.