Do you like them fresh?

[SilentCom]

This is a follow up on my previous thread "How do you see virgins?" (posted here: [link]http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.276268-Poll-How-do-you-see-virgins[/link]). I am creating this thread because it seems that most people here are non-judgmental or optimistic toward virgins (or anyone whether they've had sex or not). There were some comments on having sex with virgins and this got me thinking, when starting a new relationship, do you guys prefer having sex with someone who hasn't or with someone who has? A reason why I am asking is because it seems like those who had sex are "more experienced" and rather comfortable with the idea of sex than those who have not. I figure most here would probably not have a preference but I am curious to read how people will respond.

My preference would probably have sex for the first time with someone who is also a virgin. The reason being is that I wouldn't really know what to do, but at least that way we could explore it together rather than one being overshadowed by the experience of the other. I say this because I would probably do something awkward (that doesn't go there!) Sounds a bit wierd but I guess I would want to be with someone on the same "playing field" as me. That doesn't mean I would completed avoid more experienced people though.

To make this easy, please state if you've ever had sex or not and then your preference followed.



Edit: I just realized that there was a different post with a similar question posted before me. You guys can just disregard this post.

 

[Bezz_Ad]

Wait isn't there a thread about this already?
The "Virgin want virgin confliction"?
Oh well.

EDIT: And I just noticed your EDIT. Disregard this post too.

 

[DefunctTheory]

I have had sex, and if I had a choice, I'd prefer to have sex with a non-virgin.

Two fold: For one, I'm ALWAYS up for learning more stuff.

For two, my back is garbage, and I have a 30 minute max time limit if I'm doing all the work.

 

[natster43]

I have never had sex, and don't really have a preference because of that.

 

[Harry Mason]

What? I prefer having sex with awesome people. Them having had sex or not doesn't factor into it at all.

In fact, I've been with experienced women who were awful and virgins who were naturally talented enough to be fabulous the first time. I've found that compatibility will always, ALWAYS trump experience or "freshness" as you so creepily put it.

Look for a girl or boy with whom the very act of eye contact or brushing hands makes you flush and excited. Look for someone who's body seems perfectly aligned to yours, someone with whom hugging becomes an act of desire. Find someone who can do more placing their hand on you than other people could do with their entire bodies, then tell me if it matters whether they are a fucking virgin or not.

There are more important things to worry about, by far.

 

[.No.]

I came into this thread not knowing what it was about. I thought it might be this though. I was somewhat expecting it to be about fruits and other food types and if you preferred them fresh. The usage of the word "fresh" is quite creepy, if not disturbing.

 

[WhiteTigerShiro]

I would prefer my partner have as little sexual partners as possible.

I don't find that to be as important as knowing how smart she's been about whom she has slept with. I would rather be with a girl who's slept with 100 guys, but knew them well beforehand, than be with a girl who's only been with 20 guys, but she barely knew any of them. Sure the former girl has been in bed with more guys, but I'd see as more likely that the latter girl is going to have gotten something that I wouldn't want to receive as well.

 

[InnerRebellion]

I'm an insecure little virgin who has no experience beyond kissing, not even with himself. So I hope the girl I lose it to is as awkward as me.