Just this morning actually, one of my friends is a very huggy person so she hugs me whenever we see each other. It's always nice to get hugs. I really enjoy being hugged, although I don't often initiate hugs though for fear of coming off a weird.
Do you remember the last time you were hugged?
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You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them.
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
I need a hug now.
I honestly have no idea. It's probably been months since I had any kind of physical contact with another human being. Due to past circumstances, I am very sensitive to that sort of thing and there are very few people I have ever felt comfortable enough around to be touched by and none at all I feel comfortable touching. Honestly, the lack of physical contact is really beginning to wear on me, but I have no idea if there's anything I can do about it.
I think you'll find A LOT of people love hugging. Next time you see a female friend or even just a co-worker, greet them with hug. It's a pleasant surprise when I get unexpected hugs.OtherSideofSky said:
My husband hugs me everyday. So, a couple of times a day I get a hug, one of which is a squeezy bear hug when he first gets home from work - but sometimes he gets carried away with that one and it's hard to breathe. XD
About a week or two ago I think. That sounds about right, give or take a few days.
I realize that was the most vague time frame I could give but the point is, I remember.
I realize that was the most vague time frame I could give but the point is, I remember.
*hug* theresaoirse13 said:You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
OT:
Last living thing I hugged - My dog this morning, he always asks for one in the morning.
Last friend - last weekend, my mate as I was leaving his house.
Last family - probably grandmother saying goodnight.
Last girl - A friend last weekend after dropping her home (different one to the above one).
Being single I haven't cuddled since my beak up with my ex almost 2 years ago.
Aside from family... Hell if I know,earliest I remember when I was a junior from a girl I knew in one of my classes.
Why thank you... That made my night a hell of a lot better... I love hugs even cyber hugsRicoADF said:*hug* theresaoirse13 said:You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
OT:
Last living thing I hugged - My dog this morning, he always asks for one in the morning.
Last friend - last weekend, my mate as I was leaving his house.
Last family - probably grandmother saying goodnight.
Last girl - A friend last weekend after dropping her home (different one to the above one).
Being single I haven't cuddled since my beak up with my ex almost 2 years ago.
Well in return for the hug heres a wee cuddle. *cuddles* That would be yesterday, I tend to hug my girlfriend a fair amount. I also am friends with a lot of girls a couple of which are stippers and they are very huggy people.
I do like hugs i just find it hard to hug people that i don't feel completely comfortable with when i do though i'll hug them alot.saoirse13 said:You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
On the arm punch front, it's just how me and my sisters are, we grew up fighting constantly and we still mess around, funnily enough we are pretty close! even though we kicked merry hell out of each-other growing up, and it's just a playful punch
Anytime, glad to hear it's cheered you upsaoirse13 said:Why thank you... That made my night a hell of a lot better... I love hugs even cyber hugsRicoADF said:*hug* theresaoirse13 said:You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
OT:
Last living thing I hugged - My dog this morning, he always asks for one in the morning.
Last friend - last weekend, my mate as I was leaving his house.
Last family - probably grandmother saying goodnight.
Last girl - A friend last weekend after dropping her home (different one to the above one).
Being single I haven't cuddled since my beak up with my ex almost 2 years ago.
. Agreed, hugs are awesome, but cuddles are better. Speaking of which, thanks for the cuddle! OT: On that note, I need to reset the cuddle for today (assuming we count virtual
)
Yeah its the same for me and the boyfriend we have known each-other for 11 years so its more like a "hey have a punch to kow i care" kinda thing. Its just playful not serious. But getting that little hug every once and a while just makes more to smile about. That little loved feeling. Ahh the cheese of it.Rastien said:I do like hugs i just find it hard to hug people that i don't feel completely comfortable with when i do though i'll hug them alot.saoirse13 said:You sound like my boyfriend... His idea of affection is a punch to the arm. Though to be fair I'm not talking a proper punch.Rastien said:i'm not that touchy
feely with people i don't know very well or my family i would sooner punch my sisters in the arm
than hug them when i see them
Probably the last time I seen my best male friend. Around Christmas. Like i said my boyfriend doesn't hug, which is crappy because I'm a huggy person. I hug everyone that will let me.
On the arm punch front, it's just how me and my sisters are, we grew up fighting constantly and we still mess around, funnily enough we are pretty close! even though we kicked merry hell out of each-other growing up, and it's just a playful punch
A month ago, from my now ex. Man, it really, really hurts to love someone so much and not have the feelings returned...