Do you think this should matter?

[Kenbo Slice]

I met this girl the other day, she's pretty cool. I found out she's friends with a few of my other friends and I told her you probably know my ex, and she asked me who it was so I told her, now keep in mind, I dated said ex THREE years ago. And now the girl thinks less of me because I dated someone she doesn't like long before we met. What should I do? I told her it shouldn't matter who I was with before, especially someone from THREE years ago, but she still won't listen. What should I say to her?

 

[thejdcole]

If she is not willing to accept you because of something that happened over 3 years ago then she isn't worth your time

 

[Anjel]

I met this girl the other day, she's pretty cool. I found out she's friends with a few of my other friends and I told her you probably know my ex, and she asked me who it was so I told her, now keep in mind, I dated said ex THREE years ago. And now the girl thinks less of me because I dated someone she doesn't like long before we met. What should I do? I told her it shouldn't matter who I was with before, especially someone from THREE years ago, but she still won't listen. What should I say to her?

Say nothing to her. Avoid her. You're worth better... maybe.

 

[SiskoBlue]

So you want to date a girl who is holding a 3 year old relationship against you.... think about that.

However, I'm wondering if YOU think she thinks less of you because of that, but in reality she's not interested for other reasons. I'm assuming you might be assuming.

 

[Fullmetalfox]

She's not right in the head. Move on.

 

[Hop-along Nussbaum]

Nothing. Let it go. That is all.

 

[dmase]

Women are weird... they just are.

Anyways you two are just friends right now so carry on with that for now doing the usual flirt eventually if she's attracted to you that little tid bit won't cause her to not wanna date you.

If you do end up dating this girl just remember you dodged a bullet. If she where to find out later, the amount of shit that would rain down would be horrible.

 

[tharglet]

Some people are like that - there's things I've relayed that OTHER people I've done, and some people decided to believe *I* did them.

If someone's judging you because you were friends with someone 3 yrs ago they didn't like - that's their problem. I suggest if you've said your piece, leave the subject alone. Either she'll come around in her own time, or never. Pestering her to drop it is more likely to annoy her and make her think less of you, and remember the grudge more.

I wouldn't say not to keep her as a friend, but I'd think twice about doing any dating with her (if that's your intention) if she keeps grudges like that for so long. If there's no give and take in a relationship (such as putting minor things like that into the past) it's probably not going to last - there's always stuff cropping up now and again.

 

[Ando85]

I met this girl the other day, she's pretty cool. I found out she's friends with a few of my other friends and I told her you probably know my ex, and she asked me who it was so I told her, now keep in mind, I dated said ex THREE years ago. And now the girl thinks less of me because I dated someone she doesn't like long before we met. What should I do? I told her it shouldn't matter who I was with before, especially someone from THREE years ago, but she still won't listen. What should I say to her?

Sounds like she isn't that logical. First of all who you dated 3 years ago shouldn't matter. Usually new couples avoid talking about past relationships especially in the initial stages. I find if its a common topic the relationship isn't going to go too well.

I dated a girl whom just broke up with her boyfriend (big mistake) and she would constantly talk about him. But, if she is bothered by someone you dated 3 damn years ago she might not be worth dating. Why does she disapprove of her? Maybe for the same reasons you aren't dating her anymore?

We date to find out who we like and are compatible with. Since you aren't dating her anymore maybe that is the reason.

 

[MaxwellEdison]

Sounds like a terrible person, ignore her.

 

[KrubixCube]

If she can't figure out it doesn't matter herself, then she's not worth your time.