I'm a chubby guy with thick rimmed glasses, a goatee and long, dark, curly hair.
Whether people find me attractive seems to be contingent upon whether I am playing guitar and singing.
Goofy, well meaning nerd = Average.
Goofy well meaning nerd + Acoustic guitar + Greg Laswell songs = "Where'd my panties go?"
At the risk of sounding narcissistic... yeah, kind of. I'm certainly not bad looking. And very recently, I did in fact look in the mirror and think "hot damn". Well, actually, it was "Damn, I look good".
Granted, I was in a suit at the time. Formal wear makes anybody at least 10% better looking. And 20% cooler.
See, "attractive" is one of those words that doesn't actually mean anything when you sit down and analyze it. For instance, I'm not even remotely attracted to my own visage, because I'm not into dudes. People find all sorts of different things "attractive", saying that someone is attractive is really just communicating the message "I am attracted to this person" - maybe you find hideous deformities a turn on though, who knows!
Which is why I'm going to describe myself in terms of handsomeness instead, because that's a quality one can recognize independently of your attraction/lack of attraction to a person. So to answer the question as I have rephrased it, yes - I am a handsome fellow; not astonishingly so, but definitely on the "rather good looking" side of the ugly/not ugly spectrum.
I would show you a photograph where I'm not wearing sunglasses, if my aversion to flash photography didn't mean that there are just about zero extant and comparatively recent photographs of me without sunglasses on (that one was taken two years back if memory serves).
When I was young, I was shy and didn't think i was very attractive. now that im older, every girl i meet tells me im attractive if my looks come up. like 8,9, 10 out of 10 scores. i myself would rate me a 7 at the absolute highest. but... i keep in shape. i've been told my eyes are probably going to start world war 3 or something (i guess they are more blue then the average blue?) and i have a nice enough smile and teeth. so i guess im pretty attractive.
I don't really care, though. I just want to keep myself in shape for my own benefit.
Physically? In some ways yes, in others no. I am fairly happy with my physique and I like my eyes, but apart from that I don't think much of my appearance.
Personality? I think I have a lot of of good traits, but I am not a particularly open person and most of them probably don't shine through, I have my negative points as well but I keep them to myself most of the time too.
xXxJessicaxXx said:
No I don't.
I think im pretty enough and most people I ask try to reassure me of it but for some reason men I like just brozone me :< Maybe it's just my personality that isn't attractive. *shrug*
I can be chronically shy but it tends to be obvious enough if I like a guy, I get made fun of enough for it. I don't know I'm really romantic actually but men have just never been interested. I tried going out with a guy who I wasn't attracted to just to accept it and he ended up being violent so I had to get out of that. I think I'm just really unlucky or something the guys I like don't like me back but it's not like they are nasty or anything. Sometimes I think it would be easier if they were so I could hate them :/ Iv'e just kind of accepted I'm not attractive and I'm getting on with my career.
I've been told many times I look almost exactly like a young George Harrison and people found him attractive right? Aside from that I typically get called cute and pretty attractive women have come to give me looks now and again, so I guess I can't be to bad looking.
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