Ah! Thank you! I'm a bit of a bumpkin sometimesSmertnik said:Nope, never had any doubts. My image of the ideal partner has indeed changed greatly over the course of years, but not the gender. Been straight since the day I was born (or at the very least since the time I have clear memories of)
It's "per se", by the way.Lucem712 said:Well, I never really doubted my sexually per-say.
....thanksZen Toombs said:Vault101 said:stuff I really cant belive Im sayingI can say that I've gone through a similar circumstance, and I want you to know and realize that you can like boys and girls at the same time. I know I do, and so does a friend of mine. You also don't need to have had sex with that gender to know whether you like that gender or not - I'm a virgin, and she has only dated one person (a guy). Also, not having had sex with a guy just because you had the opportunity doesn't mean you don't like boys - if that was the case, I'd be the exact opposite of straight. Which I'm not, as I definitely like boobs, amongst other things. You can also like both genders, but prefer one to the other - in my case I prefer girls, and in my friends case she prefers guys.
Besides, Natalie Portman is HOT. Even if this was a world where you should feel shame for liking girls, there is an exception for her.
And I guess Mila Kunis is pretty attractive too, but it's mostly Natalie.
Back on subject - basically, don't worry about questioning yourself, and it isn't a bad thing to like both guys and girls. Remember, you don't have to choose just one. ;-)
I am most definitely not "normal". For one, normal is boring. For two, I spent far too much time trying to figure out exactly what I liked. I danced around the issue for a while, until I came to a realization.
It doesn't really matter what sexuality you identify as. All that's really important is that you like the person you're with, and that they like you.