It's a flaw in you persona, but it don't make you a horrible person. It's when someone think Japan deserved it because of Pearl Harbour they're on the slippery road to total assholes.ReservoirAngel said:Does it make me a horrible person that I really get pissed off whenever someone mentions Japan since the Earthquake and tsunami incident?
It's not that I don't CARE, exactly, I just don't want to hear about it all the time but nobody seems to want to shut up about it. It just makes me feel really guilty because whenever I tell someone "can you shut up about Japan, for god sake!" they treat me like I'm Hitler all of a sudden and I feel kind of bad about my thinking about this.
Personally, unless something effects me directly, I don't care about it.ReservoirAngel said:Does it make me a horrible person that I really get pissed off whenever someone mentions Japan since the Earthquake and tsunami incident?
It's not that I don't CARE, exactly, I just don't want to hear about it all the time but nobody seems to want to shut up about it. It just makes me feel really guilty because whenever I tell someone "can you shut up about Japan, for god sake!" they treat me like I'm Hitler all of a sudden and I feel kind of bad about my thinking about this.
It's weird that people just flat out ignore what you say, and continue the thread.Jingai09 said:I gotta say this before I make my peace. If any you tell this man he's a horrible person, then you are truly lacking on perception of what's really going on here. You do not understand that you have become mindless sheep for the media to prey upon. Anyone with half a brain knows the devastation that the Tohoku region has suffered. You know hundreds if not thousands are dead. You know even more are without basic necessities.
Do not fuel the panic fire. Do not give my mother another reason to flip out and demand I dismiss a dream job I had worked for 6 years to obtain. Give the people of Japan some credit by practicing what they have done in the face of disaster. Remain calm, do not wallow in mourning, and give. Give what you can. I love the people who's country I am a guest in. I donated what I could, and I hope in time I can unearth a small portion of the mess with my own two hands. But I will not fret, I will not sit around and cry, and I will certainly NOT listen to what other people say. I am a primary source when it comes to this tragedy. Did I feel the earthquake hit? Yes. Have I lost anything material in this devastation? No. Have I mentally suffered? Yeah. I struggled to make sure my 8 friends up North were alive, and the 3 days of aftershocks kept me awake at night. But I will not sit around and feel sorry for people.
I am sick of people telling other people like ReservoirAngel that he's a bad person because he's sick of people saying how horrible it is. He is 100% in the right. The event has happened, hundreds of thousands are miserable, and people are in need right now. But I can tell you right now, every man, woman, and child in Japan doesn't want you to feel sorry for them. They want you to help them.
So stop walking around trying to show people how much you care about them by repeating every day how sorry you are for them. Shut your mouth and do something that matters.
Though it is true that we do give Africa billions every year, I am fairly sure it is relative in terms of how much they need this aid.FamoFunk said:They're lucky in the sence of we donate millions and millions and millions (about 75million already yesterday?) to them every year, we won't be doing that with anyone else.
bahumat42 said:Um
its assholish. But its forgiveable if your equally dismissive of the charlie sheen mania and the ongoing gibberish in the courts.
'ReservoirAngel said:Does it make me a horrible person that I really get pissed off whenever someone mentions Japan since the Earthquake and tsunami incident?
It's not that I don't CARE, exactly, I just don't want to hear about it all the time but nobody seems to want to shut up about it. It just makes me feel really guilty because whenever I tell someone "can you shut up about Japan, for god sake!" they treat me like I'm Hitler all of a sudden and I feel kind of bad about my thinking about this.
/threadJingai09 said:I started an account just to answer this question...
I live in Japan. I live in Mie prefecture in a tiny town called Komono though the JET program.
I am so...sick...of the sensationalism that CNN, Fox and EVERY OTHER FREAKING NEWS STATION IS HAMMING TO YOU PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And the flat out LIES about current circumstances!
I couldn't get my family and friends to shut up about making me come home. I live 300 miles away from that mess.
Is it bad? Yeah. I donated about $103 bucks to a local fundraiser to help out the Tohoku region, but people are taking it WAY to freaking FAR! Every day it's "I'm fine...I'm fine...we had a mag 3 aftershock last night...No I'm not irradiated. No I'm not going to die."
"BUT IT'S NOT WORTH YOUR LIFE!" Yeah... which is why my life isn't in danger. I'm not gonna punk out of my job because there's a huge disaster to the north of me. That's like living in Florida, and packing up your life, job, family, everything, just because there was one bad hurricane.
That's another thing. I just heard from my family that Iodine pills are sold out in the states... WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!?! You really think with the way the wind currents work Cali is gonna suffer some huge fallout?
JUST!!!! UGRHGLHJPOHJJWKEHFJODSHJFKEJGKHPIJSDHNFJKSN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do your part. If you wanna help, donate. It's what the Tohoku region really needs. If you wanna fly over here in a month and help clean up, that's awesome. I'm taking nenkyu from work to do the same, or I hope I can. But for the love of FREAKING GOD! Stop FREAKING OUT!!! The people here have kept a cool head though and though. They queue up for food. They shelter people who have none. Everything has been done orderly. If these people aren't freaking the heck out about this WHY SHOULD YOU?! Give, Pray, Help. Don't spasm cause CNN told you the Japanese are "On the brink of despair." and "Are revolting against the government." Don't be sheep. Don't feed the news trolls.
To answer your question. No you are not a bad person. In fact, I wish people back home were just a little bit more like you.