I'd wait until the class is over to actually date her. Try to get to know her without dating, and then ask her on a date at the end of the semester.
Do's/Dont's of Dating a girl in your Classes
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If you want to go for it. At least you haven't fallen for a girl who is so damaged that she doesn't think she can be loved, that's not fun.
I should probably clarify I'm still in high school too.pimppeter2 said:Well I'm only talking about my experiences, which relate to high school. I promise to revive this thread and share my new found knowledgepantsoffdanceoff said:
Ps: When did you change your Avatar? The new one looks sick!
PS: I think I changed it about two weeks ago, but I haven't had time to do a lot of posting so it's not super well circulated yet.
there's no real drawback to it, except the obvious, "If you break up with them you have to see them in class" but it's college so the chances of you having more classes with them if you don't plan it out is pretty slim
Do it. You don't have to worry about this in college as much as the pro world.mattseffect said:
Just keep in mind to get some time apart too.
Worst that happens (after her not being a psycho) is that you have to change seats and you pick new lab partners.
I'm more worried about feeling pressured to have to sit by her every other day with fresh conversation and such. In big lectures I usually like to sit by somebody new every day and try to talk to them in the 10 minutes before class. It makes for really quick on the fly meeting people, and it really works my social aptitude.
This is sage advice.twistedshadows said:
My father once told me to never ever "shit where you eat". Seeing as I was four at the time, it was more practical as literal advice than metaphorical, but now it takes on a double meaning.
However, someone else mentioned convenience, and when it comes to women in general, you're going to do what you want to do, no matter what anyone else says. So really the best advice I can give to you, is take it slow, take it easy, and take her virginity.
Erh... Something like that.
My advice...
Take the "risk" such as it is. What's the worst that can happen exactly? The only person who is going to make you uncomfortable if things turn sour is you. If you are confident and secure in yourself then you are invulnerable.
Even in the worst case scenario the possible benefits outweigh the possible risks. This might be a chance for a lasting, enjoyable, meaningful relationship - it might just be a chance to do the deed a few times with a young lady you are clearly attracted to. Either way it's worth the "risk" in my book.
Take the "risk" such as it is. What's the worst that can happen exactly? The only person who is going to make you uncomfortable if things turn sour is you. If you are confident and secure in yourself then you are invulnerable.
Even in the worst case scenario the possible benefits outweigh the possible risks. This might be a chance for a lasting, enjoyable, meaningful relationship - it might just be a chance to do the deed a few times with a young lady you are clearly attracted to. Either way it's worth the "risk" in my book.
It sounds cool at the beginning of a relationship to always be close to that person, in classes and without. But a few months down the line your going to want some time away and classes can fulfill that role pretty well. The purpose is kinda defeated if she's there too, I love my fiance without a doubt but dam can't wait for boot camp for a couple months away hehe.
Oh as for the punching thing, I repeat a quote a sagely friend of mine told me "A punch in the gut a day keeps the babies away" ur not hurting her, your just helping both of your futures!
Oh as for the punching thing, I repeat a quote a sagely friend of mine told me "A punch in the gut a day keeps the babies away" ur not hurting her, your just helping both of your futures!
Depends if your the kind of guy who gets all serious and clingy about relationships if so then don't. If you can have a causal fun relationship, then even if you break up you can remain friends and see her/him everyday in the same class.
If you're both mature enough, then you'll both be able to deal with the awkwardness when and if things go wrong.
People have all sorts of random rules. Don't date friends sister's. Don't date people you work with. Don't date outside your ethnic/religious/blah group. It'll all go cocks up.
Yeah, probably will. Who cares, you're young and it doesn't have to last forever.
There is only one question that needs answering! How *hot* is she?
Yeah, probably will. Who cares, you're young and it doesn't have to last forever.
There is only one question that needs answering! How *hot* is she?
Go for it man! Who gives a crap about uncomfortable feelings and inconvenience when you have a chance of getting some?
Isn't it more imporatant to base your feelings on the person and not which depatment they study in? 0_o
In my experience you can't help who you fall for =)
In my experience you can't help who you fall for =)
NEVER ever date someone, you work with, go to school with etc. it can be very hard when thinks fuck up and they will when she finds out you talk about stuff like this on the internet