I am very impressed at Gaider's reaction. It makes me feel a little more accepted knowing there are developers like that.
~darkspawn explodes into a fountain of blood~snfonseka said:They should have introduced some characters as straight, some as bi and some as gay. It is more realistic than turning all the romance-companions into bi characters.
Really, it's strange enough for Merrill to fall in love with a human, so how far of a stretch would it be for her to fall for a woman?snfonseka said:They should have approached this sexuality issue in more creative manner, where the sexuality is part of the personality. For example, Merrill is straight and Isabela is bi.
Uuh, judging by this thread and my own personal experiences, maybe you should refrain from saying things that are specific to you as a general rule and pretend the majority are behind you. I, and many others, have no problem with either guys or girls hitting on them. Wanting it to not exist just seems a bit weird IMO.theriddlen said:If one is straight, he doesn't want to see people of same gender hitting on him. Why is that a problem for anyone?
Jeez, what do you have an issue with? "rubbing it in your face" apparently= there are clear romance options for gay guys and you don't have to enter the freakin konami code for the gay option to be unlocked. So could you explain what problems you have, and what "rubbing it in your face" means? And I presume you're completely against Isabella, because she rubs EVERYTHING in your face =pbut please stop rubbing homosexuality in my eyes why don't you? Is it too much to ask for? You can add it in games, but please, when i try to make friends with Zevran in DA:O to get his specialization he shouldn't suddenly ask me if i want to do it with him, why can't the player be the one to initiate (or not) romance?
Rubbing it in your face?theriddlen said:Homophobic? If one is straight, he doesn't want to see people of same gender hitting on him. Why is that a problem for anyone?
You people are heterophobic. We, straight people, are flamed just because we don't enjoy seeing things like that. And don't get me wrong (i know you will, you always do, you are blinded by your own hatred, the same argument you always use is your own trait), i don't have anything against gay people, i don't fight with them, i understand that they are the way they are, but please stop rubbing homosexuality in my eyes why don't you? Is it too much to ask for? You can add it in games, but please, when i try to make friends with Zevran in DA:O to get his specialization he shouldn't suddenly ask me if i want to do it with him, why can't the player be the one to initiate (or not) romance?
Also, i didn't read-through his (author of thread in BW social network) whole post, but from what I've read it didn't seem like a homophobic rage.
Do you know.. there are NPCs in that game who talk about being married!theriddlen said:You people are heterophobic. We, straight people, are flamed just because we don't enjoy seeing things like that. And don't get me wrong (i know you will, you always do, you are blinded by your own hatred, the same argument you always use is your own trait), i don't have anything against gay people, i don't fight with them, i understand that they are the way they are, but please stop rubbing homosexuality in my eyes why don't you? Is it too much to ask for? You can add it in games, but please, when i try to make friends with Zevran in DA:O to get his specialization he shouldn't suddenly ask me if i want to do it with him, why can't the player be the one to initiate (or not) romance?
As I stated in another post, it was also frustrating to have only one homosexual option per character.GloatingSwine said:I wouldn't say that it's "lazy writing", but it's certainly bad writing. Sexuality should be a part of the character, not an optional bolt on. If the character as designed is straight, then that's their character. I play both male and female characters in RPGs, and if that means I limit my choices for a romance for that character, oh well, them's the breaks. He-shep will never consummate his bromance with Garrus, and y'know, we'll just have to deal with that.Jaded Scribe said:I disagree. A lot of fans complained in Dragon Age that they had to play a certain gender to romance Morrigan or Alistair.Ewyx said:However, it would be nice if the characters in the game were either bi straight or gay. Everyone being bisexual is just lazy writing more than anything else.
By making everyone available, regardless of Hawke's gender, you don't have fans who want to try a romance between their character and companion X being pigeon-holed into playing a certain gender.
For example, I play female characters. I don't like playing RPGs as male characters. Nothing wrong with them, just a personal preference. But to romance Morrigan, I'll have to do a playthrough with a male character. But I have no issues pursuing who I want in DA2.
Funny, but the big heart icon kind of gives the romance options away.Dafttechno said:asked and answered http://www.cad-comic.com/cad/20110314MR T3D said:someone get that webcomic where the male Hawke is talking to the elf-guy, and says to himself "Okay, just let him down easy, don't want any rivalry points here" and then the next frame they're in bed, with him puzzled as to why.
Your avatar and post work very well together.Irridium said:Yes, because if its one group thats not pandered to enough, its straight, male gamers.
The flirting dialogue options with Merrill start appearing around her Act 2 companion quest, as I recall. I figure she's harder to approach because she's so shy.Shoggoth2588 said:I'm trying to hook up with Marrill but as of Act 2, I've yet to see a romantic option on the conversation wheel with her. Just about everyone else has given me the option to be flirtatious.
I don't mind same-sex couplings. The next male Hawk I play is going to chow down on Fenris' Elf but right now I want to get involved with Marrill (who is a 100% friend at the moment). I loved being able to get down and dirty with Zevran back in Origins (especially as a Dwarf) but that doesn't mean I want all of my couplings to be same-sex.
Maybe if I was a female Hawke I'd get a better chance at hooking up with Marrill...it sounds like it based on what I've heard so far.
As a straight man secure in his sexuality, I approve of this post. Granted, I've never been into dudes going at it but my ick factor has nothing to do with what reality should be like. Like you said, I only have rights to my reactions, not their feelings. Sometimes you're hit on, sometimes you're not.evilthecat said:Do you know.. there are NPCs in that game who talk about being married!theriddlen said:You people are heterophobic. We, straight people, are flamed just because we don't enjoy seeing things like that. And don't get me wrong (i know you will, you always do, you are blinded by your own hatred, the same argument you always use is your own trait), i don't have anything against gay people, i don't fight with them, i understand that they are the way they are, but please stop rubbing homosexuality in my eyes why don't you? Is it too much to ask for? You can add it in games, but please, when i try to make friends with Zevran in DA:O to get his specialization he shouldn't suddenly ask me if i want to do it with him, why can't the player be the one to initiate (or not) romance?
They're rubbing their heterosexuality in my eyes! MY EYES! The goggles do nothing! etc.
In other words, people behaving perfectly normally is not 'rubbing something in your eyes', get over it.
Sometimes people hit on you. I know you poor fragile straight men aren't used to it, but it happens. You don't get exclusive control over who tries to flirt with you, you can only control how you react, and sometimes how you react has consequences regardless of your good intentions. See.. The game is teaching you an important life lesson.