Emotionally Crushing.

[Mcmuffin]

i was just reading a thread about basically the worst relationship things that have happened to people, and it got me thinking, has anyone ever experienced anything so emotionally crushing it didn't really measure up to anything else.

Mine would be when my grandfather died, He pretty much raised me from when i was a kid, he taught me how to use a knife, taught me history, took me hiking, i spent many years with him and when he died of cancer i was pretty much inconsolable for pretty much months. So Escapists, whats your story?

 

[SckizoBoy]

I'll go with the response I put there. This happened almost three years ago now.

Spoiler: Spoilered for sheer depressingness

Right, this is the first... okay second, now, time I've divulged this without her permission outside of a clinical environment: we went through a stillbirth about a month before we broke up.

She suffered a severe manic fit while in hospital and when she saw me, were I anyone else I'd've had to take cover. She nearly broke my nose & jaw and shouted herself hoarse begging me to rape her. Took about half an hour for her to calm down and thank god I'm stronger than her.

Was this the worst thing that happened to me? I think so. Do I blame her? No, I don't. Do I still love her? Yes, I do, a lot. Do I want to get back together with her? Well, until I know I can make her happy, I don't know.

She's going through therapy etc. her brother tells me she's doing OK at the moment.

 

[monkey-skitz 91]

I'll go with the response I put there. This happened almost three years ago now.



She's going through therapy etc. her brother tells me she's doing OK at the moment.

man thats tragic. you have my condolances, for what its worth.