I'm in your boat OP, never been much for strategy games because, well, I'm really bad at them. But just for us I think Civ V is an amazing game and easily the best strategy game I've played. It's very accessible for new and non strategy players with a surprising amount of depth that you start noticing once you get the hang of it. It also has tons of civilizations to choose from (including the Netherlands which is always a selling point), a great and attractive visual style and of course the series' famed addictive nature. If you want to give strategy games another go I'd say this is your best bet by far!