failure

[Kae]

Well I've had pretty bad failures like that time I suppressed all the rage I had for 2 months and ended up having a nervous attack in the middle of a class and started punching a classmate that had nothing to do with my rage... I think that iis a pretty big failure but at least my classmates stopped teasing me because they thought I was going to murder them so at least a good thing came of it

 

[EeveeElectro]

Wow... your parents sound... lovely. /sarcasm.
As for your lass... why do you need material goods? That's what pissed me off about my ex, if it was our anniversary, he'd say "I wanna get you something, I wanna take you out, do this, do that, spend money."
It pissed me off, you don't need material goods to show how much you love someone. Going for a walk, watching the sunset, cuddling with a movie, me signing to him and he playing guitar to me.. that's what makes me happy, not an overpriced teddy.

People have never called me a failure, but I am one because I can't do anything right. Hooray for being on a downer!

 

[Cpt_Oblivious]

Keep calm and carry on.
[small]Is there anything that stuff from the war can't solve?[/small]

 

[El Poncho]

You should walk to your girlfriends house, through the snow with a fractured knee, throwing the door open and be a hero.

 

[The Wooster]

You should walk to your girlfriends house, through the snow with a fractured knee, throwing the door open and be a hero.

This.

The only way to avert failure is to treat it with regular doses of badass.

 

[Nicolai]

Preferably also pain relief, then the two of you can collapse together and comfort each other at least.

As for the 1 year anniversary, the traditional gift I'm aware of is Paper. Find a pattern for some simple Origami Flowers and if you can get some nice paper, fold them for her. If you curl the petals on this, and pinch the inner sections into a point, it looks really good:

http://www.tinyshiny.com/HowToProjects/OrigamiIris.php

Looks even better if you can get patterned or metallic paper, but you did say you're broke and that stuff can be annoyingly pricy for about 10 sheets.

I also like the 3D Origami hearts you can put things inside, that makes a great present and container in one. Can't find any links that aren't videos for that and I'm too used to diagrams so I can fold things at my own pace.

 

[BlindMessiah94]

It's ok to be a failure (something I'm slowly learning this year). Just don't think you are one because everyone else tells you are one.

I know I am a failure because of the poor choices I've made at what it's cost me. But if anyone says it to my face I'll tell them to go fuck off because they have no right judging me until they've walked a mile in my shoes.

Anyhow, your wounds will heal (physically), you'll get back on your feet money wise, and things will be okay again, for a time. Then some other shit will happen and you'll feel like a failure again. Then you'll get back on your feet again. Then....

Circle of life.

NAAAAA SIBUNYAAAAAAAAAA

 

[funguy2121]

failure has been alot on my mind lately mainly cause ive been doing alot of it

yesterday my parents told me i was a failure cause i couldnt shovel snow i have a fractured knee and can barely walk.To add to this me and my girlfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up but im am flat out broke so i feel like a failure cause i cant take her anywhere nice and she called me up about 5 minutes ago telling me shes sick and she wanted me to comfort her i had no idea what to say or do.i dont own a 4X4 car and theres 20 inches of snow on the ground so i cant go comfort her at home
i feel like a failure

so have you ever failed like this leave your stories of failure

Edit:for those who say i should move away from home im 16 with no car and no money

Your parents are dicks. You do, however, need to drop the pity party and pull yourself up by your bootstraps or whatever that trite-ass cliche is. If your chick's been with you for over a year I think she cares about more than how much you spend on her - and you can find creative ways around the money problem.

 

[FallenJellyDoughnut]

Just treat all of your failures as learning experiences, then try harder the next time.

And then fail harder next time, because face it, you're shit at everything.

 

[Aunel]

not being able to play Victor Wooten's bass stuff.

Heh, you're pretty successful if that's your fail ;D

yeah but I'm also poor,

I have no money's *cry*