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Erecting a Sentry

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Hello Escapist, the girl I like is a year above me and alot of her friends hate me, on another note she happens to be my friends sister who is very protective of her. I have always got the feeling she kinda liked me back but I don't want to risk embarrassing myself, what the fuck do?
 

Molander

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It's Very hard To Really know what to do in situations when love is a part of it.

Personally I would give it a shot but if your friend and her friends doesn't like it, it can become problematic. If you really like her then perhaps it's worth a shot?

I really didn't think i would use this phrase but, Listen to Your Heart.
 

Anarchemitis

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Tough question, seeing as I'm [one of three] protective brothers over our younger sister. I would imagine that if you comport yourself in a manner that is honorable and befitting of respect, then the fears or suspicions of the brother would be unfounded or alleviated.
Earn the trust of her and the brother.
 

Zedayen

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Unless you intend to have a very serious and very long relationship, do not, DO NOT date the sister of a good friend. If things go south you risk losing a lot of people.
 

LawlessSquirrel

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Tough situation.

If her friends don't like you, that spells trouble. Her being your friend's sister could also spell trouble, but may not necessarily. Basically, in my opinion things are stacked against you.

This doesn't mean you can't give it a shot. Hell, there's probably not much of a problem in bringing it up with her, assuming she's not the randomly vindictive type. If you actually want to go for the relationship, as I said, there's factors against you. As long as things are respectful, I don't think it should be much of an issue with your friend (although, I admit, if one of my friends went out with my little sister, I may be a little weirded out). As for her friends...well, if they fight against you it could put a serious strain on the relationship. "Could".

People listen to their friends, at least on some level, so that could be a problem if they really do hate you. That said, it's not simple failure-inducing factor, and I'd hope they'd be easier on someone a friend's involved with if it wasn't destructive.

So yeah, you can at least find out if the feeling's mutual, but I'd suggest (and this is hypothetical speculation only) giving it a bit of time before actively pursuing anything; see if circumstances become a bit more accommodating.
 

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Gah. Sit back and evaluate why you like this girl so much. Is she pretty? Do you talk to her and hang out a lot? Have you two ever "Connected" and found that you have a lot in common, or shared interests, or views of the world?

It sounds to me like puppy Love, and as great as love is, I'd have to advise anyone against falling in love ever. >:C
 

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Erecting a Sentry said:
Hello Escapist, the girl I like is a year above me and alot of her friends hate me, on another note she happens to be my friends sister who is very protective of her. I have always got the feeling she kinda liked me back but I don't want to risk embarrassing myself, what the fuck do?
Why don't her friends like you? Unfortunately, what a person's friends think about another person can sway or warp that person's perspective or opinion.

But ultimately, if you like someone, and you believe they like you in return, there shouldn't be any good reason to not let them know how you feel. It's just as likely you'll be embarrassed as no one will notice, or even care. People are immature, but even if they do make fun of you (assuming she doesn't like you) it'll pass in no time. It takes a certain level of courage and confidence to go up to someone and let them know how you feel about them, and that's far more important than what some other immature teens will think.
 

TheYellowCellPhone

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When I saw this thread had only had two lines for the OP, I knew how vague it would be.

Well, do you like her? If you don't, I wouldn't do anything unless she approached you.
 

Zaik

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Erecting a Sentry said:
Hello Escapist, the girl I like is a year above me and alot of her friends hate me, on another note she happens to be my friends sister who is very protective of her. I have always got the feeling she kinda liked me back but I don't want to risk embarrassing myself, what the fuck do?
it's not a situation you want to get into.

#1: Why alienate your friend? It's not really normal to date a friend's sister. Not unacceptable, but there's too much danger there.

#2: Female friends will spew venom about each other's boyfriends at a normal setting. If they don't like you already, they will mindfuck her until she swears up and down you are a nazi.

TLDR: drama isn't worth it. 51% of the people you meet in the world are women, why go after one that is going to cause trouble?