Fetishes and why you think you have them.

[Justin1221]

As far as just the body goes, butts (Especially cute bubble-butts), nice-sized and non-boney hips, plump thighs, possibly long or atleast medium length legs, and oddly enough, the midriff and the back.

There's something nice about seeing the curvy middle-part (or all of) a woman's back and seeing a flat, smooth and soft belly with a cute little belly button and the curves in between the hips and the chest.

Wow, this feels creepy, but I suppose my fetishes aren't the weirdest.

I've never cared too much for breasts. They make for nice eye-candy, but there's not much I can think of doing to them that I want to.

Also, red hair and black hair, and I prefer a cute face over a sexy one, for some reason.

 

[Freechoice]

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/FootFocus

"There are plenty of theories. It could just be cross-wiring. In the control map of the brain, the genitals are right next to the feet."
Dr. Huang (on foot fetishes), Law & Order: Special Victims Unit

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DracoInLeatherPants

"I tell you, Satan's gonna have no trouble taking over here 'cause all the women are gonna say: 'What a cute butt.' 'He's Satan!' 'You don't know him like I do.' 'He's the Prince of Darkness!' 'I can change him.'"
Bill Hicks, Arizona Bay routine

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/FurryFandom
"One thing most furries agree on is this: They aren't sex freaks."
Melissa Meinzer, "Animal Passions"


The last one is subject to debate, but I will admit; the cleanest pics on foundry tend to be furry.

 

[Gordon_4_v1legacy]

Me, I love a woman who can fight. I blame watching the old Lynda Carter Wonder Woman, and Xena: Warrior Princess as a lad. Seriously, between like minded lovers, a martial bout is the best kind of foreplay. This heart-starter only got worse when I started reading Wonder Woman and Power Girl comics.

...I need a cigarette.

 

[StormShaun]

Cute and innocent girls and woman......and more....secret stuff.....VERY SECRET...

 

[ManWithHat]

I would have to say big boobs are must for me. I don't know why, it's just how I've always been.
I mean, I like many types of girls. I enjoy a big ass, a set of nice thick thighs, dark hair of any length(especially red), and I enjoy them with a little weight on them. I don't like the really skinny girls, or the especially sculpted ones. I like em with a little heft. But if all they got is a nice rack, that's enough for me.

I find the most unattractive thing is a bitchy personality, regardless of how she looks. Bad personalities are a real turn-off.

 

[Tautology]

I have an interest in BDSM or at least the bondage/discipline aspect over sadism/masochism. There's something so alluring about the idea of owning a woman, like one does a pet. I also believe a collar is one of the sexiest accessories a woman can wear.

As for why, it's something I've always wondered. I can't recall the exact moment it all began. There are a few reasons for it that come to my mind, though.

The first is my desire for self control and control of the things around me. I enjoy being in control and I enjoy working for it more.

Second might be the way I viewed my parents and their relationships. They were never together, so I always saw my mother as a whore and my father as a coward. Possible Oedipal issues hidden in there someplace.

lastly, I'm a misanthropist. I'm unable, or unwilling to trust people, especially women. Because I feel I can't trust anyone, I have to own the one I love. In a master/slave relationship, the slave has to trust the master and earn their trust. I might even fetishize trust and possession. I'm also terrified of what I have being taken by someone else.

There are more issues that led to this fetish; these are big ones I want to keep private until I can articulate them to myself. I will say that some of them have made me incapable of viewing porn.

 

[aLivingPheonix]

The only possible explanation I can come up with as to why I'm attracted to woman of orange hair (It's not red, or ginger. IT'S ORANGE DAMNIT!) is that orange is my favourite colour, although I can't really see how favourite colour = sexual fetish...

 

[superbatranger]

You know, I have no idea why I have some of my fetishes. I just do. I don't question it, that's for sure.

 

[DJDarque]

Most of mine are fairly normal. Nerdy girls, goth girls, the usual.

But my craziest one (which I am not comfortable sharing) just came out of nowhere. I stumbled across it on accident and my brain said "you like this now."

 

[TheMatsjo]

[Ignoring the broadness of the term "fetish"]women's faces when they orgasm, being scratched, open mouths[/*]

Quite the bold question OP, nice.

Cheers.

 

[Ferrious]

What am I, your therapist?

For me, this whole thread was won right there on page one.

On Topic: Fetishes are tied so innately to those parts of us that are difficult / impossible to shape or mould that they can be seen as a form of self-expression. We rarely work to actually develop a given fetish (unless you're trying to join in your partner's fun, which is more a desire to please), they just "are".

Personally I have a thing for girls that wear chokers, as well as a more general emo/goth fetish going on. I'm not sure how that would've come from my childhood, but I can see how that might have developed during my teenage years.

 

[Vault101]

Well I cant really talk from experience...but If I had to say anything
I think I'd be into the Idea of being on the submissive side of things...


I think that probably comes from being a complete push over in real life, ive gotten better now but I used to be a complete doormat also shy and quiet/timid, perhaps with that "innocent" vibe I dont know

 

[Kraj]

I'm a 5'10 dominican american. "first generation" and I've been told very attractive.

I love 5'0-5'2 romanian bred females. so cute. so adorable. but any tiny girl will do. Probably because of . . . things involving height that make certain texts such as the Kama Sutra more viable... or maybe it's just that a short guy needs a shorter girl for a complex? dunno.

 

[dietpeachsnapple]

*his head explodes as he grapples with the differences between "fetish," "kink/sexual variation," and "paraphilia."*

The question is not within my grasp to answer...regrettably.

 

[TriGGeR_HaPPy]

2 main ones for me, I guess.
Breasts at least a C-cup (I've dated girls with less, just for the record. It doesn't actually affect the quality of the relationship, just... Yea :S ), and I by far prefer to be the one giving the pleasure during our intimate moments (though I won't say no to the other way around I just prefer it...).

No clue about why, I just go with it. Amature psychologists?

EDIT: Oh. And even though I'm fine with doing stuff once we get started, I'm much more comfortable when she starts it off.
Not necessarily aggressive-pushing-me-to-the-bed starting it off, just... Letting me know she's in the mood, at least. Anything from telling me, to her body language (which I'm a natural at reading, so I haven't made a mistake at reading body language yet. Yet. God I hope I never make that mistake in future ).

Double-EDIT: Also, wow. I kinda got off the topic of Fetishes and into other stuff with that first point. How embarrassment. My apologies.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Girls who are sexy but could beat the shit out of me in a straight up fight.

Actually getting beat up by them would be the worst.

But just knowing they could hmm.

 

[Aphex Demon]

I've always been attracted more towards the butt then any other part of the body.

originally it was the ability to go at it and not get the girl pregnant, then it just got more about the fact that it can be an enjoy experience.

I am an ass man myself. I also like women with smaller breasts for some reason. I like small women in general though. Although one time, I saw the perfect ass. I'm serious, it was like a perfect orb of booty. I pointed it out to my friend and we both stared until she was out of eyesight. It was God's gift to man, I swear it was.

I can't thank stop laughing at that. Thank you good sir!

Yaaaaaaas da booty ftw.

Also there was this girl where I used to work. She had the most perfect orb ass of life I have ever seen. My boss used to talk about how he could munch on that shit all day, we all agreed of course. By all I mean every male species that worked there. It was incredible.

 

[Zeema]

Crossdressing Curse you 'Princess Princess' and Jun from 'Happiness'

and Cosplay

 

[Secret world leader (shhh)]

Although i haven't had sex yet the whole BDSM/Bondage/Femdom thing seems fun.

I think it's partly because of one episode of Hercules (the kevin sorbo one) I watched when i was 4/5/6 where he got tied up by a bunch of really hot chicks. If i remember correctly, this inspired me to tie myself to a post with a skipping rope which was sexy (the act of doing so, not the rope!)

I then had to get my mum to untie me, I felt no shame as a child.

EDIT: DAMMIT! 666th post! I was hoping to save this for something special!

 

[Zoe Castillo]

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