Fetishes you just don't understand

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Stevanchez

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Rosetta said:
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It's actually kind of funny because, by definition, a lot of American women(because of cultural norms) are acrotomophiliacs.
What? How do you come to this conclusion?

Acrotomophilia is a paraphilia wherein the individual is intensely aroused by amputees. Where not talking 'likes' or 'feels sorry for', no, no. A paraphilia is an intense, often perverse and harmful sexual attraction. Although acrotomophilia is usually completely harmless, it is most certainly NOT common. In fact, if what you were saying is true, it wouldn't be a paraphilia; if "a lot of American women" had an intense sexual attraction to amputees, it would just be the way things are - normal, mundane. The very fact that acrotomophilia is a paraphilia is counter to your argument.
Someone already explained it, but incase you missed it. Most American women find a circumsized penis(technically an amputated penis) more sexually attractive. Now, most people would say those are completely different, but thechnically those women are being sexually aroused by an amputee.

That's why I said "it's funny", because most people would not see those as related but, by the definition of acrotomophilia, they are.
 

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In the somatosensory cortex, the part that receives input from the feet is right next to the part that receives input from the genitals. There might be some neurotransmission "spillage" between the two regions which might explain foot fetishism.

As for sadism or masochism, that can be explained rather easily by a little known classical conditioning experiment conducted by Pavlov. The experiment was very similar to the famous experiment where he discovered classical conditioning, except Pavlov used an electric shock as the neutral stimulus and food as the conditioned stimulus. Basically, he shocked the dog and then gave the dog food. After a while, the dog would salivate when it was shocked, and interestingly enough, the shock seemed to have lost much of its aversive effect after that point. The dog even acted excited when it was shocked.
 

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Furies, Rape (all types, no exceptions), Anime Pron, and whatever the thing is called when people cut off their arms while nude or whatever... my firends tell me about this shit all the time, and I want to shoot myself with a fifty caliber sniper when they are done explaining it...
 

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For me is this recurring fetish that involves me fighting with another guy until the point that i feel in synch with him all leading to a real passionate sex explosion of frenzy and lasting hours.... Here's the problems with this one (is mine):

1. I cannot find a partner (if is female I can't love her) (if is male I have to trust him)
2. Is a trust thing (I recognize this) it stem of the fact that I lacked "real" friends growing up and was raised in and environment in which woman were dominant (or rather all around)
3. To me it feels like is all about masculinity; yet (here the kicker) i do not consider myself gay... Just have an inert desire for something straight out of anime or some s*** like that...

4. And the most important... I CAN'T LOVE or rather i threw away that emotion and replaced it with rapid adaptability... Meaning I learn fast and understand fast just don't love myself or anyone else for that matter.

In the end this "fetish" of mine prevents me from really forming a "normal" life by society standards... By my account i feel normal. (just living like a wild lion in a cage of repression) in reality I recognize that is impossible to act upon everything.
 

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One that I don't get is scat.....but I do find furries and fursuit sex quite arousing >.>
 

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Verlander said:
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Sexual sadism. I just...don't get it. Being a sadist is supposed to be for humor anyway.
It should be done in good humour, if that's what you mean? Like people should be happy and consenting to play. It's not a joke or a pisstake though, especially as someone could get very hurt that way. In that respect, it's definitely not for humour.
No I meant that sadism in sex is weird and that sadism should be used for laughing at the expense of other's misfortunes and pain. But that's just me. To each his own.
 

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jcb1337 said:
Verlander said:
jcb1337 said:
Sexual sadism. I just...don't get it. Being a sadist is supposed to be for humor anyway.
It should be done in good humour, if that's what you mean? Like people should be happy and consenting to play. It's not a joke or a pisstake though, especially as someone could get very hurt that way. In that respect, it's definitely not for humour.
No I meant that sadism in sex is weird and that sadism should be used for laughing at the expense of other's misfortunes and pain. But that's just me. To each his own.
Oh right. Well I'm a Sadist, and the main attraction isn't the hurting of someone, it's them getting off on it. Most Sadists get off on getting other people off, and like to push that as far as it can go. I think to an extent most girls are slightly masochistic, or at least very submissive in bed, and so I kinda rule the playground in that respect
 

Stevanchez

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Rosetta said:
No. No they aren't. That is absurd beyond belief.

I wonder if you even understand what paraphilia means. Allow me to enlighten you:

[blockquote]"Paraphilia is a biomedical term used to describe sexual arousal to objects, situations, or individuals that are not part of normative stimulation and that may cause distress or serious problems for the paraphiliac or persons associated with him or her."[/blockquote]

Now, if you would kindly point out which aspect of a circumsized penis is not part of the "normative stimulation and that may cause distress or serious problems for the paraphiliac or persons associated with him or her."

You see, if it is normal, mundane, or 'expected within social norms' it cannot be a paraphilia.
Would you prefer I say acucullophilia? Cause really I don't see much of a difference. One is sexually interested in amputees and the other is sexually interested in a more specified group of amputees. By the way, acucullophilia is viewed as a paraphilia, so whatever arguement you were trying to make above is not valid.

EDIT: The quotes were too gigantic, so I just took what I was responding to.
 

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riottrio said:
perhaps not the case if their fetish happens to be 'rape'
We could argue whenever rape is actually a fetish or just a name for sexual assault. Fantasy-Rape or Quasi-Rape is what would be much closer to general idea of sexual fetish, when the 'victim' is actually excited by the concept of being taken by force, or other way around, when the assaulter just pretends to rape, knowing well that the 'victim' expects it.

There also is difference between deviations and fetishes. With fetish it doesn't have to be something you actually do, it may just be the sight, smell or even thinking about it that triggers you.
For eg. if you get excited by reading rape stories it doesn't have to mean you will ever rape someone, but rape will be your fetish.
 

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Dexiro said:
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What is a furry?
I'm kind of confused.
By definition; a furry is someone that likes anthropomorphic* animals to some extent. It's not necessarily a sexual attraction, and yes It's a very vague definition.

The furry fetish on the other hand is a sexual attraction to these anthropomorphic animals.

*Incase you don't know, if something is anthropomorphic it means that it has human-like features. For example Sonic walks around on 2 legs and can talk, that means he's anthropomorphic.
Thank for that it makes sense now. Don't get the fetish though.
 

MindBullets

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Fetishes are pretty personal, so nobody should expect to understand any but their own (if any). And be tolerant of others', of course.
 

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martintox said:
Feet,furries,scat,piss,babies and if you really go into freaky territory,robot furry incest rape sex.
I seriously hope that last fetish doesn't actually exist.
I duped it there is a mutilated corpse fetish, what has been seen can not be unseen doesn't even begin to describe what I stumbled upon once.
 

Zydrate

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Feet.

And scat.
It doesn't creep me out or anything. I just don't bloody understand.
 

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dalek sec said:
Wierdguy said:
feet... I mean... theyre feet...
That's one I could never understand. I'm not bashing anyone who might like it, I just don't get it myself. It's just one of those kinks I could never understand no matter how hard I thought about them.
I think it has something to do with the genitalia being right next to the feet in the brain or something like that. Learned it off TV Tropes, so take with NaCl.
 

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Keava said:
riottrio said:
perhaps not the case if their fetish happens to be 'rape'
We could argue whenever rape is actually a fetish or just a name for sexual assault. Fantasy-Rape or Quasi-Rape is what would be much closer to general idea of sexual fetish, when the 'victim' is actually excited by the concept of being taken by force, or other way around, when the assaulter just pretends to rape, knowing well that the 'victim' expects it.

There also is difference between deviations and fetishes. With fetish it doesn't have to be something you actually do, it may just be the sight, smell or even thinking about it that triggers you.
For eg. if you get excited by reading rape stories it doesn't have to mean you will ever rape someone, but rape will be your fetish.
I'm glad you clarified this for people who would have taken my joke seriously, but i do hope you understand that I do not seriously believe a rape fetish meant that they enjoyed raping people. It would mean much more rape charges would be filed.
 

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Kenny3k said:
dont get vore
See below.

Ironic Pirate said:
Grey_Focks said:
Yeah, that's vore. I don't understand it myself, and I have it.
I don't know if I can entirely explain why you might have it, since you have said that you are more on the niche end of vore that is male predators, but I can explain my end since I am mostly on the prey end.

I only get vore when it is of an attraction nature. I don't get people that like the thought of being vored by animals or by people they don't like or have a sexual attraction towards. So I am strictly human eating human. What I do get is my attraction to being eaten by a beautiful girl/woman.

I've come to the conclusion that since I haven't been able to have relationship with a girl(I seem destined to be just a good friend, and not a boyfriend), that I haven't been that close to a girl, vore is the ultimate closeness. Whether it be same-sized swallowed by a girl or my favorite: being shrunk to about 3 to 5 inches and swallowed whole or on occasion chewed in a sandwich or cooked in her meal(baked goods like cakes, muffins and pies usually); it is to me getting the closest I can to her, to me I can see nothing quite as intimate as being devoured by a girl, nourishing her, and in a way, becoming a part of her.

Though of course it is all strictly fantasy, especially when it comes to the pain factor of such a situation. In my fantasies, I never feel pain because I am too pleasured by the situation. If it does come to digestion in a girl's belly, I pass-out before I feel any pain of being digested. I do a lot of writing of interactive stories on writing.com. The main idea of many of the stories is that the main character, for whatever reason, is immortal in the sense that he can be devoured and digested, not feel anything but pleasure, and reform unharmed the next day in whatever place I have deemed as the reform location. That way the story can go on and the character can experience getting eating many more times and in different ways. If the character turns out to not be immortal, the ending isn't painful and that is the end and that's that. Another fetish that is involved with the shrinking, is the occasions when the character is sat on, since my favorite body part of a woman is her butt.

http://www.writing.com/main/portfolio/view/writerlord

Ignore my moronic ego about my writing. I think it is a general rule when dealing with writers.

Now I do occasionally enter the realm of predator, but when that happens it usually enters the realm of cannibalism and cooking. This I would explain as having such a strong attraction to girls and women that I'm interested in, that I have such a sexual hunger and lust, that becomes actual hunger in a way. I'm into reading and looking at art where good looking girls and women are cooked in ovens, pots, on grills, roasted on spits(tied to it, not skewered), or fried. Though I only like the non-gore stuff(preparation, and during cooking). It my fantasies, find ways so that the girl feels no pain and just pleasure. Definitely, somehow, no blood is involved. Now if someone were to ask, which it has happened before online, fantasy-wise, what is the tastiest part of a woman, that would be the butt, or in the world of this fetish, the rump.

Yeah, people may call me weird or sick, but it is just fantasy. I have seen many more fetishes out there that I consider weird and way more sick. Mine seems like bed of roses when compared to others. I can easily understand why I get a rise out of my fetishes, because I can see how it relates to sex, but others, I fail to see anything sexual.