First Date Advice

[superspartan004]

I know that this is probably one of the weirdest sites to get dating advice from, but I don't trust sites that are pages long and are written by one person, surprisingly I trust the people here more.

All right. I'm 16 she's 16, This is my first date, she's had a boyfriend before. Our plans for the date include a movie, mini golf, and dinner at a restaurant. This is also a double date, my best friend and his date are going as well. What can I do to make sure I don't screw up?

Any advice is greatly appreciated, please no replies calling me a (insert mean words here), even though it can't get me down, simply getting a date has made my confidence levels skyrocket.

 

[Zyxzy]

Does your best friend have experience?

 

[superspartan004]

My friend has had countless amount of girlfriends, with that we usually poke fun at him by mentioning that he has had over 300, but in reality he has had probably 6 or 7 with longest lasting around 4 months

 

[Crimsane]

Relax and have a good time. That's essentially all you need to do. If you manage to fuck it up somehow, it'll be a learning experience. You got one date, means you can always get another if this falls through.

 

[Syntax Error]

First date and it's a double date? There are so many ways that that could go wrong.

 

[Pezzer]

I have only one piece of advice, if you can't break the ice try to find something you both suffer because of. Alternatively try to get her to come out in the rain with you so you can share being REALLY wet.

Worked for me ; )

 

[wolfy098]

First date and it's a double date? There are so many ways that that could go wrong.

but it could end up SO right
cos if ur friend can only keep a girl for 4 months then
she's gonna think your a nice guy

 

[Malevolent Stranger]

Eh, Cliche advice: Be yourself.

 

[Shycte]

1) Don't make perverted comments

2) Focus on her, sure you can talk with your friend. But always keep the focus

3) Litsen to what she says, if she thinks that you're pleasant to talk to = +1

4) Say nice things, call her cute etc etc. Not to much, but enough to make her feel special

Hope that helped.

 

[andrat]

Well... first off, don't listen to any of the negative dipshits.
Just don't get an "awkward moment", those are kinda bad. Also, movie theaters are great places to make a move

 

[teutonicman]

Crack a couple jokes but try hard to be funny.

 

[halflobster]

Just relax my man. dont be nervous.

 

[Pezzer]

1) Don't make perverted comments

But mildly cheeky ones are good.

 

[Syntax Error]

First date and it's a double date? There are so many ways that that could go wrong.

but it could end up SO right
cos if ur friend can only keep a girl for 4 months then
she's gonna think your a nice guy

I forgot about that. It's good to keep a back-up plan. Better if you get a good "reputation".

 

[Simonccx]

bring flowers, it amazing how often this works, with my current girlfriend it turned out i was the first guy to ever buy her flowers scored major points.

Also make the effort to spend some time with her, when ur on your way to the resturant hang back a bit and walk her, offer your arm etc. It feels a bit corny but most women never get a real gentlemen.

Also love the mini golf idea, if shes bad or struggling and your feeling confident you can reach round her and guide her through a shot, alternatively you can do badly but be a graceful looser, sympathy vote.

Good luck mate, just be yourself, you know what she likes more then we geeks

 

[Gladion]

1) Don't make perverted comments

What?! I could NEVER quit that. I always need to express what butt is in my mind right at the moment, it's like an addiction.

 

[superspartan004]

1) Don't make perverted comments

2) Focus on her, sure you can talk with your friend. But always keep the focus

3) Litsen to what she says, if she thinks that you're pleasant to talk to = +1

4) Say nice things, call her cute etc etc. Not to much, but enough to make her feel special

Hope that helped.

most of that I realized, It does help having someone tell me that though, I don't know why it just does, starting and keeping a conversation is my biggest worry though since there's only a few things I can ramble on about

Japanese Anime
Video Games (of course, but I'll stay away from that subject as long as possible)
My days of Premier League Soccer
Music

that's about it actually

 

[Lexodus]

You ask her or did she ask you?

 

[Soxafloppin]

OKAY on my first date with my current girlfriend this is what i did.

We watched the movie (dont kiss at the end its over done)

On the way out walk beside her and sorta move your hand towards hers ( if shes into you she will take hold)

Towards the end of the date (towards the end, not when you walk her to her door) face her directly, take her other hand ( asuming your still holding the other) Lean in, Im pretty sure u get where im going.

DONT

Be overly nerdy. A little is good tho!

Talk to just your friend

talk about masturbation or takin or a dump to your friend!

AND RELAX!

Good luck my friend.

 

[Toners]

ugh... the entire point of a date is so the girl can get to know you, not some random jackass with a hundred quotes or jokes to hide what they're really like... remember, if they're on a date with you, they quite possibly already like you, there's no need to impress, so relax x)
also possibility of sexings, but i digress
anyone thus far who said "be yourself" clearly knows what they're talking about