How can I put it.Bamba said:Well dont you think it'd make a woman more appealing if she wears nice clothes? It doesnt matter if its something expensive or delicate really, just has to look good.
I can admit that in the past I've been influenced in my feelings toward a woman by what she was wearing. If a woman is wearing something that reveals cleavage or emphasises her rear, I'll notice and I'll probably like it. Dressing for sexual emphasis is easy for me to understand, and I know how I'm supposed to feel. But terms like "beautiful dress" or "cute skirt" just confuse me. I don't understand how a man who is appreciating beauty or cuteness, without arousal, is feeling at all.
Is it the same sort of feeling you get when you take in a great sunset or the view from a mountain top? I just don't know.
If a woman has a great face, that'll draw me over. If she has a loud mouth and a filthy laugh, that'll draw me over. If she's aggressive and up-front with the people around her, that'll draw me over. If she has a spat with her best friend and throws an ash-tray like she means it, well so help me that'll draw me over as well.
Face. Person. Clothes as a distant third IF they're sexy clothes.
Is it the same sort of feeling you get when you take in a great sunset or the view from a mountain top? I just don't know.
If a woman has a great face, that'll draw me over. If she has a loud mouth and a filthy laugh, that'll draw me over. If she's aggressive and up-front with the people around her, that'll draw me over. If she has a spat with her best friend and throws an ash-tray like she means it, well so help me that'll draw me over as well.
Face. Person. Clothes as a distant third IF they're sexy clothes.
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