Forgetting about a girl

[hyperhammy]

If you don't feel like reading my stupid story and just want to get to the question, here it is: what do you do to get a girl off your mind?

Well, my story. I used to live in Germany and met this really great girl. We had a rendez-vous, but then I had to move back to Germany. I really missed her.
Now, after 5 years I found this girl on facebook and we started chatting again. After about a month I came to visit her just to see if this was going anywhere.
On our first date we went to a mall and I didn't think anything was going to happen, but then on our second date we went to see inception and ,let's just say, it sparked.
After another great 3 days together I had to go leave, but I'm going back to visit her again over christmas. Now I need to get my mind off her and focus on my life here in Germany.

Also, is it possible to keep two lifes apart?

 

[Applejack]

I wouldn't do this unless your both just wanting to have some fun

 

[DeadlyYellow]

Just masturbate and get on with your day.

 

[hyperhammy]

I wouldn't do this unless your both just wanting to have some fun

Do what?
We both had a great time and it was the beft week of my life, it's just that it always depresses me afterwards.

 

[Snarky Username]

I usually make a call to Lacuna Inc around that time.

 

[Oilerfan92]

Thats great and all. But if your not going to be around her then its time to move on. Just a question. If shes in Germany, im assuming your in America. Am i correct ?

Cause if your far away its just not going to work. Hell, the girl i like is moving a bit out of town and i know its over unless something changes. If you try to make it work, your just going to tire yourself out, and spend way to much on trying to stay together.

 

[hyperhammy]

Thats great and all. But if your not going to be around her then its time to move on. Just a question. If shes in Germany, im assuming your in America. Am i correct ?

Cause if your far away its just not going to work. Hell, the girl i like is moving a bit out of town and i know its over unless something changes. If you try to make it work, your just going to tire yourself out, and spend way to much on trying to stay together.

It's the other way around, I live in Germany and she lives in America.

 

[WINDOWCLEAN2]

Both get Skype and stay in contact? Even if you can't maintain a relationship you could still be good friends.

 

[Palademon]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

 

[Trivun]

You'll never truly forget about this girl, if you really care about her. You can move on, but every now and then you'll reminisce about her. I remember a girl I met on holiday when I was younger, and after we both went home (me to the Midlands of the UK, her to Scotland), we stayed in touch and kept up a long distance relationship. It didn't last long, though we stayed friends afterwards, but then gradually lost touch. Since then there hasn't been a month in which I've not thought of that girl and what might have been, if only this had happened or that had happened or we'd lived closer to each other than we do. But I don't let it bother me, I just reminisce and then go back to living in the present. Last I heard she has a boyfriend now anyway (from Germany, coincidentally enough), and I haven't seen her for ages, so there's no point wishing or hoping. But thinking about the possibilities is nice, once in a while.

My point is, don't get your hopes up, and if it's only going to be a short term thing, then don't bother. You'll just hurt both of you in the meantime. Just keep her in your memory and leave it at that, anything more is just setting yourself up for a fall and it will not go well. For either of you. Trust me on this.

 

[hyperhammy]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

I didn't think it would spark.

 

[Applejack]

I wouldn't do this unless your both just wanting to have some fun

Do what?
We both had a great time and it was the beft week of my life, it's just that it always depresses me afterwards.

I meant try and have a long distance relationship. I have friends that tried that when moving to different colleges and it didn't exactly work. Date a few people until you see her again to see if she's really the important one, if she is ignore me.

 

[Palademon]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

I didn't think it would spark.

To stop depression you know what you should do?
Think about her, as much as possible.
Think about how great she is and how lucky you are to have met her.
Make plans for what you're going to do when you next see her, AND ENJOY IT.

 

[hyperhammy]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

I didn't think it would spark.

To stop depression you know what you should do?
Think about her, as much as possible.
Think about how great she is and how lucky you are to have met her.
Make plans for what you're going to do when you next see her, AND ENJOY IT.

Thanks, that sounds great!

 

[Palademon]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

I didn't think it would spark.

To stop depression you know what you should do?
Think about her, as much as possible.
Think about how great she is and how lucky you are to have met her.
Make plans for what you're going to do when you next see her, AND ENJOY IT.

Thanks, that sounds great!

Are you being sarcastic at me?
Talk to her often. Phon her and IM her when you miss her and want to talk, keep up with eachother's lives.
That's the closest thing to I've ever gotten to a relationship, girls over the internet saying how suprised they are that I'm single.

 

[hyperhammy]

You found a great girl and am having a good relationship.
...Yeah, FYL, feel depressed.
You must've known this would happen when you started dating?

I didn't think it would spark.

To stop depression you know what you should do?
Think about her, as much as possible.
Think about how great she is and how lucky you are to have met her.
Make plans for what you're going to do when you next see her, AND ENJOY IT.

Thanks, that sounds great!

Are you being sarcastic at me?
Talk to her often. Phon her and IM her when you miss her and want to talk, keep up with eachother's lives.
That's the closest thing to I've ever gotten to a relationship, girls over the internet saying how suprised they are that I'm single.

Nope, I love your advice and might do that.

 

[Tagball]

I know how you feel. When I was in Washington D.C. I met a girl that actually showed interest in me, of all people. The shortest guy in my program! I wasn't really enjoying my time at the program until I met her. She was absolutely gorgeous...like supermodel status.

Then, I had to go back to the mutants in NJ.

THE END

On Topic: You saw Inception together. It was meant to be.


Forgetting the girl in my story was difficult for me, especially the fact that that was the first beautiful girl that showed interest in me, but you have to pull through the depression.

If you're really still interested, you absolutely have to try a long-distance relationship.

 

[The Stonker]

Ah long distant relationships.
They fail most of the time but I would say about 1% of them are a success.
I would personally move on with my life and keep on going even tho it hurts for a little while then just go on.
You could always just take her Blitzkrieg style. (joke "if your dirty enough then you will get it")

 

[madmsk]

Alright, if you want to get over her, remove all contact is step number one. I mean ALL. Anything that reminds you of her, or anything even remotely related to her. Don't just hide it away, throw it out, sell it, give it to a friend, whatever.

If you actually plan on seeing her again, then you're kind of stuck. If you're still emotionally attached, then anything you do back in Germany will feel like cheating.

 

[Oilerfan92]

Thats great and all. But if your not going to be around her then its time to move on. Just a question. If shes in Germany, im assuming your in America. Am i correct ?

Cause if your far away its just not going to work. Hell, the girl i like is moving a bit out of town and i know its over unless something changes. If you try to make it work, your just going to tire yourself out, and spend way to much on trying to stay together.

It's the other way around, I live in Germany and she lives in America.

teh comment still applies

Exactly. Fact is that there are some things that you cant change, and not to say you shouldnt try, but im not packing my stuff and moving into a hollowed out van that i can follow the girl i like, could i ? Yes, but its not something i should do. Move on, best case scenerio you are long-distance friends. But dont try to convince yourself that if you packed up and moved to America she would marry you right then and there.