Friend trouble

[Death_Korps_Kommissar]

Right bare with me guys, this could be all over the place:

Okay so my friend C had a girlfriend right? Nearly three years they were going out until recently. I've spoken too both and pretty much my understanding of it is he broke up with her because his mam and sister thought he'd never have the balls and he hadn't got any for three weeks.
Yeah.
So that week he started to go out with my friend A, not a suprise but still too fucking quickly I thought
That ended a week later, after they had sex, because he was confused and didn't want a relationship.
So after talking to both girls, who were best friends, I wasn't happy with him at all, but friends stick together so I stuck with him.

But after dealing with so much shite and him getting a colon infection, he started to write loads of self pitying crap on facebook. He's after fucking two girls over and he expects people to feel sorry for him?
Still I tried to be civil so I text'd him, more of the same: I can't go on, I want her back but she is with someone else Wah Wah.
I flipped pretty much and took the tough love road and told him that it's something he just has to except and toughen up, that no amount of self pity and Emo facebook statuses that have people laughing at him, will cure. His only response is fuck off.
I continued, and I admit that I went overboard, but he's just seems to me to be content in his self centred bubble.
That and my friend Al probably isn't helping since they are both egotistical shovanists.

So thoughts?
Was I stupid? Is he stupid or are we all just stupid

 

[dmase]

If he is a true friend he'll be back once they figure out they are the one that is at fault. Even if he is a stupid asshole as long as he isnt blind and has people around him besides just you he'll get that your just being honest.

Shit happens, but after that little exchange its gonna be hard to figure out how to talk to him the right way.

 

[SilentCom]

Sound like a bunch of teenage drama. I think your friend C shouldn't have left his girlfriend for 3 years so quickly just because his mom and sister thought poorly of him. He acted rashly and if he still cares for his girlfriend, he should try to get back with her. Of course he might need to make up with her or whatever. If he is confused and doesn't want a relationship, then he should keep his mind preoccupied with something else like a hobby.

You were a bit blunt with your friend but I think it was warranted. He needs a little sense not consolences.

 

[Death_Korps_Kommissar]

Sound like a bunch of teenage drama. I think your friend C shouldn't have left his girlfriend for 3 years so quickly just because his mom and sister thought poorly of him. He acted rashly and if he still cares for his girlfriend, he should try to get back with her. Of course he might need to make up with her or whatever. If he is confused and doesn't want a relationship, then he should keep his mind preoccupied with something else like a hobby.

You were a bit blunt with your friend but I think it was warranted. He needs a little sense not consolences.

He tried to make up with her but she rejected him. Also his mam and sister were just joking with him but he is a fool.

Edit: And yes it is a bunch of teenage drama lol.

 

[SilentCom]

Sound like a bunch of teenage drama. I think your friend C shouldn't have left his girlfriend for 3 years so quickly just because his mom and sister thought poorly of him. He acted rashly and if he still cares for his girlfriend, he should try to get back with her. Of course he might need to make up with her or whatever. If he is confused and doesn't want a relationship, then he should keep his mind preoccupied with something else like a hobby.

You were a bit blunt with your friend but I think it was warranted. He needs a little sense not consolences.

He tried to make up with her but she rejected him. Also his mam and sister were just joking with him but he is a fool.

Edit: And yes it is a bunch of teenage drama lol.

Man am I glad that I was socially withdrawn during high school. I personally couldn't take all the drama. Anyways, since it seems that he wants to be with his girlfriend again, maybe you could encourage him to keep at it. Unless of course she is completely through with him and with another guy... Then I'd steer your friend away towards a hobby.

 

[SilentCom]

While I don't really see the point in including the story about the two girls(it's entirely irrelevant), emo kids generally just need a good world ending ass beating or 12 to straighten up. It's a symptom of the disease known as complacency.

I don't think an ass beating would help his friend, I think that'll make the situation worse... But I think I know what you're getting at, he needs to "toughen up" and grow out of the teenage angst/drama. Btw, complacency implies a sense of satisfaction or content. I think the situation illustrates something opposite of that considering his friend is not content with being separated by his gf due to his stupid mistakes.

 

[Death_Korps_Kommissar]

words

Thanks Aylaine, your always a help =P
But now I feel guilty as I don't think i should be taking sides. And apparently he regrets it, according to another friend of mine. So should I try and talk to him?