Gamergate, No "Right Side." - We Should Avoid Picking Sides

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Colour Scientist said:
This could have quite easily been posted in one of the existing GG threads rather that further monopolising the front page of OT.
Oh shush, we haven't gotten the whole front page to be about GG yet.

Also like that the OP specifies that there's no point talking in the GG thread, because people won't pay attention.
 

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grassgremlin said:
The only choice for us as the fence sitters is to not pick a side.
Isn't that the definition of 'fence sitter'? It seems like you're saying people who don't care should continue not caring. Well, that's most of everybody with regards to every issue anyway, so yeah why not?
 

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Considering you either support Gamergate or you don't (because you don't know, don't care, or don't agree), I'd say there's not exactly "two sides" here. #StopGamergate doesn't count as a side, it's just people who disagree, and disagree for any number of reasons.
Yeah... that statement couldn't be anymore wrong. There are three sides in this issue, those who support Gamergate, those that actively fight against it, and those that don't take a stance on either position (not supporting something is not the same as actively fighting against it, this would be considered a "neutral" side on the matter).
As GG is trying to achieve a goal, not helping is exactly the same as fighting against in that neither help them to achieve their goal, especially in this case. GG wants to see certain journalists fired, certain websites shut down or changed, and certain types of pieces no longer written. As these journalists are currently employed, these pieces are still being written, and these sites still running, not caring about whether or not they're fired means the same effect is achieved as those who are resisting those pushing for the call to have them shut down, they still remain open/employed.
 

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Can... can this be the new GG thread? Please, with a cherry on top?

Seriously though, as a former GG supporter I'm firmly entrenched in the idea that both sides are utterly abhorrent. So many personal attacks, blatant dismissals, villainization of the opposition, strawmanning the fuck out of people's arguments, complete disregard for being the better person; the list goes on. Nobody's in the right here. Not the pricks calling GamerGaters terrorists and subhuman, nor the monsters devoted to making Sarkessian's life hell. Seriously, at this point the only people that come to mind that I respect in regards to this debate is TB and Tito.

I also don't blame the OP for not wanting to post in the monster thread. I haven't been there in weeks, but if it's anything like it was when I dropped out of it then at best he would have gotten very biased responses, since so few against GG actually post there. At worst... well, I think you already know the answer to that one. We don't go to Ravenholm the GamerGate thread.

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grassgremlin said:
Anti-GG do not want to see the points of Gamergate, while Gamergate only acknowledges those who completely exercise there ideals from Feminism or SJW. In a sense. You can't be a SJW and support Gamergate, that's the rhetoric I hate.
That depends on how you define a SJW and what you stand for. I agree with the gamergate stuff and I'd consider myself a "feminist". I may not have a social sciences degree, but in college I took a few courses on race and gender relations (because contrary to popular belief, there's more to such a topic than women). I know what my privileges are and I know what they aren't. Going by what I've seen, SJW's just want to argue about political correctness and do a bunch of finger pointing. Hell, I hate the phrase itself. Social Just "Warrior". We don't need warriors, there is no war. What people need are education and understanding.
People who are labeled as "SJWs" do not call themselves that. It is a pejorative term used by GGers to refer to those who are offended by the harassment of women in the industry.

Lets look at the timeline overview here: GG started as a group trying to shame everyone involved in the Zoe Quinn Scandal (Except her ex boyfriend). When people suggested that they were trying to slut shame Quinn (which may or may not have been the case), they called those people "SJWs" and disregarded their concerns. And then the harassment of women, Zoe Quinn and others, escalated to the point where the GG movement had to fall back and deny that it was ever a misogynist movement. They legitimately were concerned about journalists accepting sexual favors for reviews at the start, seen as a sign of corruption in the industry but it was vastly overshadowed by the vitriol thrown at Quinn at the time.

Now, they see themselves as opponents to these "SJWs," but in reality those people they define as such are not trying to prevent anyone from looking into the corruption levels in the video game industry. They just want people to stop harassing and threatening women (or anybody, for that matter) in the industry. Anyone who is pro-GG should avoid calling people "SJWs," because that is directly saying "I hate that people think I shouldn't harass women in whatever way I see fit." Social Justice and GamerGate are /NOT/ diametrically opposite viewpoints in theory, a person could support both. If you really care about the corruption in the industry, you should realize that singling out women or those who support women in video games only muddies the water, and clouds the issue.
 

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Pluvia said:
erykweb said:
They legitimately were concerned about journalists accepting sexual favors for reviews at the start, seen as a sign of corruption in the industry but it was vastly overshadowed by the vitriol thrown at Quinn at the time.
Don't forget that the review they claimed they were getting in an uproar about never existed and there was zero evidence of Quinn granting sexual favours to any journalists for gain.

That, coupled with the "SJW" comments (and a whole bunch of other stuff), made everyone see right through the "Journalistic ethics" smokescreen.
The reason I did not mention that is that it did not come out that all of that were lies made up by the aforementioned ex boyfriend until a week or so later. It is interesting to note, however, that GG was born in an act of harassment of a woman (by the ex boyfriend). This article has a good look at how all of this happened, and how well intentioned people have been mislead over time by the message of the movement, despite its behavior: http://jezebel.com/gamergate-trolls-arent-ethics-crusaders-theyre-a-hate-1644984010


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thaluikhain said:
Colour Scientist said:
This could have quite easily been posted in one of the existing GG threads rather that further monopolising the front page of OT.
Oh shush, we haven't gotten the whole front page to be about GG yet.

Also like that the OP specifies that there's no point talking in the GG thread, because people won't pay attention.
Translation: "for the umpteenth time, no we're not going to disband or re-organize the entire movement, nor try to once again discuss why YOU think GG is about Subject X when we've been talking about Q, B and R for the last fifteen pages. Please do realize that after 700 pages, we've heard all the standard routines numerous times and could you try being a bit original this time out for pity's sake".
 

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There really aren't two 'sides', are there?

You might make an argument how Gamergate is a 'side', but what accountability does it have? It just seems like a huge mess to me.
The anti-Gamergate seems to be either people who aren't on board with them (for various reasons, by now a lot of people just want them to go away so they can talk about video-games) or some nebulous 'SJWs' who are doing somethingsomething Tumblrsomethingconspiracy.

And considering how the term 'SJW' is thrown around, if you unironically describe your opposition as that it's pretty likely I'll be siding with them and going 'no, I'm gonna pick that side'.

I'll tell you what.
Gamergate has done a lot to make many people start using 'gamer' as a pejorative.

I NEVER heard the word 'gamer' used in a negative light before this whole business, where now in many circles who aren't video-game focused 'gamer' has become synonymous with 'Gamergater'.

So, well done.

I never had to be ashamed to call myself a gamer before because for example in feminist circles no one cared if you played video-games.

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For the record, I don't think Gamergate rose just from misogynism. There was also the pre-existing distrust of reviewers.
It wasn't only that a woman was involved, it was that ALSO buying reviews, which a lot of people believe happens (despite the evidence to the contrary) and that added with the fear of losing an identiy = perfect storm of shit.

Now, I do think there are problems with the review-system (think of the Shadow of Mordor-thing) but there are two ideas thrown around every time a review people don't agree with is posted:
1) that the reviewer was paid off. As if companies would resort to directly bribing like that
2) that it's unfair reviewers get free games, I want free games too! Unfair!

Which both make you sound childish.
 

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erykweb said:
The reason I did not mention that is that it did not come out that all of that were lies made up by the aforementioned ex boyfriend until a week or so later
Since you brought that whole mess up, recall that she actually admitted to "all the lies", so no, they're not all lies. Also recall that Grayson did indeed write an article favorable about her (indeed, it practically makes her the center and heroic figure of "Game Jam"), at a time when they had a close relationship. The sex didn't begin until nearly a whole month later, so of course since sexual contact is the point where game reporter/game developer relations suddenly become an issue, no concern whatsoever there.

Hey, I wouldn't mention it except you decided it was worth trying to dismiss the entire movement over an incident no one otherwise cares about in the face of "Gamers Are Dead" articles that REALLY pissed everyone off.

Care to talk about those?

http://jezebel.com/
Ah yes, THE source for balanced news regarding feminist issues, almost as clean-cut as Breitbart. Since we're tossing around news sources, though, at least the latter produced documentation of journalistic favoritism (because "let's use this as an excuse" to review a game developer's game isn't iffy in any way).

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Lieju said:
I never had to be ashamed to call myself a gamer before because for example in feminist circles no one cared if you played video-games.
Ah, then you never read any of the dozen articles which kicked Gamergate into high gear.

Since, after all, their entire point was to tell you WHY you should be ashamed to call yourself a gamer, and why specifically there were feminist reasons that you should be ashamed.

Or, you could go with Samantha Allen's screed on how no one who is not a straight male "cannot feel safe" on any gaming-related forum, including several of those which wrote the "Gamers Are Dead" articles, a year beforehand. Do you feel "unsafe", even here, just inches of textspace away from the Gamergate forum thread which makes you feel so ashamed to be a gamer?

http://www.reactionzine.com/an-open-letter-to-games-media/

And just remember, this is the same woman who literally, openly, proudly, hates you if you have male genitalia:

http://www.fstdt.com/QuoteComment.aspx?QID=101902

EDIT: Here's a much better link --- the Internet Wayback Machine remembers all!

https://web.archive.org/web/20140701225929/http://unpitchable.tumblr.com/post/79931857273/what-misandry-means-to-me

i?m a misandrist. that means i hate men. i?m not a cute misandrist. i don?t have a fridge magnet that says, ?boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.? my loathing cannot be contained by a fridge magnet.

i am not an equality feminist. i don?t believe that an asymmetrical world will be cured by polite obsequence to male-dominated systems. i am not a liberal humanist. i don?t believe that i need to stand up for men when they?ve been standing on top of everyone else.

misandry is not a political program; it?s a stance. i don?t care whether hating men is a good or bad feminist strategy (and i care even less what men think about misandry). i don?t think i have a responsibility to change the world. i think i have a responsibility to survive.


GamerGate wasn't started by misogyny.

It was started by misandry.
 

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Calbeck said:
Lieju said:
I never had to be ashamed to call myself a gamer before because for example in feminist circles no one cared if you played video-games.
Ah, then you never read any of the dozen articles which kicked Gamergate into high gear.

Since, after all, their entire point was to tell you WHY you should be ashamed to call yourself a gamer, and why specifically there were feminist reasons that you should be ashamed.
And I had no bloody reason to care. Why do you care about people like those then?
I never read Leigh Alexander or whoever it is who so offended some gamers. Just like with Sarkeesian, I would have never heard of them without all the people opposing them and dragging the discussion to places where I go just to talk about video-games.

They had no significance to me.

But now suddenly a 'gamer' has become a synonym for 'gamergater' in places and in discussions where it simply meant a 'person playing games' before.

Calbeck said:
It was started by misandry.
I thought it was started by 'a lack of journalist ethics'.
 

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I'll happily join the on-the-fencers if it stops hogging forums. Doubt it will though.
 

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Lieju said:
Calbeck said:
Lieju said:
I never had to be ashamed to call myself a gamer before because for example in feminist circles no one cared if you played video-games.
Ah, then you never read any of the dozen articles which kicked Gamergate into high gear.

Since, after all, their entire point was to tell you WHY you should be ashamed to call yourself a gamer, and why specifically there were feminist reasons that you should be ashamed.
And I had no bloody reason to care. Why do you care about people like those then?
I never read Leigh Alexander or whoever it is who so offended some gamers. Just like with Sarkeesian, I would have never heard of them without all the people opposing them and dragging the discussion to places where I go just to talk about video-games.

They had no significance to me.

But now suddenly a 'gamer' has become a synonym for 'gamergater' in places and in discussions where it simply meant a 'person playing games' before.
I care because I spent a majority of my life being teased and harassed simply for enjoying video games and now I gotta deal with shit who are supposedly supposed to write for me? Sorry, but I refuse to let that lie.
 

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Lieju said:
And I had no bloody reason to care. Why do you care about people like those then?
You're defending stereotypes developed by an open misandrist?

I never read Leigh Alexander or whoever it is who so offended some gamers.
Well then, kindly don't go around telling people they're overreacting to something you haven't bothered to check for yourself.

Just like with Sarkeesian, I would have never heard of them without all the people opposing them and dragging the discussion to places where I go just to talk about video-games.
That's... what SHE was doing, and what other people were doing in response. Talking about video-games.

So you just wanted to go someplace to talk about games and then someone talked about games and someone else talked about games and you're being huffy about it because they didn't talk about the games the way you wanted?

But now suddenly a 'gamer' has become a synonym for 'gamergater' in places and in discussions where it simply meant a 'person playing games' before.
Synonym to WHO? And incidentally, before you start in talking about "unwanted national attention" (since, honestly, I can only presume that's what you're talking about), exactly who made it a national issue, aside from people who're opposed to the movement?

Oh, and also before you go on a possible tangent about threats --- the USU police, in conjunction with the FBI, have investigated Ms. Sarkeesian's most recent threat claims and dismissed them. Not only did they dismiss them, but comments were also made to the effect that the previous threats were just as empty.

http://www.usu.edu/ust/index.cfm?article=54178

And yet, Ms. Sarkeesian has been riding a minor tidal wave of supportive national press which seems not to want to bother to inquire with the FBI as to how its investigations went. And that's why things have gone national, and that's why the term "gamer" is synonymous with "gamergate" --- assuming one can realistically make that statement.

Calbeck said:
It was started by misandry.
I thought it was started by 'journalist ethics'.
A journalist being a misandrist, and shopping misandry to push a journalistic narrative... is ethical?
 

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I dont see it in the way of two perspectives fighting over which opinion is right because the answer is already crystal clear for many.
They only argue semantics and not the actual issues.