I don't think we are even having the same conversation.maxben said:If I say that Vanilla is a joke of a flavour and anyway all ice cream is bad, I am attacking vanilla in specific even if I make a sideways comment about all ice cream. I can't believe that you don't see that.WWmelb said:And the spin you put on this is just as bad.maxben said:No, that's not what he did. What he did was call JEWS hypocrites in that scenario. Specifically. He specifically said that Jews run Hollywood, and its the fault of the Jews. And then he compared it to Jews using "Kraut" as an insult. Beyond that being rare as hell, unlike antisemetism, when did the Jews kill 6 million of Gibson's people? Never you say? So even if some old Jew says Kraut as an insult, we tend to let it slide because of history (likely his/her family or themselves were victims of Nazis) and the fact that the Germans are hardly a vulnerable people what with being one of the strongest countries in the world militarily and economically. So don't give me that, you are completely misrepresenting what he said to make it more palatable.WWmelb said:After reading the article and interview, i really think as often is the case, his comments have been kind of misrepresented here on the escapist.
He really didn't defend Mel Gibson's comments, but his right to say them, and attacked his attackers for being hypocrites.
"So they persecute. Mel Gibson is in a town that?s run by Jews and he said the wrong thing because he?s actually bitten the hand that I guess has fed him?and doesn?t need to feed him anymore because he?s got enough dough. He?s like an outcast, a leper, you know? But some Jewish guy in his office somewhere hasn?t turned and said, ?That fucking kraut? or ?Fuck those Germans,? whatever it is?"
The fact that he then goes on and uses the old "everyone's racist" line does not absolve him of what he said specifically in relation to the Gibson case.
Here is the WHOLE Paragraph
"Alec calling someone an F-A-G in the street while he?s pissed off coming out of his building because they won?t leave him alone. I don?t blame him. So they persecute. Mel Gibson is in a town that?s run by Jews and he said the wrong thing because he?s actually bitten the hand that I guess has fed him?and doesn?t need to feed him anymore because he?s got enough dough. He?s like an outcast, a leper, you know? But some Jewish guy in his office somewhere hasn?t turned and said, ?That fucking kraut? or ?Fuck those Germans,? whatever it is? We all hide and try to be so politically correct. That?s what gets me. It?s just the sheer hypocrisy of everyone, that we all stand on this thing going, ?Isn?t that shocking?? [smiles wryly] All right. Shall I stop talking now? What else can we discuss?"
Yeah, how he phrases things is insensitive, but that seems to be kind of his point.
Anyway, you started your quote from the article at a point where he was talking about Alec Baldwyn, who insulted someone with a pretty bland but insensitive insult, then cut the quote off halfway through, and finished it with your own interpretation of what he said, not his actual words.
He said everyone's a hypocrite but when it sells to do so they'll stand on they're soapboxes and act like it's the end of the fucking world.
And you know what? He's not far off there about society in general.
I'm not defending him either by the way, a lot of his comments left a really bad taste in my mouth, but, you know what? i get where he is coming from. He's pissed off at having tiptoe around everyone and act all PC all the time, for the hypocritical masses who will jump on anyone for anything, when.. in all seriousness, MOST people have fucking said something stupid/insensitive/hurtful in their lives, but won't forgive it of anyone else.
Oh and seriously
I'm sorry that doesn't fly with me. Yes the holocaust was fucking tragic, and we all wish it never happened, however.maxben said:So even if some old Jew says Kraut as an insult, we tend to let it slide because of history (likely his/her family or themselves were victims of Nazis) and the fact that the Germans are hardly a vulnerable people what with being one of the strongest countries in the world militarily and economically.
Racism isn't a pissing contest. "I've been more persecuted than you in the past so it's A-OK if i'm a bigot towards a nationality.
I don't accept that.
Like i said, he old Gary comes off as a prick in this interview, but dear god do i find it refreshing reading an interview like that isn't just all smiles and PC responses and movie plugs.
The man's human, and not the most likable one, but definitely a real one.
And wait, if your parents were murdered in the Holocaust you wouldn't be angry for the rest of your life? The only Jew I've ever seen make a comment like Oldman is talking about is over 60, and you do realize the Holocaust happened 70 years ago right? You can't just ignore that people who have suffered are going to be angry. What does Gibson have a right to whine about? He and his people have NEVER been persecuted. Germans have never been persecuted against either, they, like the British and White Americans, were the ones doing the persecuting against Jews, against gays, against blacks (go read about what happened in Namibia). The strong who have abused their positions cannot turn around and whine that people are angry with them.
And yes, you can compare the suffering from discrimination for black versus white people in the US. Black people have it worse. If you can't compare suffering from discrimination in some cases, then you are choosing to be blind.
The man is human, so is every single human being you meet. Many of them aren't antisemetic, in fact I hope and believe that most aren't.
I don't care if you agree with me or not, by the way, but at least try to see it from the perspective of someone Jewish (which is what I give you here). This has nothing to do with being PC. Carlin wasn't PC. Louis CK isn't PC. However, they weren't PC AND not antisemites/bigots, so what they said never came off as antisemetic or antigay or antiblack, etc. to the majority of the people in those groups.
I wasn't talking about jewish people in particular. I, personally, was talking about society at large.
And yes, actually, do believe people need to not take ANY anger in the form of prejudice or bigotry out on a race or nation of people, because of the actions of others who happen to be a part of that race / nationality / religion.
I certainly understand, even if i can't personally relate, to jewish people being angry .. anyone having been through similar being angry, but i certainly don't think it's going to fix anything, it could in fact, make things worse.
I still stand that this article came off making gary oldman seem way more crazy and bigoted than the article did. I also would say, as i did, that Mr Oldman came across as a bit of a prick, and insensitive, but i don't think he came across homophobic or antisemitic. Mel Gibson on the other hand did.
I didn't take his comments as "jews make racist comments towards white people, so it's okay if white people do too". What i took him saying was "Nearly all people have been assholes and said stupid shit at some point, you shouldn't cruicify someone for one stupid outburst". But yes he did it in an insensitive way.
I also don't think calling someone a "fag" in anger makes you a bigot towards homosexuals. Insensitive and thoughtless maybe, but not bigoted.
I'm tired and rambling and it's bed time.